Do you have a tendency to flirt?

[Finchie40]

I will admit that I do. I love girls’ and when I see a girl that is beautiful to my eyes that takes my breathe away , it’s somewhat hard for me not to introduce myself or not say something to her to try to get her attention , I try not to come off as creepy as fuck which I feel in most cases I don’t mainly cuz I am not shy and considered a down to earth guy , My friends laugh that I just go for it. I old them the reason why I do it and they understand they just say they wish they had the balls that I do. I tell them all the time you will never know if you don’t try. Which throughout my experiences has worked for me. Do you have a tendency to flirt or are you more shy?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Not if I'm in a relationship. I understand that there are people who flirt just for fun and I would consider myself someone who has always lived with at least one foot in that camp of thought, however women are very emotional and even playing around can cause a situation where I am inadvertently leading someone on.

Unless I know the person very well and they understand why even if I was single, we wouldn't be dating in a longterm kind of way and also agree with my opinion or they have their own that I believe is sound enough; with very few yet obvious common sense exceptions, I would never flirt with another woman other than the one I am in a relationship with.

I have never cheated, I never will cheat, I think it's disgusting and disrespectful, not just because of the immorality of it, but the time you've wasted out of the other person's life by effectively lying to them.

Some people can do it, I don't necessarily see people in relationships flirt and immediately think to myself "that guy's a scumbag" because that would be very shortsighted to my personal life goals.

When I'm single, I literally speak by flirting.

[Anonymous]

Not shy.. but something about self respect or something never lets me do that
(Don't get me wrong, I don't mean thise who flirt don't have self respect)

Maybe it's the fear that I would look like a loser if the girl just ignores me or says not interested
But I do well when Girls make the first move lol

[Finchie40]

See to me that means you are shy , if you our afraid or nervous of being denied or rejected by a girl then you are shy and lack confidence in yourself , it doesn’t mean you are a loser or a bad person cuz you feel that way , cuz nobody likes being rejected or denied and turned down by someone they are attracted to or interested in. It just means you lack confidence in yourself and have low self esteem about yourself. I use to be the same exact way honestly, until i realized what do I really have to lose? Other People can laugh all they want , making you feel like you were dumb for even trying , the truth is , they are the ones that are dumb , those people wish they had the balls that a confident person has. Confidence comes from within yourself by you understanding you are who you are, We are all imperfect people , we all come from different paths in life , so No one truly knows who you are , only you know who you are. My thing is if I see a beautiful girl that gives me those tingly feelings like Damn she is gorgeous , my ass is going for it , cuz the way I look at it is this is my window of opportunity, I either take the chance or not take the chance at all , I rather take the chance of having an answer over just not saying a word and going home kicking myself on the ass for not trying period, and more than likely , I will probably never run into that girl again , so it’s better on my opinion to go for it , even if you get denied , you know you tried , if you have friends with you yes they will laugh and bust your balls but eventually they will tell you the truth hey Man at least you tried , she was hot as fuck lol And yea I agree a girl making the first move makes it a lot easier lol

[Opinion Owner]

Woww

[Juicyred921]

No. Honestly, I’m not even sure I know how to flirt. I was with my ex for over 15 years. We met at a party when I was 19. So when I became single again, I didn’t even know how to met guys. I asked my friends “so.. do I just hang out at a Home Depot. Strike a pose in the hand tools aisle asking them about their power drill? Like.. excuse me sir, do you know where I can find quick hardening caulk? 😂 “ Found out quick that online dating is for booty calls. So.. yeah. I’m not good at talking to guys I’m interested in. But tbh, does anyone really flirt IRL anymore? Maybe it’s just me. But I’ve never been hit on or flirted with sense I was in high school. And I’ve been a barber for almost 20 years. So I’ve met A LOT of men. But me and my clients have had really cool conversations and some of them I’ve cut their hair for 10+ years. But I don’t think any of my clients have ever flirted with me. Some coworkers say they have but really we were just having a really fun conversation. And I love making my clients laugh. But I don’t consider that flirting.

