Guys, have you noticed how obviously jealous regular girls get when they see a sexy, confident and head-turner girl? Girls, what are u most jelly of?

[YummyLady]

Whenever I go out with my friends to a club, I am always in a great mood, smiling, laughing, carefree. I am very confident, I approach guys, I dance with strangers on the dance floor. Not to mention that I dress provacatively and really unique. Not smth a plain Jane or a basic bitch would wear.
Ofcourse, I get the attention of almost EVERY guy, and some of them who are with their girlfriends. I flirt back with the single ones, dance, and maybe even go home with them! ;) 😈

However, the gfs of the guys who are trying to flirt with me give me those death-stares and they rolll their eyes when they see me and they "casually" talk something behind my back. Why do they treat ME like that, even though I made it clear that I am not interested in their taken boyfriends? Why don't they get mad to their boyfriend, not me?
There are some girls whose boyfriends didn't even express the interest in me, but they are still treating me that way. There are some girls that didn't even come with a boyfriend, but just show their obvious insecurity and jealousy in front of me... I'm like: you are only making my ego bigger, why are you doing me a favor if you hate meee?

The same thing at the beach: I usuallly wear sexy-strapppppppy bikinis, push up bra top, g-string, and I like to stroll down the beach to show off, I'm not gonna lie. 😝 There are some b****** who keep calling me names, even though I didn't do anything to them. Ofcourse, there are SO MANY GUYS who offer to "take a picture of me", to " rub the suntan lotion on me", some say like "I am new in town, so do you know some good restaurants?" etc. I understand that part, but it's not MY fault that I taken guy is offering me those things, why do I always get the hate from the girls, even though I made it clear I am not interested in their boyfriends? But I do enjoy it, not going to lie about IT! 😉😃😎

What is it that girls are most jealous of when it comes to me?

Your face! You are gorgeous!

Your body, it's smokin' hot!

Your sexiness and charisma!

Your confidence!

Your carefreeness and how fun you are!

Your skills to get all the guys!

All of the above!

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@IceEverest @AleDeEurope Nothing sadder than two trolls having no lives, making "observations." We are often in each others posts because they were my friends when I used to live in Serbia.

[CHARismatic110]

Talk about biased poll options lol. But yeah, #plainjane checking in. I personally don't care about other girls when I'm out. Have you ever stopped to think that they just didn't like your aura? I mean being confident is one thing, being a stuck up bitch is another. From reading your words, you seem like you fall into the stuck up category. I don't know you well enough to determine what they would be jealous of. I mean you're pretty, but so are millions of other girls. Nothing really stands out. But people do pick up on vibes and I'm pretty sure that you don't give off good ones.

[YummyLady]

... you don't know me well enough? Haha. REALLY? Well, you seem too uninformed for a stalker.
And if there's one thing I know for sure it's that I DO stand out and that there is NOBODY like me in this universe.
There is nobody like you in this universe, too, but not in a good way. LOL

[CHARismatic110]

😂😂😂

Stalker? Dude, if I wanted to stalk someone, it wouldn't be you lmao. And you're right, something does stand out. Your ugly ass attitude.

[YummyLady]

Hundreds of guys don't seem to mind it. :P

[CHARismatic110]

I'm sure. Do us a favor and get over yourself, k? Good day now!

[YummyLady]

Ain't gonna happen.

Oh, and YOU go have a good day. Imma have more like a fuckin FABULOUS day!

[CHARismatic110]

Congratulations.

[GingerBear]

Hm, judging by your profile picture, you're mildly attractive, but nothing to have a conniption over.
What the other girls might be picking up on is your atrocious attitude. What the guys might be picking up on is your attire, which by the sounds of it is revealing and a bit slutty. Most guys are gonna want to fuck anyone in that kind of clothing at a club.
Without knowing you, I can't really accurately judge, but that seems most likely. I'm frankly surprised you have any friends at all, if that's the way you behave on a daily basis.

[sparkly-crystal]

you are not acknowledging her beauty cuz you are jealous.

[GingerBear]

@sparkly-crystal Oh yes, incredibly jealous of an average looking, attention seeking, childish pain in the ass.

[sparkly-crystal]

point proven

[GingerBear]

@sparkly-crystal You're not very bright, are you? Please, find a dictionary and look up 'sarcasm'.

