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A month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of 4yrs over looking through his phone that led to a heated argument. I spent many nights crying and suffered insomnia. I missed him of course, terribly. Few weeks later I get a message from him askin if I needed to smoke with him. I said yes. I got ready and waited a little. He ended up coming over here. I hugged him & we were laughing n smokin then it got late & he stayed the night. I kept my side of the bed and he got close to me. I tried to stay away, but he kept pulling me close that I screamed on the inside. We kissed then one thing led to another. After that night he's been seeing me a lot but I try to keep it light. I don't know what to do there's still things that haven't been said. How can I address the elephant in the room w/o getting shut down and looked through? How can we have a better relationship?

I broke up with my ex of 4 and 1/2 years 3 weeks ago over a huge argument, we've had trouble in the past but i honestly thought we were doing better together as a couple. He hasn't been in touch with me since, but he's been asking about me to mutual friends. I was completely in love with him but i was extremely passionate and fiery. He was distant after every argument and very secretive regarding other women, i found out he went on dating websites and he chased after female friends emotionally. He loved attention, and was immature. I was also the first girl he'd kissed and been with, i'd dated other guys but he's my first long term relationship and love.

Now we've spent a month apart i've had time to grow as a person, i'm happier and less stressed. I've learnt a new language, got in the best shape i've ever been in, learnt how to swim. But i miss what we could have had together, i miss the stupid little things. The sweet gestures he made etc. I honestly believed that he was the guy that i was going to spend my life with.

However there's a new guy who i've been talking to and we seem to get along quite well. He's funny and sweet. Nothing serious, but he asked me out for a drink and i'm unsure of what to do.

Should i give this new guy a chance? Or should i try and contact my ex?