[Rei13]

I don’t flirt intentionally. I tend to smile at people and am just generally friendly and upbeat. I also try to pay attention to what others say and remember it. Sometimes people take it the wrong way. Generally if I flirt intentionally I might touch the other persons arm for example and try to be near them

[Nxtawm]

No irl I’m too awkward too, I try not to look at guys and wouldn’t approach them (I’m okay being friendly if they talk to me first). I’m not rlly a flirty person either but my friends have said that online I’m more extroverted and friendly so some guys could misunderstand it as flirting.

[nastyb]

didn't you say you currently have a girlfriend?

If you're asking a question like this while being in a relationship, I would question how emotionally invested you are

[serious]

No. I never flirt. I am not shy either, I am very reserved.

[Grovermint]

Nope. Don't bother. I'm an all or nothing kind of guy and I've been rejected enough to know that signals are all bollocks.

[Pinay_ako]

Yes… it just happens.

[BLP11520]

I am a natural flirt, I do it without realizing sometimes

[Anonymous]

No. If a woman flirts with me I just ridicule her and she assumes that's me flirting.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Do you do the same when in a relationship?

[Finchie40]

Not at all , i feel it’s disrespectful , if I am in a committed relationship then the only girl I am flirting with his her , and hoping she does the same for me. Usually when I am in a relationship , other girls’ tend to try to flirt with me , so I am still polite and flattered , but I will make it clear to the other girl that I am already taken but thank you for noticing me for whatever reason lol. my thing is their is No reason to be rude to someone that has no clue what your relationship status is , you should only get rude to someone when they aren’t taking No for an answer. The truth about me is I tend to analyze things in my head , I tend to put myself in my partners shoes when it comes to making decisions , Now whether my partner does that for me or not that’s not my problem, because I can’t force her to do what I do for her , I just respect her the same way i want to be respected in return , I honestly been on both sides of the spectrum , so I think that’s mainly why I am this way , when it comes to commitment, For a relationship to work both partners’ should wear each others shoes before making decisions and
Respect each other , if you can’t respect
Your partner , it’s going to be hard for them to respect you period , is the way I look at it. Relationships should always be you and your partner VS the world , for love to grow , both partner’s need to choose each other over everyone else or it isn’t going to work , if you both aren’t on the same page as things. No relationship is perfect , but when you choose to value your partner and prioritize them and sacrifice for them , it makes it easier for your partner to do the same for you , is how I look at things , You can’t expect someone to do for you , if you can’t do for them period. Why communication is important , if something is bothering me , I will communicate with her and let her know what is bothering me instead of just assuming she can read my mind. If she loves me like I love her she will

[Finchie40]

Fix it with me to bring us closer together , if not, then I realize she doesn’t value me like I value her and I will tell her maybe it’s best to go out separate ways because I don’t want to stay in a relationship with someone that doesn’t choose me the same way they expect me to choose them , it’s just a waste of time , if we are not on the same page as things. , she will either chase me back or walk away , the lovely dumb games we play in relationships lol Sadly
Most girls today think I am talking out of my ass when I tell them I only want one girl , and that I don’t need other girls’ I want just one girl that loves me like I love her , a girl that prioritizes me like I prioritize her , I honesty feel it’s dirty and degrading when people have multiple sex partners , I can’t stay committed to a girl that needs other cocks in her , and I wouldn’t expect her to be with me if I needed other girls
Period, I think it’s dirty and degrading and unsafe to just screw random people , I honestly can’t have sex with a girl , unless I feel it means something , and that it’s going somewhere , it’s just the way I am and how I look at Love. When I meet a girl that only wants me , that’s when I start taking my walls down to respect her the same way I want to be respected in return.

[Adaeva]

Of course, I flirt.

[Nikki1989]

That is what people tell me.

[Likes2drive]

I’m basically shy with that

[Anonymous]

Only if I am in the mood.