[sparkly-crystal]

I meant your contempt towards her proves you are an extremely jealous person. I already know the definition of the word lol

[GingerBear]

@sparkly-crystal Sure, sure, except that it doesn't prove that. All it proves is that I, like most people who have commented, find her a contemptible person.

[sparkly-crystal]

I don't think you are conceited at all. You look stunning and your beauty intimidates your friends. Girls love stirring up trouble, gossips, and dramas. They often feel insecure when other girls are prettier, smarter or get more attention from the opposite gender. I can relate to you girl. My dad is a dentist and we live in a very expensive neighborhood. Whenever my friends come over they never acknowledge how pretty my house is and start criticizing it instead.

[Bandit74]

you're not ugly but you're no head turner either. You get the attention from guys mostly because you're slightly above average and dress in a sexually agressive manner while also making the effort to approach them and show you're available. Guys like easy sex and they see you as a way of getting that, which is what attracts them to you.

The real challenge is whether or not you can get a guy to commit to you NOT whether or not you can get him to grind with you on the dancefloor or if you can get him to go home with you.

[YummyLady]

I am not looking for a relationship. I am only 18.

[AleDeEurope]

First of all, get off your high horse, you're not that yummy, you're just above average, that's it.

Second: Yeah, it's common that women dislike other girls that are prettier than them, it's competition, they don't wanna be left out while the guys go for the hot one.

[YummyLady]

Yeah, but you don't see that kind of jealousy among guys. What's that about? O. o

[AleDeEurope]

There is, but that jealousy doesn't turn into hate, like with women, it turns into admiration.
Guys would think higher of a man that is handsome and gets the girls. Girls will think lower of a girl that is hot and gets the guys. There's still jealousy, but it's manifested in a different way.

[YummyLady]

I am glad we agree. But they can hate me as much as they fucking want, Imma do my thang and get all the guys I want.

[AleDeEurope]

Yeah whatever, but I don't believe a word you just said. Most likely you and the other two 18 y/o girls from Serbia are fake, so this is more of an x-per gathering than anything else.

[YummyLady]

Yup, that's exactly what it is. We are holograms. 😂😂😂 #sarcasm

[AleDeEurope]

You're always in each other's questions, you have the same style of pic (white borders), same age, and you all created your profiles on a 2 day span, between the 24th of Dec and the 26.

Yep, you're all fake, probably the same person. Oh, and I'm including the Buttercup chick here too.

[IceEverest]

I am impressed by your observation

[Supergirl0812]

Are you doing this for validation?

I saw your picture and I'm not a hater, you are pretty but I see lots of pretty and prettier girls than you. I think you are kind of egotistical but then again you are only 18 so maybe it's an age thing.

Your confidence is nice but you are walking a fine line between confidence and conceited.

I think a lady who has confidence wouldn't care and wouldn't even point it out, only a girl who needs validation because of some sort of insecurity would write something like this.

[YummyLady]

The reason I asked this question is because I get hate unasked for, even though I don't flirt with taken guys. I am affraid that those bitches will physically attack me, didn't you see all of those catfights on youtube, they are more brutal than when guys fight each other.

[Supergirl0812]

The way you are dressing is because you need some sort of male attention that could be from insecurities or daddy issues.

The reason girls are looking at you the way they do is because They probably view you as competition or because of their own insecurities.

But from the way you speak I can gather you are very immature and are looking for attention anywhere which is probably why you are getting bad responses from different females

[YummyLady]

It is not funny to make fun of somebody having "daddy issues" because I was severely abused as a child. You have got to respect that. And there are two reasons I dress like that: first of all (10%) is because I do it in spite of all the control people had over me as a kid, and the second reason (90%) is because I have the body to flaunt it. If you did that too (which you obviously don't) you would undrestand.

[Supergirl0812]

Not sure how you got that as "making fun" but I wouldn't expect intelligence from a girl like you. I'm stating an observation. "If I did that too"... what? Your sentences don't make much sense.

[truthhammer]

U don't seen confident but come off arrogant. Insecure people ovwr validate themselves to have people reflect it bac to them. U seem to be doing the same.

You aight. Nothing special.

Tbh, it's naive to think it's only jealousy if people don't approve of how you behave. If ur lacking respect for other ppls presence and act naively, I think it'd ur lack of self awareness people hate. Like don't flirt with ppls bfs... it's more of his fault of course.

