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I currently got closer to this guy at work. We spend about a week together aboard for work. During that we hangout together in a group (because we couldn't get ride of the other people who were also traveling with us "I wanted to go do some shopping with you, but couldn't really get away from them" - them being his bosses). One night in the restaurant we sat next to each other and he passed his arm around me and touched my shoulder (while telling a story to the group), he would lean towards me and would follow my movements as if i was laying back he would lay back too. Other night we went to the hotel bar and i sat a bit away from him (but facing him) and I was just "pretending" to pay attention to something else and suddenly he was looking at me, waved and smiled. He would often stare at me, and when i looked back, he would look away and back again. I asked him a favor, which he promptly did. I tried to figure out if he had a girlfriend/wife by saying some stuff like "ok if you need to call you wife there is a cheap way of doing it..." and he never said anything until we became friends on facebook and before that happened he said "look there is something about me i haven't told you... i dont like labels ect". He has been in a straight relationship with a girl for 6yrs and got a son. Then got into a relationship (3yrs) with a guy who he recently bought an house with. We talk regularly over chat (because I have been aboard for a long time) and usually its me who starts the convo. He always replies with loads of emotion icons. Then I spend almost 2/3 weeks without saying much, and he actually came back to me asking about where I was. I know he likes his boyfriend a lot... although sometimes he looks a bit unhappy and it happens I currently live with my boyfriend as well... I got a massive crush on this guy but I reckon that maybe i should just get over it and be good friends with him rather than thinking about anything else? What do you think he feels about me?

I kept in touch for a few years witht his guy I had a crush on. At the time I thought he was interested but anyway, he was taken, we both moved away etc... As our lives went on I learned to just deal with the fact that he was with someone else in a very serious relationship and only kept int ouch with in a friendly way the way acquainance would.
But few months ago, he tells me how he's broken upwih his gf and all my feelings came back. I tried to hint we should see each other and he seemed eager to but I got no reply for a while. He then told he was busy with his new gf.
I brushed it off and tried to still be friendly as I used to be but he got rather distant (took a lot of time to reply...which he never used to do).
So after a while, since all of this was causing me some pain I decided I'd be honest. I told him I was sad I'd never get to see him again, and that I thought of him.
His reply was kind of confusing. He said he found it pleasant to leave it up to fate whether we'd meet again (how am I supposed to understand it? is it a way to politely say, I habe no intention of meeting with you unless I bump into you?) and then got rathe rude, saying how if I ddin't want to talk to him, all I had to do was not write to him. ( and I never mentioned that it pissed me off to talk to him). I thought he didn't understand that I was trying to tell him I liked him so all I did was clear the issue out by mentioning I liked hearing from him. All of this was brushed off by a "everthing is alright then".

And since hen I haven't asked for news or else. But it's gonna be his birthday soon and I wonder if maybe I should wish him, or if overall this changes everything .
I really don't want to come off as desperate or as that girl that can't let go. Especialy as I am not expecting anything.
What do you think?

Let's say you've been in a relationship with your gf Since August 2014. You meet a new girl in your class in January. You slowly start liking her. She's not just a pretty face though: she's the first girl you started to have actual feelings for since you started dating your girlfriend. Before you met her, you'd notice pretty girls but you were focused on your gf. Now, you can't help but think about this other girl and look at her. You are a little love sick and you just can't help it.
What do you do? Would your answer change if you knew she liked you back?
Be honest!!!