How to be Confident

QueenofSexyFoxes


I noticed a lot of you seem to lack this confidence. "Oh why doesn't he like my pictures?" "Is it bad to be 27 year old virgin?" so listen up cause I am blunt as fuck.


Confidence. What is it?


con·fi·dence
ˈkänfədəns/Submit
noun
the feeling or belief that one can rely on someone or something; firm trust.
"we had every confidence in the staff"
synonyms: trust, belief, faith, credence, conviction
"I have little confidence in these figures"
the state of feeling certain about the truth of something.
"it is not possible to say with confidence how much of the increase in sea levels is due to melting glaciers"
a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.
"she's brimming with confidence"
synonyms: self-assurance, self-confidence, self-possession, assertiveness; More


Got it? Good lets begin with a tale.


As most of you know by now, I was heavily bullied over my weight and cause idiots thought I was a lesbian (I am straight but it doesn't really matter what I am). My self esteem was basically SHIT. Nearly killed myself. Yet now I am confidence with a great self esteem.


First step: Stop Giving A Fuck


How to be Confident


Seriously. Before, I would cry even for the littlest insult. Oh I never been kissed. Oh this, oh that. Look people (especially you virgin boys who want sex), life isn't perfect. We all know this. Instead of crying cause you got called a lonely virgin or cause your crush didn't like your picture, go party.


Own it


How to be Confident


Listen, I will be the first to admit this step is hard. I am not the hottest girl. Probably not even close but I work with what I got. If you are a shy boy with bucked teeth who love cars, own it. Don't worry about your teeth, I mean if they bother you, go fix them but if they don't, own it. You want to increase your boob size for a guy? Why not own what you got?


Hangout With Friends (Unless Your Lonely, Than Go Make Friends)


How to be Confident


I got betrayed a lot by friends but the ones I got now are amazing! If I got trouble, I can count on all my bruhhs. Maybe you want this certain person to love you, bro, what if it doesn't work out? Then you got your broes and sisters to love you. Trust me they boost confidence. If they suck, drop em and get new ones.


Fake It


How to be Confident


So I suffer from depression so I get randomly sad and just feel like shit. But when you see me, you won't see that. You will see confidence. What I do, is straighten my back, chest out and act all fly. No one will know your faking it unless you really suck at it. So what if I am ugly? I got the strut. Fake confidence to get some confidence. Also try to pick a feature. Like my eyes. They are big. So I say "Damn I got the biggest, sexiest eyes evah" Even if its not true, it helps me appreciate me more. APPRECIATE YOURSELF!


I hope you liked my first myTake. If not, I don't care lol.


Love for my baes <3 <3 <3 <3


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How to be Confident
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