Do you flirt with other people even though you're in a relationship?

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TruthBringer · Accepted Answer

No, I never have and do not plan on ever doing so. Even when I was in toxic relationships I still didn't do it. There is something called loyalty and integrity. If I do not wish to remain loyal to a girl, I would still not do it because of intergrity. And I would of course just end the relationship. I've had a "girlfriend" who talked with other guys behind my back, so I could easily do the same, but I don't feel like stooping low to her level. Glad that I got rid of that headache of a person.

People who flirt when they are supposed to be in relationships obviously do not understand the concept of a relationship. If you're in a monogamous relationship and you're flirting, then you're clearly unsuitable to be in a relationship with. Many people want the best of both worlds and want to have their cake and eat it too. So they act like they are single yet want the benefits of a relationship. That's not how it works, either your single and live your life freely or you accept you're in a relationship and do not overstep boundaries.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

No, I would consider that to be disloyal and a violation of the Golden Rule. I wouldn't want a girlfriend to do that to me, so I would treat her the way I want to be treated.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

No I wouldn't.. I'm more friendly, than flirty anyways. But even if I was a flirty person, I wouldn't flirt with anyone but my SO.. That would be wrong to do to your partner, but also wrong to the people you'd be flirting with like you're available when you're not, or give them false hope it could lead to something, and I don't play those kind of games with people or their feelings

Martha1996 · Accepted Answer

Only if their cops or checkout person at the register counts.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

No. That’s unfaithful in me and my partner’s relationship rule book lol.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If I start showing interest in anyone else, it's only because the relationship is so completely on the rocks that I doubt it can be salvaged. But I don't outright pursue until I feel confident saying that the previous thing is truly over.

When I do get a new crush that I want to pursue, no matter how many women I've been flirting with, I eventually develop eyes only for the target. The other women gradually fade away, and may get confused why I'm suddenly not showing as much interest. I just tell them: I've fallen for someone. I want to get exclusive with her.

Red_Dawn123 · Answer

Absolutely not. Flirting with others while in a relationship (at least a monogamous one) is basically just another form of cheating. I wouldn’t do it to my partner and I wouldn’t accept her doing anything of the sort. If you wanna flirt with everyone, be single. Don’t hurt someone unnecessarily. Also, some people are natural flirts, but it still takes a conscious decision to flirt.

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Yes, sort of! I have a flirtatious way about me, and being in a relationship doesn’t change my personality but when I’m in a relationship my flirtations are very toned down, and difficult to mistake for my being “interested”. Before anyone asks, NO obviously I don’t object to my boyfriend being flirtatious.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

I naturally flirt, even with friends, it’s not a sexual flirt it’s just a thing.

i even do it when shopping etc, some of it is simply humour and having a bit of a laugh with the other person.

The idea is not to make the other person uncomfortable, if you can’t do that or notice when you do, then don’t flirt.

MrOracle · Answer

I don't aggressively flirt, but I might be slightly flirty with a waitress or cashier or something. More of a humorous thing than sexual, though.

I'm definitely not going to be outright hitting on other girls, certainly. I just have an outgoing personality at times.

Alyssa_11 · Answer

No but I did entertain other guys flirting with me in my last relationship. It was because my ex wasn’t treating me right and I loved him too much to leave. But I felt shitty and worthless because he wouldn’t treat me the right way. Other guys would though. So I appreciated it when other men would compliment me for example when he didn’t.

This is why you should take care of your girl. I never wanted to be in that position anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm more freely talkative and happy when I'm in a relationship which can translate or come off to some as if I am more flirtatious when I'm I a relationship as opposed to when I'm single I become more quiet and reserved. It's not flirting it's just I'm happier and it can come off as such.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

If i'm in serious relationship or married, i always respect the girl who is with me and would never flirt, i make jokes and make others laugh but with limits, if i want to be naughty than i'll only be naughty with my girl and make sure that she's having a fun time and that she's happy 🙂

WhatMeow · Answer

If you are in a relationship where your partner trusts you and you flirt in a friendly manner and do not Iead anyone on to thinking there is real interest I see no harm. For example, I am in sales and my wife understands that I have flirted with my customers both women and men in a harmless way. She has witnessed it and been on the phone (in my ear on Bluetooth) when I do it.

dmyger · Answer

Why not? It seems that you are misinterpret concept of the flirt. What wrong with "to behave towards somebody as if you find them sexually attractive, without seriously wanting to have a relationship with them"? 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

I admit I have in the past and I wasn’t proud of it. Not to say anything came of it. But still it wasn’t respectful to my then girlfriend. I never did this in front of my girlfriend though and sure as hell would never of did it to test her or any other girl I am dating.

Some women try to justify this crap as a way to shit test their bfs/husbands. They want to see how jealous they will get as “proof” they guy loves them. Ladies don’t do that. Not cool for real.

ohshee · Answer

Well right now I'm single so but to be honest with you I wouldn't want it done to me so I wouldn't do it to her and I'm a loyal guy I like having the best in relationships I mean if you're going to be in at being at all the way

Dinklex3 · Answer

No.  I only have eyes for one man when I'm in a relationship.

Star_88 · Answer

Then it's not a relationship. People need to grow up. They want a fully committed partner but also to taste and enjoy others which is not fair. They'll get hit hard sooner or later in life.

muscularbumblebee · Answer

I used to a lot honestly as I never took my relationships that seriously even the long term ones.. I know I still feel bad. But now never no. Unless it was pre-relationship talking stage

Roseanne8037 · Answer

No never, there’s a difference with being polite and straightforward than being overly friendly which becomes flirting with an intention, in my opinion there’s no such thing as harmless flirting, you should only want to do that with your partner unless you want more attention because your partners isn’t enough.

