Is it ok for a man or woman to want sex on the first date?

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DishLady · Answer

WANT, yeah, obviously there's attraction there.  HAVE? in my opinion no. Be kind to yourselves and go on a few dates first.

Summeroflove · Answer

You can want it. But it doesn’t mean you’re getting it

OneViewpoint · Answer

Sure. Wanting sex is not bad in and of itself. How you handle that desire and potentially the word "No" is another matter. Be a lady or a gentleman. Have some self respect. Show some respect for the object of your lust. Don't pout like a baby if you don't get what you want. Focus on enjoying the date, not sex.

CherryLove007 · Answer

Ahhh no to both. You should have standards and put a lot of thought into it. It is not like hey lets go try out bungie jumping I hear it is super orgasmic. Thought should be there first so you can see if your even compatible. Someone might be the high feeling type and pair bond to you. It might be an investment of your future if you need to look for a baby doctor nine long months later.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Most of the women I slept with I did so on the first date  That included long term serious relationship  I don’t believe in the virtue of waiting when you know you both want to

sportsbraslikes · Answer

It all comes down to how it’s interpreted as in making sure that everyone is on the same page and it’s not considered as rape as long as both parties are in an agreement and sign something that states that then yes. I have friends who have had sex on the first date and now they are in jail because the woman says it was rape.

Zionne · Answer

If both of you just want sex in a relationship or in the first date, then I guess its okay as long as both of you agreed lol

Alex-Snow · Answer

Is it ok... sure but only if both involved agree to it and nothing is forced or rushed. But everyone has different values and cultures and timelines on when sex can be part of the dating experience.

Abbycado · Answer

It is okay to want it. Good luck getting in on the first date. I certainly wouldn't.

Anonymous · Answer

I think a prostitute would be a lot less hassle, maybe cheaper, and when you come right down to it, about as meaningful as sex on a first date.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

It’s ok but don’t react in a dangerous way when you get rejected.

Anonymous · Answer

Ok to want it, but to get it, that's quite rare.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Absolutely, if both are consenting.

In_Trance · Answer

It's fine

zombiewoof · Answer

Perfectly ok

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