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I met this guy on a trip over a year ago, we hit it off and he pursued me despite living 2,000 miles apart. We made it as real of a relationship via long distance as possible (phone sex, watch tv together, talk/text daily). After 5 months of this our schedules worked and we met for 5 days to spend more time together.
Something just clicked and we acted like we had been together for years, everything really comfortable. I was treated like a princess. I know it scared me and I will assume it scared him as after that weekend I never heard from him again. I did write him an email to try to get some closure but never heard anything. We didn't have each other on social media so it was a clean split of no communication.

A few months ago I saw a profile show up for him in my Facebook people you may know but never added him. I had signed up a month ago for a business's social media site and I guess because we had emailed before he received an invite. Randomly he signed up and added me. I didn't think much of this but then saw he was only adding myself and family members despite being a business owner who should use site to promote work. I also saw some of his family members creeping on my page but not adding me.
I ended up deciding that if he was reaching out to add him to Facebook which he accepted immediately. I have yet to hear from him and haven't contacted him.

Not too sure what to think except that maybe he had heard that I am trying to move to the same state he lives in (for my work only).
I'm a pretty straight shooter and not too sure if I should just wait for him or message him myself. I had moved on but am now single again and I know what we had was special and don't want to ruin anything if there's a chance we'd get a clean start.

Really would love a guys thought on this.

Thanks for listening.

I asked a similar question like this last night, but I left out some details. I broke it off with a guy I was seeing because he couldn't commit. he tried really hard to have me understand, he had been in a relationship (just one) for practically his entire young adult life, it ended badly, and he didn't want to look back on this time in his life and feel like he missed something. He has been in and out of my life for about two years now, each time I end it he tries hard after a little while to get back in. I don't think it's about sex because whenever I don't want to have sex it's not a big deal, we just do something else we like to do instead. he is very respectful, kind, and understanding of me and we pretty much act like a couple in public. I feel like I have put the pressure on for a relationship somewhat quick and fast this time just because I know he has been unable to in the fast and I was immediately worried about it, and i feel like I may have pressured him too fast, because at the beginning it was "I don't know" and then it went to that he couldn't handle it, as I somewhat kept the pressure on. nothing else was wrong. we have such a good time together, he tells me how absolutely beautiful I am as well as how smart he thinks I am, and he values my opinions. Sometimes we just look at each other and smile, not saying anything. But I got angry about a week ago and just told him I couldn't do it and not to call me again (he really hates to hear that, argues with me about it). It was a rash decision, but I was scared, and I still am. I just don't understand when some one feels so strongly for another they can't be committed to that person. I don't feel like I am the reason, but am I?