Regret Kissing Him?

[Anonymous]

I moved away from where I was living about 5months ago. I live about 4hours from there now. I went back to visit last weekend. When I first got down there me and my sister went for a drink the the pub which I always used to go to. The barman who had always worked there started chatting me up, he was always very flirty before but had a girlfriend. He told me he was single now and asked me if I was gonna be out Saturday night, I was completely shocked cause I didn't even realize he fancied me, but kind of flattered. He's a lovely guy and iv always liked him. Anyway it came to Saturday night and me and my sister and my best mate went out, he was working, and gave us free rounds of drinks all night. I got very very drunk. more drunk than iv ever got before! anyway we were kissing and everything, this is while I was WASTED, and he was telling me how beautiful I was etc. how he'd always fancied me but he couldn't do anything cause he had a girlfriend. Anyway I went home with my sister and passed out. Next morning I felt AWFUL and completely regretted doing it cause I don't really fancy him, plus I'm kinda seeing another boy at the moment. Next thing I knew id gone home and he was asking my sister for my number and telling her how much he likes me, and now he's texting me asking me when I'm next down and he can't wait to see me again. How do I tell him I'm not interested? He really is a nice guy and I don't wanna hurt him! Help!

[cutie4541]

i've been there I was drunk at this party and there was this relle fat ugly guy there we ended up making out and he was texting me tell me I was pretty and asking me out and then I finally said yes which was the worst mistake of my life so don't do that what you have to do is just tell him its better if you do it in person because people tend to be nicer in person o and btw I broke up with the guy and it was horrible now we never talk.



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[lucy_mae]

You were drunk, you kissed him, it's not a big deal. Just tell him that you had a great night but you are seeing someone right now and don't want to take things further. And I wouldn't tell the guy you're dating since you're only "kinda seeing" him. Just be glad that kissing is all you did.

[Ibbignerd]

Umm the truth normaly works