Should a guy try for sex on the first date?

[red324]

I'm not saying he's going to get any but should he at least open up the idea?

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reason I ask is occassionally the girl will ask well is there anything else you would like to do? Also wondered if that meant sex, usually this comes up around the end of the date after a couple hours.

[Anonymous]

On my wedding night it was very painful. It was my first time but my husband has a very large penis. I cried the whole way through. There is a scene in game of thrones where danerys is having sex with Karl droggo for the first time, my wedding night was like that.

[Anemone978]

I guess you could always try it as a joke like well could I come in or do you want to hang at my place. Obviously there is cooler and more subtle ways to suggest it so as not to look or sound like a total douchebag. If not no big deal lol

[KathrynTaylor]

If he wants to, he can ask but shouldn’t feel like he’s owed sex.

[red324]

You never know. She might want it, maybe that's all they want. I never get more than two dates and I've never mentioned having sex on a date.

[KathrynTaylor]

Can’t deny that..

[Anonymous]

There are first date guys I would have done if they asked but they never tried anything.

[red324]

I've always thought it could wait until date 3 or 4 but I never get that far.

[AsaKyo]

That's the fastest way to end a date and make a girl lose respect for you lmao

[tfan1]

Actually no. My girlfriend - now my wife - she said she was a firm believer in staying virgin till marriage. That actually worked because that was the way I was raised too. She was very happy to hear that 👍🙂

[AsaKyo]

@tfan1 Okay, then you were both on board, I guess

Most women aren't and would hate that lmao

[misogynistic_pig]

I slipped it on the first date.

[red324]

lol well how did that go?

[tfan1]

I wouldn’t. Let her make the first move.

[red324]

women don't make the first move these days

[exitseven]

No, unless she initiates it.