Do you care if your boyfriend/girlfriend flirts with people?

[Anonymous]

Flirting in real life or online

[AviatorTom]

Depends. I'm all for her flirting with the male server at the restaurant so that we get better service, and maybe a free dessert. If she's trying to make me jealous by flirting with some random guy, I don't like that.

[Kaneki05]

Flirting without the intent of anything happening is not cheating because it's showing you have self control not the opposite. Therefore no I don't care.
Plus what people class as flirting is subjective so that very essence makes it impossible to know the line. Is winking offensive? Is saying your cool? Is saying your cute? Is making a joke?

[dustybiker2]

Some people are different. I talk with everyone, joke, laugh. I was always quiet with people I really liked. So silence would have been a signal, but then also too loyal to worry about.


How people communicate and the motive, if there is one, matters here. Happy people don't stray.

[Nessie6]

Honestly, I would not like it at all... i feel if you are with me you wouldn't feel the need to want to flirt.

If you do, maybe single life would be better for you. Let me go find someone that just sees and wants to flirt with me?

[Artificial Intelligence]

Oh, the fine art of flirting! Well, being in the relationship biz, I gotta say, context is everything. Flirting can be totally innocent fun or a red flag waving in the wind. It really boils down to the intent behind those flirty exchanges and how secure you feel in your relationship. If it's all in good fun and you're both on the same page, then hey, why not enjoy a little harmless banter? But if it's making you feel like you're on an emotional rollercoaster, it's time to chat about boundaries. Remember, communication is the heart of every thriving relationship! Keep it open, honest, and, dare I say, a tad flirtatious? 😉

[Iron_Man]

What do you know about flirting? You don’t even exist

[SamIam96]

This is one of those things that comes down to how much you trust your partner.

If I'm confident that she's my girl, I love it. Flirt away! It's hot knowing that I'm the one she's going home with -- no matter how much they want it. I love her power over them and how hungry they are for her.

[CaptainOverthink]

Active flirting - Hell no. It's disrespecrful as hell.
Passive flirting - It's not like it can be avoided.

Point is, actions matter, what happens naturaly is excusable.
Like passively eyes can meet or an interaction can send sparks flying. That ain't eithers fault. What they do after or how they respond though, that is their responsability.

[liggang]

Every job I have I see all the people who have relationships having a work wife/husband too. And I see them all flirting touching and so on.

It's crazy to me to think you can be with someone but at their job they're flirting with multiple other people.

[Hellur991]

I mean if u have self integrity and self discipline you can have "friends", that's either male or female that are co workers. But just make sure you set boundaries. Most people don't do that. Because their want to be a likeable person.

[handsomelad70]

I don't think I would unless it was obvious that instead of its being part her girlishness, she was trying to make me jealous.

[Simslover92]

Flirting is cheating in my book. So I would care if he flirted with other girls and I hope he would care as well.

[Pillubi]

It depends on what kind it is. It's not a deal beaker for me, it depends on the intensity and the way it comes across. A light hearted statement might be okay, something more than that would be not okay

[Badgirlnatalia]

Hi. I would like to ask you something in private if that's okay?

[Pillubi]

@Badgirlnatalia yeah sure

[Badgirlnatalia]

You need follow me back or message me

[DishLady]

If you’re dating “officially” then neither of you should really be flirting with other people. However sometimes you see an old friend or close colleague and smile automatically and it’s misinterpreted as flirting… just watch your step.

[Mr_twoface]

Nope! She can flirt as much as she wants IRL and online. End of the day, she will end in my bed with me :D

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Flirting irl is fine I guess, online is definitely sketchy. That's basically going out of your way to flirt.

[lilBigPotato]

It really depends on the kind of flirting. If it's more natural and in a subtle way it is ok but wouldn't like him hitting hard on other girls

[JacobJordan]

Yes. It is disrespectful to me. And vice versa. Thankfully neither of us can flirt.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Sometimes there’s a thin line between flirting and being nice so I definitely look at the situation but generally unacceptable.

[sheikalana]

Of course. Giving attention to other people can be harmful to your relationship.

[KrakenAttackin]

Flirting with someone else when you are in a relationship is not acceptable.

[Nikki1989]

Nah, flirting is harmless, and I am not that insecure.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Hmm. Only if it's to be friendly on the job, or friendly to defuse a situation. Not to flirt 😔😚

[Raaj4you]

I don't mind if my girlfriend is talking or communicating with men. But flirting and get closer to men are considered as cheating.

[Zoi2001]

Depends I work at bar it helps with tips my girlfriend she ok with it knows it stop at that. It keep it sharp with your partner we believe. Communication does help 99% trust is key.

[DextroShade]

That is completely unacceptable, if she wants to flirt with other dudes she can be single.

[Peridot25]

As long as I get to as well. If they can flirt, so can I 🤷‍♀️

[Bunny876]

Yes. I consider flirting cheating. Why would you flirt with someone when your already in a relationship