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A little mad with my partner who promised to attend 2 meetings a week after work in the evenings. He was going well for the first month and a half and then on one particular week he claims he didn't go due to feeling tired but managed to be awake enough to play internet games and watch Netflix and the following week he claims he forgot to go and was vegging out in front of TV.

I told him I got the impression that he wasn't totally committed to helping his recovery and this was one of the agreements we made upon me taking him back and giving him a second chance after he had been keeping his drinking problem a secret from me for months.

I told him that these were very flimsy excuses for laziness and that the message I get when he doesn't go is that he also does not value me as his partner and the agreement he initially made and also gives off the impression that he doesn't really care about trying to repair himself and our relationship.

He got defensive pretty much because I called him out on his Shitty excuses.