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Just started work at a bar. Are these signs?

1. I arrived 5 mins early. She said I should chat to her until my shift started

2. When I handed her a glass our hands touched for like 2 secs and she gave me a really big smile looking direct in my eyes

3. She asked me how old I was. I told her. When I asked her same question she got flustered and gave her age but then said it was nearly her bday. Was she trying to make the age gap between us smaller (like maybe was she worried I wouldn't want a girl 3 years younger or am I over thinking this)

4. I said happy early birthday. Wasn't even a funny joke. But she laughed real hard for a few secs

5. She is friendly to customers. But when I was near by and a customer said to her "maybe you should come out with me sometime" she just ignored it and asked him for the money for his drinks even tho he wasn't rude at all to her. Was she sending me a message?

So a guy keeps asking nicely by text, facebook messages if you would like to hang out but you do not really like this guy. You do not want to be rude and say no so you reply that you are busy. What would you do if he kept asking but not that often, but once every 2 weeks? would you keep saying you are busy, would you just hang out or would you tell him you don't want to hang out?

You are in the same class but almost never talk because the class is so big

I met this girl a few weeks ago and I'd flirted with her playful previously. I decided to ask her out this week so I flirted a more aggressively, playful stares, smiling, playful touching. She was making eye contact and returning the playful stares, but she didn't touch me back.

The night was getting close to ending so I flirted even more to make sure she (hopefully) knew I liked her before I asked her out to build some anticipation. Everyone was in a big circle so I went and grabbed the ball and threw it at her butt from across the court. She gave me the 'I can't believe you just did that' look and called me rude, so I fake apologized and hit her in the butt with the ball again. She then ran over to the other side of the circlle. After that we split into teams and she wanted to play with the ball I had because it was hers, so I playful told her to turn around (so I could hit her in the butt with it again) and she was again clearly flustered by that and chose to play with another ball instead of letting me hit her in the butt again.

As the last game ended I picked up the ball. When she came to get it I faked giving it to her then pulled it away. She said "oh fine you keep it" and walked away. As she was headed back to her car I walked up to her and said "you know, you're really cute when you're flustered". She put her hand out for the ball and gave kind of a pouty submissive look with her head tilted down. I took her hand it mine and shook it in a silly shake motion. I made sure to let her hand rest in my with only a slight grip so that she could easily pull her hand away if she wanted to, but she did not. The silly handshake lasted for about ~15 seconds while I asked her if she was free this week. She said she was "legitimately busy this week", so I told her I'd give her my number and for her to call me. She took my number, asked for my last name, and I told her to enjoy her week and we left.

What do you think? Did I flirt well or was she annoyed by it?

Yet, she's a hypocrite because long ago I clearly remembered her saying ''If you ever cheat on me, I'll break your car windows''. Then another time, I heard her talking to her best friend about the cheating topic and it went something like this ''Oh he better not cheat on, I might slap him after damaging his care'' and her friend was laughing and suggesting a kick in the balls.

Turns out she's been cheating for 2 whole months. I end up drinking my glass of orange juice and spat it all in her face. Then left fast. I mean this is no where compare to what she and her friend were suggesting they would do to a guy that cheats. Though, I don't know. Part of me still feels I should have left instead. What do you all think?

Also, I have never really been rude but now it's annoying that some girls would do much more to a male cheater and yet if we do anything even remotely close to what they were saying, we're in big trouble already.