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WHICH ONE WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE AS YOUR SERIOUS, COMMITTED GIRLFRIEND?
The follow-up question to the one from two weeks ago. You get two women to choose from.

Option A is a girl you find out is named Alicia. She is flawlessly beautiful and has a nearly perfect body, like a fictional character rather than someone who's actually real. Easily can be considered a Nine, if not an outright Ten. She's 5'10"/178 cm, a college athlete, a "master at sex," and works hard to maintain her figure. However, she is very superficial and a perfectionist. She is very hard to please, conceited and only thinks of herself, and expects you to live up to her lofty, high standards at all times, or she will dump you and publicly embarrass you while doing it. Commit to her lifestyle, or you're gone.

Option B is a girl you find out is named Bodhika. She's not what you'd consider physically attractive, at all. Whatever your personal standards are, she's halfway towards the opposite of them. But she could maybe be "good enough" as far as looks go. She's 5'5"/165 cm, has small breasts, narrow hips, a small booty, and is slightly overweight. She is studying to be a doctor. She has noticed you around the neighborhood and really likes you. She's kind, sweet, affectionate, has a really good sense of humor, quite intelligent, nonjudgmental, and accepts you for all your flaws and quirks. You might even have some hobbies in common, as well. You'll likely just never find her to be physically attractive (unless she undergoes extensive cosmetic surgery, which she is unwilling to do).

Which girl do you pick? The 10/10 with high standards, or the 5/10 who accepts you as you are right now?

Inspired by @siseñor girl's question.

I want to find my dream girl ideally in like a few years. Companionship/reproduction are important.

But right now, it’s just a waste of time. Women won’t make me succeed and I’ve never met a girl that I can say she’d add joy/success to my life. I’ve had girls like me and even approach me but I wasn’t attracted to them. I have high standards. I know my worth too. I’m special I want a special girl too. Never settle

I believe public schools aren't designed for us to be successful or resourceful. At all. I think public schools are a waste of time and without any meaningful rewards.
i think that relatively careless and/or broke parents would allow their kids to go to a public school and not a private one.
i have never been in a public school but I've been to a private Institute to get my bachelors degree in the STEM field. I Financed it mostly by myself.
and the weird thing is that I'm still earning low money. I know the reason for that. My employer isn't the type to pay a lot and so i started working 50 hours a week. But i have a job offer waiting for my relocation, which will pay about average at least, maybe a little above average.
i think i would almost be part of a nobility if i went to private schools. My next move would be getting a MBA in a private university but since its so expensive to afford the tuition fees it's gonna take me a lot of time saving up for it. Years probably.
if y'all ask me what my goals are after finishing school? It's becoming wealthy and working for it like a machine. I want to join the high society, the upper class, the nobility, stuff like that. I hate being poor and low class and having gutter-like backgrounds. The Standard wages today even for IT workers are unsatisfactory. for instance some poor peasants think I'm making lots of money because i am able to order pizza every day if i so choose. Or the iphone 13. But i can't afford an adequate second hand car like Toyotas.

I’d really love to have a girlfriend, but at the same time I kinda don’t want one. I have very high standards. I haven’t ever had a girlfriend or kissed but I make no attempts to make moves on women.

It feels like too much effort and it will take a while to find compatibility. I think it would be too emotionally draining to pursue women.

Other then that I’m good looking, focused on my career. I know I have a lot going for me.