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I’m really scared because this guy I’m talking to I asked if he wanted sex. He has the tendency to say no to things he wants. So I kept asking him if he wanted sex however he’s really weird md shy and kept saying no and pulling his pants down and showed his dick. So I assumed obviously he wanted me to get on top so I said I’m gonna get on top of him. He froze up. So I asked if he was okay and he said yes and said he was okay. And I moved his hand to my butt and he started sucking on my boob. And I got on him and he moaned but kept saying wow this is like rape an I looked at him confused but w was pulling me on top of him. And then I rode him a bit but he kept blabbing so I told him to stfu. Then his dick slipped out and he told me to turn around and we did doggy. Then afterwards I kissed his neck and told him it was good dick and he was happy. But everytime I bring up sex to him he looks terrified and nervous and scared did I rape him? Or do u think he was raped before?

I am the one who initiated the friends with benefits relationship but somehow found myself falling in love after 8 months so I cut off the benefits, attempting to remain friends. We got along so well but neither of us wanted a relationship, although I suspect he may have feelings for me too.

One day, we were hanging out at my place after a long time apart. I had told him before he came that there would be no sex. We did kiss, but he took it too far and forcefully put himself on top of me, groping me and removing my clothes 3 separate times despite me telling him to stop and pushing him away. I told him to leave but he didn't until a few hours later.

We talked over messenger where i told him what he did was wrong and that I felt terrified and humiliated. He seemed genuinely apologetic but I told him we wouldn't be seeing each other again.

It's been 3 weeks and I am a complete wreck. I am so conflicted, wanting to contact him and talk it out face to face, while at the same time never wanting to see him again. He messaged once to ask if was okay, which baffled me. I don't know if this has affected him as badly as it has me. I'm not okay. I can't focus at work, I can't eat, and I wake up in cold sweats over it most nights and despite it all I still have feelings for him. I didn't answer because how do you answer that question when you're falling apart?

Should I contact him? I'm especially curious what men think about this, as all the women I've talked to say to "just block that asshole", but that feels so cold to me

A man would need physical touch (hugs, kisses, sex, etc.) more than emotional connection to FEEL close to his partner (d oesn't mean he doesn't require an emotional connection) - hence men are less comfortable with long distance relationships than women. But for women, emotional connection is more important, women get emotionally more attached, physical connection is less important. True or false?