No, I never have and do not plan on ever doing so. Even when I was in toxic relationships I still didn't do it. There is something called loyalty and integrity. If I do not wish to remain loyal to a girl, I would still not do it because of intergrity. And I would of course just end the relationship. I've had a "girlfriend" who talked with other guys behind my back, so I could easily do the same, but I don't feel like stooping low to her level. Glad that I got rid of that headache of a person.
People who flirt when they are supposed to be in relationships obviously do not understand the concept of a relationship. If you're in a monogamous relationship and you're flirting, then you're clearly unsuitable to be in a relationship with. Many people want the best of both worlds and want to have their cake and eat it too. So they act like they are single yet want the benefits of a relationship. That's not how it works, either your single and live your life freely or you accept you're in a relationship and do not overstep boundaries.
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No, I would consider that to be disloyal and a violation of the Golden Rule. I wouldn't want a girlfriend to do that to me, so I would treat her the way I want to be treated.
No I wouldn't.. I'm more friendly, than flirty anyways. But even if I was a flirty person, I wouldn't flirt with anyone but my SO.. That would be wrong to do to your partner, but also wrong to the people you'd be flirting with like you're available when you're not, or give them false hope it could lead to something, and I don't play those kind of games with people or their feelings
Only if their cops or checkout person at the register counts.
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No. That’s unfaithful in me and my partner’s relationship rule book lol.
Absolutely not. Flirting with others while in a relationship (at least a monogamous one) is basically just another form of cheating. I wouldn’t do it to my partner and I wouldn’t accept her doing anything of the sort. If you wanna flirt with everyone, be single. Don’t hurt someone unnecessarily. Also, some people are natural flirts, but it still takes a conscious decision to flirt.
If I start showing interest in anyone else, it's only because the relationship is so completely on the rocks that I doubt it can be salvaged. But I don't outright pursue until I feel confident saying that the previous thing is truly over.
When I do get a new crush that I want to pursue, no matter how many women I've been flirting with, I eventually develop eyes only for the target. The other women gradually fade away, and may get confused why I'm suddenly not showing as much interest. I just tell them: I've fallen for someone. I want to get exclusive with her.Yes, sort of! I have a flirtatious way about me, and being in a relationship doesn’t change my personality but when I’m in a relationship my flirtations are very toned down, and difficult to mistake for my being “interested”. Before anyone asks, NO obviously I don’t object to my boyfriend being flirtatious.
I naturally flirt, even with friends, it’s not a sexual flirt it’s just a thing.
i even do it when shopping etc, some of it is simply humour and having a bit of a laugh with the other person.
The idea is not to make the other person uncomfortable, if you can’t do that or notice when you do, then don’t flirt.I don't aggressively flirt, but I might be slightly flirty with a waitress or cashier or something. More of a humorous thing than sexual, though.
I'm definitely not going to be outright hitting on other girls, certainly. I just have an outgoing personality at times.No but I did entertain other guys flirting with me in my last relationship. It was because my ex wasn’t treating me right and I loved him too much to leave. But I felt shitty and worthless because he wouldn’t treat me the right way. Other guys would though. So I appreciated it when other men would compliment me for example when he didn’t.
This is why you should take care of your girl. I never wanted to be in that position anyway.I'm more freely talkative and happy when I'm in a relationship which can translate or come off to some as if I am more flirtatious when I'm I a relationship as opposed to when I'm single I become more quiet and reserved. It's not flirting it's just I'm happier and it can come off as such.
If i'm in serious relationship or married, i always respect the girl who is with me and would never flirt, i make jokes and make others laugh but with limits, if i want to be naughty than i'll only be naughty with my girl and make sure that she's having a fun time and that she's happy 🙂
If you are in a relationship where your partner trusts you and you flirt in a friendly manner and do not Iead anyone on to thinking there is real interest I see no harm. For example, I am in sales and my wife understands that I have flirted with my customers both women and men in a harmless way. She has witnessed it and been on the phone (in my ear on Bluetooth) when I do it.
Why not? It seems that you are misinterpret concept of the flirt. What wrong with "to behave towards somebody as if you find them sexually attractive, without seriously wanting to have a relationship with them"? 🤷♂️
I admit I have in the past and I wasn’t proud of it. Not to say anything came of it. But still it wasn’t respectful to my then girlfriend. I never did this in front of my girlfriend though and sure as hell would never of did it to test her or any other girl I am dating.
Some women try to justify this crap as a way to shit test their bfs/husbands. They want to see how jealous they will get as “proof” they guy loves them. Ladies don’t do that. Not cool for real.Well right now I'm single so but to be honest with you I wouldn't want it done to me so I wouldn't do it to her and I'm a loyal guy I like having the best in relationships I mean if you're going to be in at being at all the way
No.
I only have eyes for one man when I'm in a relationship.Then it's not a relationship. People need to grow up.
They want a fully committed partner but also to taste and enjoy others which is not fair.
They'll get hit hard sooner or later in life.I used to a lot honestly as I never took my relationships that seriously even the long term ones.. I know I still feel bad. But now never no. Unless it was pre-relationship talking stage
No never, there’s a difference with being polite and straightforward than being overly friendly which becomes flirting with an intention, in my opinion there’s no such thing as harmless flirting, you should only want to do that with your partner unless you want more attention because your partners isn’t enough.
I have been told I have a flirtatious personality especially by previous girlfriends (my stepmom noticed it too (not towards her)). I think my girlfriends just didn't like me having female friends.
Yes, it's a friendly flirt. Not with intention of hurting my partner , but just to have fun with my ego and leave someone new longing for me, it's good for just my ego. I wouldn't want my partner to find out, and if she happens to find out then she just needs to be careful with her response because I'm also sensitive 🥺
Some married people flirt not because they are interested in pursuing other people but because they like to feel like they are still attractive
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