Why not just practice with I don't know, single women?
The same reason why people practice for performances before a big show.
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Hope you guys have a happy marriage.
To not be honest is disrespectful if you have a partner now that partner has to give her just as much as you do tell her that someone is flirting with you might start her just a little up the level of love do you have a partner and you truly love each other they know you're leaving with who they come with cuz if I little flirting Riles you up you going to have a lot of problems
Many married people like to lead single folks on for attention, you know that right? Often times they might even go as far as having sex or affairs with single folks then when their spouses find out, they refuse to acknowledge the single folks that anything had went on between them. So, no its not ok for married folks to initiate anything. Just because you initiate, it doesn't mean its right to flirt back.
@nella965 I know that, but I was responding to the question. The question asked when it was okay to flirt with someone in a relationship. I think that unless the person is married, the flirting is only okay if the taken person initiates it.
here's another point of view though: The marriage is not the single person's responsibility. In other words, the survival of your marriage does not matter to him or her. So why would it be wrong for them to initiate? As long as the married person does not respond, then everything is fine.
@nella965 Hence my original comment: the ONLY time flirting with a taken person is okay, is if the taken person initiates it.
Also, not all single folks will respond well if a married person flirts with them. It can also be very awkward given that he or she is married. The single person might not even feel the need to flirt back. Just because you're single, it doesn't mean you're necessarily receptive to all flirting. I know I wouldn't.
Wao! You are so confident and so you even though you are in a relationship?
Lol , Sorry, my English is not so good. What i am saying is that you are naturally flirty and you keep being that way even with a partner and your boyfriend has, to, understand and period. Just saying thats awesome !! Lol
@LovelyCor yeah.. don’t be jelly mr future boyfriend haha
Yes that's a fantastic answer lol
I suppose you'd be completely happy him flirting with other girls.
@Oram52 “friendly flirty” would be fine.
There are different levels of flirting... sometimes driven from a fun motive bc the interaction is playful.. or instrumental reasons, say I need help with a task... But, for exploring... there are lines you should never cross. Unless of course the girl is flirting with me too! HA
But if the girl in the relationship obvious feels threatened by me with her death stares, I’d keep my distance all together. Whatever.
That rarely ends well.
That's a good point.
You sure about that? 😂
@Bcoaster23 Ms. Temptation
I am personally inclined to disagree to an extent. Talk is talk a lot of the time. There are, nonetheless, boundaries to be cognizant of.
I can't be with a guy who flirts with every girl even if he doesn't intend for it to lead anywhere. It's just not attractive and it makes me feel uncomfortable and inadequate.
These are good points, never really thought of it before.
That's who you with and sure it should be given but you can't tell me you haven't looked at somebody else and thought of wait a minute I'm sorry you're 23 answer this question in 10 years
Isn't that then an invitation /temptation/seduction? What other outcome would they expect than reciprocity?
@toastygoblins friendly flirting and if the person in is already in a relationship
Friendly flirting? Is that how you are justifying it? There's no friendly flirting or healthy flirting. Either you're interested in someone or you're not and if you are it's only a matter of time and opportunity.
@Nikidoll17 yeah I am there is a difference between friendly and aggressive
Flirting is still flirting right? Friendly or aggressive. It still means you're interested and why flirt if you're not interested? When an opportunity comes up like when the persons in a bad place with their partner, you'd take the chance to be there for them and since it's the time and opportunity, might just flirt aggressively which makes it escalate.