Here's how wisdom and true confidence looks like. My best friend works his ass off... since 23... gave up his social life... now he just bought a 2.2 million dollar house... he does not tell anyone or show off...

Modesty and not raising yourself above others is to be admired.

[YummyLady]

Naaah I'm chosin ma style homie

[truthhammer]

It's not style. It's imaturity. Kindness and self awareness is an indication of high intelligence.

If u get to high places where people need to be very smart and have the character to be high performers, ud see this quality I speak of.

But I do see a lot of girls with ur "style" in an environment where there's no real standards or commitment involved.

[truthhammer]

It's not jealousy when people think ur obnoxious. Jealousy is what people who lack insight and understanding calls it.

[YummyLady]

For your information, my IQ is 131, just so you know and I was the student of the generation in my school. Haha. Somebody talkin' about my intelligence.

[truthhammer]

And if u knew more. Iq doesn't mean much. I can increase my iq by reading and solving math questions for a month. It's jut processing speed and part memory.

Also PhDs can also be fools. Just a sophisticated one.

WisDom and understanding is above all but love ( not being a deuche or insensitive just cause you can be) triumphs all.

You're a kid. Seriously.

[truthhammer]

First of all, I have a higher iq but i know its not a big deal if you dont do anything to make the word better. How you treat others will ultimately be what matters but you don't get wisdom
You don't. I m sorry people like you don't understand silent confidence and have to behave in a way to get validation but good for you... some people will tolerate you and it seems this is where you stop advancing.

Also I've been told I m good looking all my life and I've dated model looking girls... why I don't place you on a pedastal like these guys here who's never had 7s and up.

Who are you guys? You hate men now too? The audience you try so hard to get fed validation and sense of control from?

Sit down, you're predictable and typical

The world needs healers and people who serve and are selfless, not narcissists and instagram whores.

[truthhammer]

Go find yourself kid, when you do maybe you can make a positive impact in people's lives instead of leaving a sour foot print in people's grey matter.

[truthhammer]

"Humble yourself and the world will raise you, raise yourself and he world will humble you" go read and break more. Experience suffering and scarcity, precursor of enlightenment.

You lack empathy from your story. The differentiating factor of arrogance to nanrcissism. Which in many sense is a personality disorder. Perhaps you did not bond well frm the age of 1 to 6 with your main caregiver. It's psychology... I'm educated too:)

[truthhammer]

You say you're smart but your critical thinking is lacking as if you only understand from the small picture of your own life you're given.

Well good luck.

[AndreaButtercup]

Probably everything, but I would say body the most, because you can wear tons of makeup and have a pretty face, you can FAKE being confident and fun, but you really have to be BORN with a body like that! And work hard to keep it, which, even if they try, most girls don't achieve!!! You are blessed! You are lucky just do your THANG and screw em all!

My question to you would be why do you even CARE why they hate you? As long as they do it's good! Now go there and enjoy your life babe! *

[MyNameIs97]

Why do you honestly care why they hate you? Would you rather be THEM and have nobody hate you, or be who you are aka PERFECTION and have everybody hate you.
"People throw rocks at the things that shine!" Te only time I'll agree with Taylor Swift! LOL

[Cookie7]

Well, if I say that they are jealous of your confidence only, then they would have to be blind not to see your body and face. You can't separate everything that makes you - YOU! They are jealous of the WHOLE package.

Don't you know that already? Didn't you notice how girl are always voting down every of your questions, even here on G@G! They are jealous, I am glad that you enjoy it, I would too if I had the chance!

[CuriousBlackGirl]

It's cool to be confident. But It's annoying to think everyone who looks at you briefly is a hater. I'm super confident in who I am but I have eyes & they float around... if your dress it cute I acknowledge it by a compliment & move on lol. Maybe some are haters. Who cares? flip your hair & Sashay away.

[YummyLady]

Don't get me wrong, but I don't see a reason why YOU would be confident. LOL

[CuriousBlackGirl]

Lol here's a little advice hun don't feel flattered because guys are looking @ you because they will fuck damn near anything. Get a ring then you can talk. & Humble yourself because one accident is all it takes to remove all that confidence you claim you have.

[YummyLady]

You can borrow me your ring. I guess you have it, because guys tend to put rings on not so pretty girls, that way they are secure that they won't run away. LOL

[CuriousBlackGirl]

You mean I can LEND you my ring. & Beauty's In the eye of the beholder.

