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So I've had 2 previous serious relationships
The 1st one - we been together for 6 months
And after the break up, my ex boyfriend got into another relationship few months after
Whereas I got into another relationship 2 years later
She wasn't attractive either

The 2nd one - we been together for nearly 3 years
Broke up in January this year
After the break up, he got into another relationship few months after
The girl is quite fat but has an attractive face

I'm still single
I've had guys wanting to get to know me and all but I'm not attracted to them
The ones that Im attracted to.. are either wanting only one night stands or "too busy for relationship" so only wants to casually date

Im really picky on men... I need to be attracted to their looks AND personality

Naturally, I am a very intense person and I love talking about things I love to do, topics I find interesting, etc. I'm like an Italian with my hand gestures, I always have to have the last word, and I'm extremely energetic to a point where it may be pathological (lmao). I tend to bottle my emotions up and at some moments, it all comes out. I feel like a badass when I'm vulnerable and showing everyone who I am/ what I'm all about. However, I'm still focused on things that matter to me and I think before I speak on sensitive subjects. I am also very attracted to guys who are intense and have dominant and leader-like personalities. To be honest though, I can sometimes be seen as bitchy and dramatic in situations where I feel like I've totally been wronged. I just want to be seen as a strong woman who can stand up for herself and what she believes in. I express my emotions fully and I wear my heart on my sleeve. I really am proud of this and I don't want to change who I am to become more "stable" or less "intense." I feel like that would be boring.