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Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Friday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie yesterday. Fri evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Yesterday before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him Friday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but yesterday was so off, he sent a message after movie saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him. He unmatched with me on the dating app and I stopped following him on IG. Bit soon to say but he’s still following me on IG and viewed my stories after saying he didn’t want to talk to me anymore. Hasn’t gotten around to unfollowing me I guess.

Earlier this week on Wed, we went out to dinner and talked for 3 hrs. We’ve been in contact via Instagram messages. Yesterday we talked on the phone to buy tickets & see the Spider-Man movie today. Yesterday evening I asked if he could stop sending those IG video reels politely, it was a bit overboard. Today before the movie, he said good morning and I replied with a wave emoji. He normally would continue the conversation via Instagram but doesn’t message again until he said he was waiting at the theater. I was not as bubbly as I was on Wednesday, I was very quiet (not against him). He was annoying me during the movie, he’s the type to laugh and make noises when something exciting came on. He nudged me during the movie and asked if I was ok because I was quiet and I said yes. At the end I told him thanks, he said you’re welcome and he said drive safe. On Wednesday, we ended with a hug. When I spoke with him yesterday, he told me that he talked about me with his friends but today was so off, he sent a message just now saying that he wasn’t really feeling it from me and it’s not going to work for him.

I asked my crush and two other friends to hang out. It has been six months since I talked to him.

One of my friends initiated a date and I asked if the others can make it. One of them said okay. But my crush told me to invite someone else as he is not free.

I suggested another date (the day before the original date) and again he told me to invite someone else.

Unwilling to give up, I asked him when is he free exactly and he gave me a few dates. He then said that after Christmas is good for him as Christmas is a busy period for him (I assumed he is involved in church stuff).

Is he not interested in hang out or is this just bad timing? (My gut feeling says he isn’t interested but my heart refuse to give up)