[Itsjustkeyitsme]

Most girls are jealous of a confident woman. It's a threat because confident women are sexy. I'm not model but I get a lot of looks and stares because I'll wear whatever I want to the club and be comfortable and I'll own it. I own my sexuality and my confidence. And that threatens a lot of girls

[YummyLady]

You go girl! ROCK IT! I love confident women!!!

[Itsjustkeyitsme]

😘 of course. We have to love ourselves flaws and all before anyone can love us. Better work!

[Ghosted]

Some confidence is extremely beautiful and will turn both male and female heads, but girl seriously lol just chill a little. For ur own sake. U look good, feel good, keep on keepin on! Girls do get jealous and some react by being catty. I guess they feel like theyre in competition. U dont see this as much in guys bc i think guys either get intimidated or admire the confident ones.

[Anonymous]

... you're saying that as if it's some kind of accomplishment? A girl could look like a potato but as long as she at least puts SOME effort into her appearance, makes sure to show off her ass and boobs and acts easy, any guy would go after her too. Guys have pretty low standards, so please stop acting like you're so gift from god lol. In reality most girls would get that same amount of attention if they'd let loose. Nothing special about it really...

[YummyLady]

Whatever makes you sleep at nigh, miss Universe

[Lady7]

I think you're just full of yourself. You wear too much make up, you're not "OMG she's SO HOT". So yea and its def not your charisma.

[YummyLady]

Haha, yeah it's girls like YOU I'm talkin about! XD LOL

[Lady7]

Why would i be jealous of you? Lol. I'd be jealous of you if you own more nice things than i do but well judging from your picture you dont. Lol.

[AleDeEurope]

She's fake, just like some of the other girls in this post that, so don't even bother with her/him.

[Lady7]

@AleDeEurope Nahh i just want to point out that the only reason why i get jealous of other girls is bc their things are nicer/more expensive than mine. Well she didn't respond to what i said so obviously what i said was true lol

[YummyLady]

Haha the reason I don't respond anymore is because I don't want to waste my fucking amazing life doing things like this. I am not going to respond to this crap anymore. LOL 😂😂

I pity all of you trolls whose lives are as miserable as to feel big when you "prove your point" on a sad site... I'll let you have these arguments, because, obviously, that is the only satisfaction you get from life, since you are burning in hate, a hate towards somebody who didn't do you any harm. #pathetic

You see, I have never been so low in my entire life to hate anybody. I am gonna go now and live my happy INSANELY awesome life where I am happy being who I am and confident about it. No more spending time talking to haters.

✌✌

[Omar5881]

What I see here that you're superficial, and you flirt with men in a relationship and you except their gfs to be happy about it , you live a life of apperances which I call a hollow life , If I may try to change your lifestyle to find something to do with your life , and I mean no offense or anything just an advice , and it's only my opinion 😊

[YummyLady]

Can't you READ? I said that I DON'T flirt with the taken ones. I said it like a 100 times.

[Omar5881]

Oh okie sorry lol sorry but i won't read all that I apologise

[TripleAce]

Well, if you wear stuff like that dress you liked so much 😂 i can see why you get strange looks. The guys just wanna spread their goods, all girls basically experience this

[YummyLady]

Not the ones that are hatin on me obvy!

[justbanANNAz]

about you, I'm not too sure it could be any of these. i just encountered a few girls like this at a party lol. it's weird because they are good looking but i feel like they hated the sight of me on the dance floor. oh well! :D

[TheDevilInside]

You need help, you have serious narcissistic disorder. Also, dress ing provpcatively means you have no class. Seriously, go to a professional before your head explodes, sl__.

[JuicyCat04]

All of the above, obvy, bae! You are wonderfull and they are just jealous of everything! 💞💞💞

[WhatAreYouReading]

I didn't vote because none of that would bother me. If that type of stuff bothers someone they should probably work on themselves and their self confidence though.

[IceEverest]

They are jealous because you are getting all the guys and they aren't.

[RinXD]

Not gonna lie women that most people find very hot have usually had horrible personalities so i rarely if ever care

[Anonymous]

you think you are a head turner? geez i wouldn't even notice you, you are like a 4.

[Anonymous]

I think your narcissic