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I only have a minimum number of characters to write so I have to sum this up the best I can.

I have been dating this girl for 9 months. We haven't been able to see each other that much because of an age gap. She just turned 19, I am 16 about to turn 17. So the age gap is just enough to cause concern and she does not want to talk to her mother. We have broke up several times but been back and fourth.

She talks to me all the time and she really does appear to be a future wife someday from how much I know her.
It's very hard to see each other, I believe she has rebounded twice now and currently she is with another guy.
It's hard on me because I am very jealous and really do love her still however I do not want to be led on.
She still sexts me sometimes and says she loves me every so often, I do realize this is cheating and don't really support it. I can't tell if I am being led on, I have asked her and of course she denies it, and says she isn't sure what we want. I haven't seen her in 2 months.

We talk on the phone a lot, in fact almost every other night.

I don't want to date her if she is dating other guys, but I really really do love her and understand it can be hard if we've been away as long as we have.

What can I do to mix things up?
- FaceTime

What else?
Sneaking over is kind of out of the question considering it's about 15-20 miles away, a long bike ride if you ask me.

Help? End or Continue? Or any ideas to make her interested?

I am trying but so far to this point she refuses to talk to her mom because of how her mom feels on the issue.

- Thanks.

So it's been 3 months of no contact I leave in the fall.. we broke up things got messy but she had to end things. Her mom was telling her if she's moves out with me she would never talk to her again. She wouldn't have a free college ride anymore. We were sneaking around like only twice a month. Things led to miscommunication distrust and just a cluster fuck of a relationship. I was too busy to put in the effort to fix it and when I tried it was too late. I still do love her. She said hopefully we can try this again when we move out havw our shit together. Right before I leave should I reach out.. this will be another 3 to 4 months. So that will be 6 To 7 months on no contact in total. Or should I just say she dumped me.. don't bother. She left me with so many questionship and such weird behavior I couldn't figure out. My optimistic side tells me she was really torn and I should believe her when she said saying goodbye was the hardest thing she's ever done. That she did believe I didn't care and she did believe I was using her. My other side tells me she just lost interest and didn't really love me.

Add your opinions? Which one gets you and which one doesn't relate to you?

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-When she ignores you give her your attention.
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-When she pulls away pull her back.
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-When you see her start crying just hold her and don't say a word.
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