Do girls flirt even though they have a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Maybe I'm too quick to assume a girl is showing interest, but at my job it happens quite a bit. A girl will give me good eye contact and her eyes are slightly wider and she's giving me a genuine smile.. I'd like to think that I can tell the difference between a girl being friendly and when a girl is looking at you thinking "he's cute".

But I'll be talking with a girl locked eyes at work and then next thing you know her boyfriend shows up and I'm left confused.. like was I reading that wrong or was she flirting at all?

Would a girl give you "googly eyes" as its said even though she's got a boyfriend, or would she flirt with you a little? Cause whenever that happens I wonder if I'm not as good at reading signals as I thought I was.

[Destinee7]

Yeah. I think it's okay 2 flirt even if your in a relationship. saying you can't flirt because your in a relationship is almost like saying, you can't think anybody is attractive anymore because your in a relationship. (umm bulls** lol)

as long as they're not flirting in front of their boyfriend (thats rude & can get ugly) or being extremely sexual when they flirt then I don't think you should read too much into them flirting.

[cun7n1nja]

I give good eye contact and genuine smiles to the majority of people I talk to, haha, that IS me just being friendly. Sometimes I find the guy attractive, sometimes I don't. I'm just a generally friendly person toward everyone. I'm rarely overtly flirtatious though without flirtation on a guy's part first, because flirting doesn't really come naturally to me.

[redhead19]

i flirt all the time and don't realize it till my boyfriend says somthin or I notice afterward I think I was just being nice but it usually happens when I think a guy is hot but wen I realize I flirt I appoligize or go back to just being nice.

[Anonymous]

Nah man you're probably reading the signs right, she's attracted to you, that doesn't mean she doesn't have a boyfriend.

[Asker]

I was leaning toward that, cause all girls give you the same look when they find you attractive, you can just tell- after a while it becomes instinct to see it written on a girls face when she thinks you're cute.

The only difference is these girls give me that look but they have a boyfriend, where other girls give me that look and they're single so they flirt a little more

[Opinion Owner]

That's true. But, some girls are flirty even if they have a boyfriend, sometimes you just don't know until you ask, or like you said until he shows up.

[Hades]

Yeah they do. They're always on the lookout for a superior male to the one they have.

[Anonymous]

I do. I flirt with everyone though. I don't need to be interested to flirt, it is second nature for me. I just don't flirt in front of my boyfriend because I think that is disrespectful. I don't put any meaning into flirting either.

[Asker]

You flirt with everyone you find attractive not just everyone right? Cause I consider myself flirty but I wouldn't flirt with a chick I didn't find appealing.

And yea I noticed when her boyfriend showed up she stopped looking at me so much and stopped other little things, so I'm guessing when her man's not around it's okay to live a little and flirt with a stranger

[Opinion Owner]

I just flirt in general. Some people are creepy or would find it weird so I don't flirt with them. I am straight and I flirt with girls to. Nothing sexual but I say things that make them feel good about themselves.

[Anonymous]

Well, my thing is, I actually don't know if I'm legitly flirting or not. Most of my friends say I do but I'm always telling them that I didn't mean to and most of all that I wasn't trying to

[Asker]

so you just act flirty around guys you are attracted to without even knowing it? or do you just act flirty with everyone?

[Opinion Owner]

well I can't lie and say that just because I have a boyfriend I don't find guys attractive. Most of the time when my friends say I'm flirting with someone it's usually because they found him quite attractive. But I'm going to say yes, that I unknowingly and unintentionally flirt with everyone

[moviedude714]

yeah I hate it when girls do that

[CindiluvsFriends]

Yup,guys do it too.