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When I was younger and in 7th grade this guy was a jerk to me he said stupid stuff on xbox. Then thew food at me and tried to trip me. Well years go by I got older and he's older than me by 3 years. I shot up and I am like 6'1" 6'2". Well I went to work somewhere and he was my supervisor and he kind of after all agreeable and submissive. As soon as I got there he dumped the rest of the water I had. He asked me how tall I was 7' and yeah. Well he gave me a bad review. I go in to talk to the manager who's his uncle, he is shifty eyed didn't look me in the eyes once I could tell he didn't want to see me. Then a month later drove by me and flipped me off. I get home send him a picture on fb its a quote about respect and basically saying I don't insult others and require the same. I get blocked minutes later no response. Well I spread a rumor about him flipping me off only for people to go up to him about it. Next time I see him and I walk in he acts like he saw a ghost the look on his face , he froze and said hi softly. He froze his eyes got big jaw open. His eyes were huge and mouth wide open. And when I see him he can't look me in the eyes looks down and is shifty eyed. he's 3 years older but only like 5'8" and I am like at least 5" bigger I am huge. Just really tall and stocky I am built like an NFL linebacker. I'm at least 100 pounds heavier. Afterwards he says hi when I say hi

My sister is 5'5, 160, super thick, blonde and wears black leggings. She has natural nails on both hands. Her right hand is her good one. She's DESTROYED my upper ribs on NUMEROUS occasions with ease, all 5 nails on my uppermost ribs, back and forth. Her face being cute freezes a LOT of guys, awgh. Well... I found this 1 guy who'd spent time studying meditation in a monastery, to go up against my 19 yr old sis, Sheryl. He was shirtless... she went up, smiled flirty at him... he recognized he was up against a super cute blonde, she put her 5 nails on her right hand on his upper ribs, and?

My girlfriend is almost 16. She's really cute, 5'1. Brunette chick. Right after we met she was telling me how she'd slapped a few guys before. Mostly cuz of stuff they'd said or did. I asked her casually if ever had any blocked it and she was like nope!😊 she mentioned how she'd even slapped a football player guy once. I thought she was making it up, cuz I'd never gotten slapped by a girl before. I had always swore I'd just block it or duck it if 1 tried. Not cuz I know any kinda karate. I dont. I'm just really athletic. And I was like "hmph, well that won't happen to me." Last night we were in the kitchen, and she was talking. I said a crude joke, and she looked right at me. She goes "uhh?" And whoop!- I saw the blur, but it didn't seem that fast! A blur though... and her right hand slap had flipped out! I was seriously😯😯, totally frozen cuz her hand just stayed hanging WAY out so it couldn't be blocked and cuz her slap was too fast for me to move before she hung it out. I didn't know what to do, so I looked from her hand hung out up into her face and I was TOTALLY😲😲😲😲cuz her face is CUTE ASF! I could NOT unfreeze! I panicked, shut my eyes and waited..*slap* not HARD, but my face turned sideways. I went "ugggh!"😣😣😣😣😣 put my hand on my cheek and looked at her face and she was all😏😏😏. I was mad as he'll and walked out, pissed. I THOUGHT that couldn't happen to me! I CAN'T move, ugh!😤mostly I'm kinda mad at myself though. What should I do now about it?

In the book “all men and assholes and all women are crazy”, in one part the author talked about her last relationship and how it ended. She was seeing this playboy who was a little bit immature (they both were), who liked having an open relationship.

She became his favourite, almost definitively because she was the “craziest”, the one who was both the most dependant on him, yet also more importantly the one most willing to stand up to him. She still let him walk over her, but relatively speaking she was the most independent.

The two of them constantly going on and off, eventually decided to just call it off and remain friends. Yet one evening she was around his place, he told her he’s inviting one of his other girls round, so a sort of heads up, she can either stay or leave. This made her furiously jealous, and lost her shit on him.
She screamed into his face, presumably saying the most hurtful things she could think of (she’s a woman after all) for a while before she ran out of things to say, at which point she shoved him so he fell back, and he responded by giving her a hard slap.
After that the two of them just froze looking at each other, her with her hand on her red warm cheek. He told her to “get out, you psycho!”. She ran out, and called down a taxi. He chased after shouting telling her to stop, and apologising that he shouldn’t have done that, and she shouted back "get the fuck away from me!" as she got in the taxi and left. And that was the end of their story.

I think in that moment of her screaming the fuck out of him, and him slapping her for her pushing him over the edge, I’d imagine in his mind no other woman existed. And likewise, no other man existed in her mind either. I don’t think her objection was he hit her, I think her objection was he told her to get out; he rejected her, the only man that existed in the world.

Do you think I'm wrong? Would you rather be Slapped by the man you love, or Dumped by him?