Search Results: harder to approach when you really like her

Do guys really do this to a girl they like?

I was basically new at this school I transferred to and I'm quiet in general. People have a hard time approaching me, guys especially... so towards the end of the year we had this socials debate and we had to negotiate...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why is it so hard for me to be social and approach women?

Just as the question states. Whenever I go out to social events I really don't know what to talk about. In addition, I notice that people have their own groups (cliches) and I just tend to stand around not saying...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

What can I do to fix this?

I can feel myself sorta developing an incel mentality, but I feel like I shouldn't even be having this interpersonal conflict. I definitely don't hate pregnant women, and I don't go around hating women for not...

oscaravalos1717

Xper 4 Age: 30

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I am so sad I am 23 and never had a boyfriend before?

I am so sad I am 23 and never had a boyfriend before. I have never met a guy who told me he wanted to date me or was interested in me. Never have I been asked out and never really approached or asked for my number before....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are women really this strange?

Right, so, I'll start by admitting I'm a strange guy. I'm good looking, fit, confident, smart, well-read, and "successful". I worked hard earlier in my life to overcome my natural awkwardness with people and I have become...

Yawn_Yawn

Xper 5 Age: 44

How to flirt with guys so that they approach you?

I have a shy personality and I find it very hard to talk to guys that I’m not close with. I feel like this has stopped me from ever really getting approached by guys, since I’m too shy to flirt. I don’t think my problem...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is she trying hard to flirt?

I don't know what she is doing but an older girl started laughing at my jokes and started talking to me and asked me to repeat it to her then wait at the end of the hall to scare me. She does the scaring thing after we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I too picky?

Look, I spend a lot of my time training for mens physique bodybuilding competitions and when I'm not doing that, I'm working or studying for my degree. Is it wrong of me to want a woman who hits the gym like me? I work...

Gatman92

Xper 3 Age: 33

Tips before I approach a girl I just met?

Hey fellas, I joined this institute to learn German for 2 weeks now. Things are going really good there, especially when I noticed that this cute girl keeps looking at me through the whole lesson. Usually, I'm looking at...

Alcatraz-12

Xper 4 Age: 34

Tips before I approach this girl I just met?

Alcatraz-12

Xper 4 Age: 34

Ladies, if you're so sick of "every guy" being a jerk, how about YOU go and find a guy who is the kind you want?

Is it really that hard for you to take some initiative and take it upon yourself to get what you want, rather than waiting for it to land in your lap? You should know a vast majority of guys who hit you up/approach...

Buckzor

Yoda Age: 28

Really wanting to go out with this girl I'm really into, But I feel like I'm not emotionally available for any relationships?

I work as Security for a Casino. I love my job, I'm good at my job, and meet a lot of cool people. While working, I met this girl who for some reason, hits me on a spiritual level. I can't explain it; but something pulls...

Sgtteddybear

Xper 4 Age: 31

How to act when my crush is playing hard to get?

I have been asking my crush out for past few days its been a month and like I've asked her twice, but she says she's really busy which she is these days but yesterday when I asked why she's being so cruel to such a nice...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Entertainment & Arts

15 of My Favorite Love Songs

This is not a top 15 song list as there are many love songs that I like however they will be numbered based on a request I had from the last mytake It's kind of hard to get really detailed in terms of commentary on each...

Jjpayne

Editor Age: 42

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Entertainment & Arts

15 Songs That Moved Me

These are songs that have moved me for different reasons and these are not the only songs that have moved me, it is also a list that I have put together based on what I could pull together and remember. I will say this...

Jjpayne

Editor Age: 42

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Am I in trouble with my girlfriend?

My girlfriend has recently seemed a bit off with talking to me. In the past week we had our first kiss and she has seemed a little distant since then. I know she has a hard time saying no or that she isn't ready for...

Noxen

Xper 4 Age: 23