Is it a turn off if I don’t know how to flirt?

[Anonymous]

Literally I don’t know how to flirt 😭 so I dreamt about this guy who kissed me on the check and we’re on his bed not doing anything dirty. I told about the dream and he’s like I have a tendency to make things a reality. And well I really don’t know what to say to that. And I want to flirt back but not to where it’ll seem like I want sex. Just enough for him to know that I do like him 😩 I’ve been through some stuff and always put a shield up and never allowed my self to be myself around a guy and I think that’s why I can’t flirt. So do you guys find it unattractive when a girl won’t flirt back?

[Anonymous]

No, it's ok. I think you're overthinking it. If you like what's happening, just be sweet and maybe give him a look like you want him to kiss you. Smile gently and maybe touch his hair or brush his shoulder slightly. Don't overthink it but give him some indication that you like his advances.

[FilmGuy93]

Yes, that is a massive turnoff to me.

[Anonymous]

No, I can't flirt either.

[In_Trance]

Yea, it will cost you