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I know this is a blog for relationships that is between boyfriend/girlfriend and so on...but I am faced with a family dilemma:

I lived with my mom, and I have since moved out (2 weeks now) but I feel guilty, mainly because she is making me feel guilty for leaving her. Not that I left her, I call her everyday (if I don't she says I have forgotten about her! :| )

So I have moved out because we argue constantly when we are in the same room together, I need my space and I have been wanting to move out for the longest time but stayed because every time I brought up the idea she would get upset and say I do not love her, I do not think of her, I am selfish and the list goes on. But when I talk to her about being exploring life for myself she says she does not want to stand in my way, She believes I need to be independent and she does not want to hold me back!...

So I reached my breaking point when I went out with a friend and came home late around 1am (wow) and she had a fit, she called me a slut and told me I run around with boys and stuff...all my friends are guys, I cannot make nice with girls. No offense to girls, I just grew up with guys and I think like one...

I do not sleep with any of my guy friends they are my friends, and no matter how I explain this to her she will not understand. I gave up on explaining.

When she called me a slut, this really hit me...so I left right there, 2am at that time...went to a friends and have been here since.

She feels betrayed, and I really do not know if I have made a mistake here, I have spoken to her since and we are speaking to each other, but I can still feel she is sad I am not there, understandable as she is a single mom!

I feel horrible but I have told her she needs to learn to socialize and get out of the house and live for herself. She does not understand this, and feels I am wrong. and constantly saying I will regret it later. I really do not know how I can become independent when I have my mom cooking and cleaning for me, and it frusterates me when I have zero privacy and she just barges in to my room. I AM 24 and I would like my space.

Is this wrong? am I wrong? we are on good terms right now, we talk laugh and stuff over the phone, I visit and help her around the house on my off time.

What am I doing wrong.

Please help, I love my mom very much and do not want her to think I have betrayed her...I also feel the distance is good for our relationship, as it is good when we are not in each others face constantly. ahh!

please give advice...feeling guilty.