I’ve been seeing a guy for 3 months. I’ve posted this question quite a lot since I’m just stressed and want perspectives. We have had sex and that’s all we do drink and have sex and sleepovers at his house.
he told me his intentions were to see where things go and meet and see each other and go on dates.
He brings up the intention of going on a date but then says ‘Oh come to mine instead’ I've never complained. I just went.
He said that ‘His car has broken down’ I do believe it was broken down but he told me that 2 months ago.
I’m pretty sure he’s got it fixed but he keeps saying ‘Oh I’ll take you on a date here’ then on the day says ‘My car is still broke’ but I don’t believe it is he’s always going too far places.
I pay 40 pound to go and see him in the cab since I live so far. I’ve spent 200 pound in total going to see him at his house the past 3 months. My friends told me To bring up the idea of a date but is this a bad idea considering all that’s going on?
I have no proof that he’s 100% lying about his car but I do think he is lying but I can’t accuse him. I wanna get to know him more properly on a proper date, how can I bring this up? If he says about his car again I don’t know what to say?
I’m always having sex with him and that’s all we do and then he promises me dates and it never happens. I feel I’m disrespecting myself.
He does it in such a smooth nice way though that I always believe that he will take me out. I’m starting to think I’m just around for sexual purposes. I wanna stop being so nice to him though and actually higher my standards and tell him that I’d like to go on a proper date since he always promises me this, am I being silly in this situation?
he told me his intentions were to see where things go and meet and see each other and go on dates.
He brings up the intention of going on a date but then says ‘Oh come to mine instead’ I've never complained. I just went.
He said that ‘His car has broken down’ I do believe it was broken down but he told me that 2 months ago.
I’m pretty sure he’s got it fixed but he keeps saying ‘Oh I’ll take you on a date here’ then on the day says ‘My car is still broke’ but I don’t believe it is he’s always going too far places.
I pay 40 pound to go and see him in the cab since I live so far. I’ve spent 200 pound in total going to see him at his house the past 3 months. My friends told me To bring up the idea of a date but is this a bad idea considering all that’s going on?
I have no proof that he’s 100% lying about his car but I do think he is lying but I can’t accuse him. I wanna get to know him more properly on a proper date, how can I bring this up? If he says about his car again I don’t know what to say?
I’m always having sex with him and that’s all we do and then he promises me dates and it never happens. I feel I’m disrespecting myself.
He does it in such a smooth nice way though that I always believe that he will take me out. I’m starting to think I’m just around for sexual purposes. I wanna stop being so nice to him though and actually higher my standards and tell him that I’d like to go on a proper date since he always promises me this, am I being silly in this situation?
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What’s so strange is that I wasn’t even the first person to bring up the idea of a date? He’s the one who said ‘I wanna take you out’ it wasn’t even me? I’m not sure if he just says it too keep me clinged onto him
