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Hello everyone! Im currently dating two guys, Neil and Zach, and I dunno which one would be better for me.
Neil is a very handsome man, and he's also fun to be around.
But if I start a relationship, it is gonna be long distance.. And it will take more than 8 hours to see him every time. I also have a very full program so I won't be able to see him often. He acts immature at times. He tries to make me feel stupid sometimes. Also once, he fully explained to me how some random girls had started a conversation with him at a bar, and asked him out. He even said he accepted them on social media and they texted. When i got mad he said he'd never cheat on someone and that flirting is normal. I've heard he once had gotten into a fight with another guy and punched him for a friend of mine, because they both liked her. Anyway, he mentions that friend a lot:/.. He can't find a good job easily as his uni is not that good
Now Zach attends a very good university. He also lives just one hour away from me. He's never been rude to me till now, he's a gentleman. He's more mature than Neil tbh. I think he'd treat me better and that we would have a more serious thing. But he's definitely not as good looking as Neil. He's average looking. I'm not attracted to him as much as I'm attracted to neil. I dont know him as well as I know Neil. So I dont know his bad characteristics. I dunno if Zach wants a relationship. Neil wants a relationship but Zach didn't tell me if he wants one. He just told me that he's never had a serious relationship for the 3 years that he's moved to the same place as me to attend university. I dunno if I want to be in a serious relationship. I think it might tire me. If I dated Neil things would be easier because it seems thay we're both kinda fooling around a little. But Zach seems more serious as a guy. If we seriously dated my friends from uni would know.. So the whole uni would.. So which one guys?