How often do you flirt without realizing it?

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Red_Arrow · Accepted Answer

On here, with someone I know and who would understand what I am doing, I flirt intentionally a lot. It is just interaction. With people I don't know, it sometimes spills out unintentionally, and I hope they understand. In real life, It is just a part of me to flirt without being serious. I have never offended anyone at work, but find myself thinking, "Why did I say that?" after something that I would not want someone else overhearing. The people I joke around with are similar to me in attitudes, but sometimes I forget there are others that could overhear and not think well of what I said (like the boss!)

mistninja314 · Accepted Answer

IRL people seem to mistake my natural smile while I'm talking on top of my ENERGETIC/funny-random personality as a sign of me FLIRTING WITH THEM all of the time. IT GETS ANNOYING because, I'm never complimenting ___ NOR am I even trying to lead them on YET THEY THINK I like them LOL.

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BelleGirl21 · Accepted Answer

In real life? A lot I think on gag I always realize what I'm doing and I do it well! 😘😘😘

Rcjh1987 · Accepted Answer

honestly everyday I just have that personality, it doesn't mean I like them like that though.

MissNowhere · Accepted Answer

Never cuz I never even flirt, I'm way too awkward lol

mgalex · Answer

I flirt all the time for no reason at all.. With my neighbours, with the cleaning lady at the office, with my colleagues, with my female friends and even with the barista at my favorite coffee shop.

It's not something I do because I intend to but I simply do it by nature.

Drake · Answer

well depends:
when i talk to a girl i dont like, ill never flirt or even respond.
When im with a girl i have no feelings for im friendly and polite.
When im with a girl i know better and have better relation with i make lots of sexual intended jokes.
When im with my crush, i really just am myself but being more direct (sexual jokes that are childish, make her laugh, make her mad, force her to lead the convo, make fucking deep eyecontact, talk about her ass, clothes and shit,)
Now you make up if my flirting is all the time and if its effective :p

Octavion · Answer

I only accidentally flirt if I'm having a really good day and I start talking to a girl without any intentions. I just feel good and I want to spread that feeling to others so I sometimes accidentally lead them on a little.

Consultant · Answer

I've always been a flirt. As long as I can remember. I like hanging out with girls more than guys often times. Especially in college. Girls are often times more fun.

CuiqueSuum · Answer

If we are legitimately flirting without realizing it, how would we know how much we do it? Unless somebody is with you pointing out every time you do it.

blondfrog · Answer

I always am aware when I am doing it the problem is I am not always aware when a woman is flirting with me lol.

YourFutureEx · Answer

I never flirt.  by the way what are you doing this  Friday  eve?

YazanAA · Answer

Oh god you are very beautiful... What was the question again?

Kshppatel · Answer

"Ayy gurl hows about you and me go to that new restaraunt, have us a candle light dinner, I get you some flowers and we just have us a good time nomsayin? Let me be that man to make yo dreams come true nomsayin."

"Uh I don't know what you got from that but I'm not interested.. sorry.."

Anonymous · Answer

Not often. I usually know what I'm doing. A better question is "how often do you flirt and not mean it"? Sometimes I flirt just for fun, not because I'm interested in dating her. Before you get too mad at me, though, I have found that nearly ALL the girls who flirt with me are only doing it for fun. :P Karma, and all that...

akadatank44 · Answer

Quite a bit in person  With you @cl_517 all the time purposely ;) :p

Klaatu51 · Answer

LOL is this guy in yer pic stealin' Napoleon's moves?

I_am_repulsive · Answer

I've always been a flirty type of person, at times I don't even really realize it any more, and it's just basically natural; it's always been a harmless flirt and nothing very sexual at that.

Dannyisfine · Answer

Wow, you bare soo gorgeous, I Luv your smile... Wait!!! What was the question again? LMAO

CarolinaGuti · Answer

Oh man I flirt a lot and don't realize it until later. It's just my personality.

thewanderingme · Answer

I used to all the time, with men and women. now only when I like a guy.

DodgersGM · Answer

I think that sometimes my being engaging and smiley can be misinterpreted as flirting, even though I'm really not being flirty at all.

JustinCaseUDontKnow · Answer

I'm not forward guy so it's hard for me to flirt but i like it when i get started  I'm very shy too so it's hard for me ;)

Shaft50 · Answer

I don't know how often because I don't realise it...

wankiam · Answer

if i didn't realise then how could i answer. thats like asking how many undiscovered caves are there?

DarkHumorRUs · Answer

I don't ever "try" to flirt so I don't know And about picture, 90% of people think they aren't "Normal Person Flirting", just letting you know.

Canterbury_Bellz · Answer

Lol my flirting would be me saying something while blushing uncontrollably. So no. .

BertMacklinFBI · Answer

im a natural flirt so... I never realize.

NateInAk · Answer

People tell me I flirt a lot. And I'm just saying stuff like: Good Mornin, how ya doing, hello etc. How is that flirting?

Anonymous · Answer

Since I learned how to deal with my shit and be comfortable? All the damn time lol

MyInternetUserName · Answer

I don't know know, I'm usually too busy talking about pizza. Is that flirting?

Anonymous · Answer

My bf says I have this body language, and the way I talk, that makes it look like I am flirting with every guy. And I have never noticed that but its sweet of him to point it out than saying bye. :P

AngryHorny · Answer

I don't see how that would be possible. Flirting is a conscious process.

2014raser · Answer

Well, since I do it without realizing it so much then that means that I have no idea how much I do it. ;)

rocccky · Answer

I always ends up making fun of people than flirt... Lol!

Anonymous · Answer

Apparently all the time. Honestly the majority of guys I talk to think I'm interested in them when I'm just trying to be friendly.

bubble_tea · Answer

I don't flirt. I talk.

menina · Answer

To be honest, I don't know how to flirt...

Account · Answer

I am not sure if I am capable of it.

Anonymous · Answer

never. i have completely quit on women. i hate one stand culture so if im not gonna marry one i dont care at all.

Starry_Night93 · Answer

I know when I'm flirting.

chocolateismylover · Answer

I don't flirt...

subzero007 · Answer

Flirting is a art lol

GoldCobra · Answer

I always realize it

TrueSweetness724 · Answer

All the time

PT1911 · Answer

I only flirt back. Otherwise I keep to myself

apple24 · Answer

LOL... on here or in real life hhahaha?

Succcesssfulll · Answer

Probably 3 times a week.

ihatethiswebsite · Answer

I never flirt or accidentally flirt with anyone.

douride2 · Answer

Me flirt naw?

Anonymous · Answer

they call me mr steal yo girl

Anonymous · Answer

I don't flirt, ever.

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