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So do you think each sex has a habit of projecting their own desires onto the other sex, and assuming they want the same thing?

For instance, the "nice guy" cliche. A LOT of guys assume that being kind and sweet to a girl is very attractive. Do they assume this because a lot of guys would be more attracted to a girl who is sweet to him? Or is it just media-social-family programming/bad assumption? So a lot of guys go through a bitter awakening when they see that there are tons of gorgeous girls who are devoted to men who don't really treat them nicely or seem to care that much.

Or another instance... women. Women, dare I say, judge men on a variety of things. Your looks, your fitness, strength, education, charisma, confidence, wit, money. Do they not? Therefore, do women falsely assume that men care much about the same? Such as, how many times have you seen an article/heard a woman lament about how she has a degree, her own house, a career, has traveled, yet men her age just want to date women younger and hotter than her? Another example, a recent Huffpost article about a woman who couldn't get online dates... and she looks perhaps 40 pounds overweight, yet she no where considers that might be hurting her. Is it because women are often forgiving of extra weight on a man (I've seen fat friends/coworkers with hot women) so they discard the idea that being fat hurts their chances with men?

So what do you think? Does each sex, to a certain degree, mistakenly assume the other sex wants the same things in a partner?

I read a new article from the "Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin" that men tend to prefer women who are nice and friendly, whereas women tend to prefer men who are unresponsive and less agreeable. Here is an excerpt

“Some women may perceive a responsive man as over eager to please and therefore as less dominant and more feminine,” said the researchers."
"Prof Birnbaum added: "Some women, for example, may interpret responsiveness negatively and feel uncomfortable about a new acquaintance who seems to want to be close."

This boggles my mind, and honestly is most likely the reason I have been unsuccessful with dozens of potential girlfriends.

Back to my question, is this trend cultural or biological? Are women innately attracted to men who dont care about them? If its cultural, what can we do to tweak male behavior and female selection for both sexes to be happy? If its biological, are all nice men doomed to fat ugly women?

Let me illustrate to you ladies: most often, when I am unresponsive to a woman, it is because I am unattracted to her and I dont care if I ever date/sleep with her. Nothing is going to change my mind. Attraction won't develop over time, and you are not going to win me over. If anything happens, I will fuck you and leave you for a more attractive woman. I am being blunt because many ladies need to learn this and I can't stress this enough. If I give a woman less attention, and Im less nice to her, its simply that I dont like/care/find that woman attractive and the ONLY thing that I would do with her is fuck her and leave her. THATS IT! DONE! The sooner you ladies accept that, the better your lives will be. Yet, why do you find those men more attractive?