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At this point, I'll occasionally go to singles events and other activities I enjoy so that I can meet me. There's also this girl that I like and she wants to wait until school is done in May to spend time with me. She's just flooded with school and work. The nice thing is "she apologizes when she doesn't respond to my message or I ask to go out" which I think is very nice because if we start dating at some point , at least I'll know I'll be dating a kind and considerate woman.

At any rate I've stopped obsessing about it. And I'm letting my life go forward. My question is "is this a good idea?" Or should I just look "obsessively " again?

Dating is a numbers game. And after having run the calculations for the numbers game, I've had to concede that I don't have a realistic chance any more. I have a life expectancy of only 50>55yrs; I'm projected to live for another 20>25yrs. And I can't possibly manage to meet any more than 3 new females on average per day. That's a maximum limit of roughly 22,000 females, over the course of my remaining lifespan. Then, adding my bare minimum level of extra parameters: I'm looking for a 16-35yo (16%) single heterosexual (28%), who'd be willing to consider forming a new relationship at the time I meet her (23%), and open to both inter-racial (24%) & inter-religious (15%) relationships. With a personality type compatible with my own (1.4%), an IQ over 100 (52%); and ideally, who isn't overweight or anorexic (29.7%).

Even at this point, the odds already stand at 57:1 against me ever meeting even a single female, between now and the day I die, who'd meet all of these perfectly reasonable criteria- even with those non-requests, such a girl would literally be one in a million. And that'd be without having any standards whatsoever regarding desired personality traits and qualities, shared interests, shared life goals, attractiveness or sexual compatibility. Factor all of these in as well, and I've calculated that the lifetime odds against me meeting such a woman skyrocket to 1/737500; less than fifth of my lifetime odds of being killed by a lightning bolt. Per person, the odds would be one in over 16 billion- in conclusion, there's only a 23.3% chance that there's a single female in existence across the globe who'd meet the criteria required for me to be able to have a fulfilled mutual relationship with her. With odds like that, what's the point? Should I just give up? Shouldn't we all just give up? And if not, why not?