Lonewulf57 · Answer

I have been told I have a flirtatious personality especially by previous girlfriends (my stepmom noticed it too (not towards her)). I think my girlfriends just didn't like me having female friends.

Buffy_Gee · Answer

Yes, it's a friendly flirt. Not with intention of hurting my partner , but just to have fun with my ego and leave someone new longing for me, it's good for just my ego. I wouldn't want my partner to find out, and if she happens to find out then she just needs to be careful with her response because I'm also sensitive 🥺

shaysh87 · Answer

Some married people flirt not because they are interested in pursuing other people but because they like to feel like they are still attractive

petitedollbabee · Answer

No, that’s borderline cheating in my eyes. Why would I feel the need to flirt with others if I’m happy and content in my relationship.

crimsonandclover2 · Answer

I would never do that.. That's dishonest, unethical and disgusting

molonski2 · Answer

Yes , I think pretty much everyone does , its a nice thing to do and always enjoy the banter and sexual suggestions.

brezzybaby · Answer

I don't mean to but sometimes it comes out that way people have said that I have a way with stealing hearts by just looking at them. I love that. But that also puts me in an uncomfortable situation

Guccigabbana18 · Answer

No because if I’m in a relationship it means I like them enough to just stick to one person. If I wanted to flirt around, I would be single

Sincerly_KittyCat · Answer

No if i am in a relationship (married ) then i wouldn't be flirting. Flirting is something single people alone should do, in my opinion.

Sasha_Gee · Answer

No but my friendliness can be confused with flirting. Not being touchy or hinting sex. I'm speaking about just being friendly and open to someone

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Not intentionally, but I also do not think of it as romantic just being friendly.

sunflower00 · Answer

No, it’s disrespectful and I wouldn’t want to anyway.

TheBootyChest · Answer

What people call flirting, I would say is me being overly friendly.

clampfan101 · Answer

I will never do this. I was in a very complicated relationship for over 10 years, and I still never once considered seeking attention from anyone but her.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Hell no. A bit annoying though, when women flirt with me, i'm standing there like "yup, i'm a good boy" 😗 or just act dumber than usual.

Anonymous · Answer

She knows i do have female friends... and she knows i joke... and i always joke so maybe i do flirt too witjout having intention to flirt but with intention of joke... if this somehow makes sense

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

When I'm in a relationship I don't flirt with other females

kellytheman · Answer

Maybe friendly flirty but that be as far as I go. I wouldn't touch her or act on anything I might say.

JaneDoe455320 · Answer

Never. If you are in a relationship you need to be loyal to whom ever you are in the relationship with

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

Most of the relationships I have been in were open, so yes.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Only troublemakers do that. Flirting just leads to interest spiking from one or both people.

AdithyaR · Answer

I don't flirt even when I'm single, much less in a relationship.

Honestguyopen · Answer

I have, but I try. not to do it now. If I do, I make sure to. not let it go too far for either person

OddBeMe · Answer

Yeah I have female friends and make dirty jokes at each other. Maybe because we’re all 100% in committed relationships.

Justausernameforme · Answer

Nope. I'm devoted to my spouse, period. I will give compliments but flirting is an indication you're not in a serious relationship. My opinion.

Naughtyboy71 · Answer

Yes it just innocent flirting   How you feel if I was flirting with you

Jadabae123 · Answer

No I don’t because I think that’s disrespectful to your partner If you flirt because that means your showing interest in someone else while your in a relationship

Godsvengeance · Answer

I've been told I do but it's not intentional. I'm just an open and friendly guy

VikingWarLord · Answer

If I'm dating an average looking chic I'll definitely be looking to cheat with a hotter female

Cjay90841 · Answer

Yep, however I’m in an occupation where a level of flirtation is part of the job. I guess it’s all about not crossing the line.

sweetxpoison · Answer

I don't think it's right to flirt when you are in a relationship. That's unfaithful you should be loyal to the person u love

MacLove999 · Answer

I expect my women to be human and have flirt game. If she is pursuing other men its her choice. If i pursed other women means our love is dead.

60simplicity · Answer

Being to polite or courteous can some time be consider flirting we all d do it be it conscience or sub consciously

Better_off_here · Answer

i think most people flirt to a degree even without realizing it, but it is either way its wrong

Anonymous · Answer

I know this doesn’t answer the question, but I want to beat up my cheating girlfriend because she slept with another man while I was facing bankruptcy.

Anonymous · Answer

No, never. And I have zero respect for anyone who does.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. Tbh my girlfriend gets pretty jealous and I think it’s hot. Sometimes we even end up having mind blowing sex because of her jealousy.

SmallDStraightCuck · Answer

I don't, but my wife does a lot. I support her in doing it.

Mikewnaz2019 · Answer

I personally don’t. If I love someone then all my attention on them is plenty to make me happy.

Michael82 · Answer

No because that would make the so suspicious and hurt

EcoKarolina · Answer

If you still interested in flirting with someone else, relationship won't last.

nighty765 · Answer

Sure why not , my ex used to flirt with anyone , even his shadow😬

DepLogic2 · Answer

Flirting can be fun and social without acting on anything wrong.

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