My boyfriend wants to "see me with a six pack"?

So I've been seeing this guy for about half a year now, and about two months ago, we started dating and became an official couple with the labels and all that jazz. A few weeks ago, I went to visit my sister out of the state, and my boyfriend called me up one night after having "a few drinks" (this is a common habit of his). We chatted about random stuff for a bit, and then, completely out of the blue he says, "I want to see you with a six pack." At first I thought I'd heard him wrong and hoped he had said he wanted to seem me "drink a six pack". To my complete astonishment, he repeated himself, and added on that I should be "ashamed of myself" that I don't have one and I'm 20 years old.

Now, I've been told by all my friends, and even their boyfriends that I'm skinny. I'll go ahead and say I'm 'average', and I'm not even close to having a six-pack. I do play sports and work out regularly though. I mean, it would be nice if I did have a six pack, and in fact, my stomach used to be something I obsessed over. I constantly compared myself to other girls, and in fact ANY girl that walked past me. It wasn't until recently that I got over it and started liking my body for what it was and feeling sexy in my own skin. Part of that was because I met him and he made me feel like a queen.

Hearing him say that he wanted to see a six-pack on me has completely torn me up, not only because part of me really DOES feel ashamed that I don't have one, but also because I wonder if he ever meant anything nice that he said about me and my body before. :-(

To finish off our conversation, he said that he thought I had "a f***ing hot body", that he was going to make dinner for me when I got back, and that he wished I were at home with him. When I got back, I couldn't figure out how to bring it up again, and he never did either. Lately, he's sort of hit a rut with his job, and despite what my friends have said about breaking up with him, I just can't to do it. I care about him a lot, and I want to be there to support him. ...But what does this conversation mean? He has called me before, completely intoxicated, and said some pretty hurtful things. Like one time he called me, hammered (possibly blacked out) from another state after his friend's bachelor party and told me about how he got free lap dances from strippers. Yet, when I'm with him, I feel like the apple of his eye, he's so sweet and a complete gentleman, and our sex-life is on least I think so. But is he secretly not attracted to me?

I've heard of instances where one person will ask their boy/girlfriend to go to the gym, usually if they are grossly obese and in danger of potential health problems. But I'd like to think I'm fairly active and athletic as it is it, I'm just not a size 0.

Does he really care about me? Or am I just being completely naive and refusing to see through his bullsh*t?

I guess it's time to ask the guys! :-(
My boyfriend wants to "see me with a six pack"?
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