I'm unclear why you're asking if this happened 5 years ago.
Your information makes it sound like one or both like you. You haven't given much detail otherwise.
But young girls do sometimes play games. They could be just goofing around.
My guess is the quieter one likes you but is very shy and doesn't know how to handle that. The friend is supporting her but not taking anything too seriously.
If they are currently in your life, play it cool. Let them come to you. If you like one or both of them, take it further in slow, incremental steps.
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Maybe he secretly likes you but don’t know how to get you. Some guys especially younger guys they get girls attention by annoying them rather by being sweet.
Im not sure scared is the correct word. He may very well be scared of you, but as a change of perspective, he may be very, very , intimidated. Or, secretly has a crush on you. He might just not ever been in a fight, an being u said you're a huge feller, maybe is under the assumption that ur gonna curb stomp him. Mens egos, fragile as an egg if u have never got out of ur comfort zone.
not sure, I think he may be ashamed of what he did but can't admit it.
you can take the high road and forgive without him asking
you can call him out as you have, and see if he changes... might require a fight
or you can just leave them and find better people.
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I can't give my answer ascertain, but from the description Girl 1 might find you attractive in a way. Although don't take my words to thought, it might just very well be a misunderstanding. These girls were trying to "hangout" with you, no doubt about it. In fact, they seem like the odd bunch of great friends, as one that have a few myself, you should pursue one of their advances and hopefully it will come out great for you.
Although, be wary: dating back one of them might set off the one hating the other, so it's best you be cautious on your approach.
Good luck and God Speed, I'll be rooting for you from this part of the world.Are they trying to hangout? Clearly, yes. They've been around you. It seems like they're both flirting with you. I just can't understand why they're doing this. I mean, if they both like you, they should give way to each other, not doing these things at the same time. My prediction is that they like your company. They have fun when you're around. They are treating you like a little brother, defending you. They may both have a crush on you. Another thing is that they may be competing with each other to get your attention. Honestly, I can't get into their heads. What you can do is keep hanging out. See where things lead. Wait for everything to unfold. If they're being friendly, be a friend to them. If one of them asks you out, then it would determine which one really likes you, romantically. The other one may just have been supportive to the other one.
Teen girls in junior high and high school are mostly immature and boy crazy as well as competitive.
I had many guys like this with girl friends we just flirted with them and it was nothing serious. Just crushes. It was fun and it was interesting and made us feel good to see how our changing bodies would make boys react. It's just hormones and kids trying to figure out growing up. It doesn't mean anything more than that. They obviously liked you and that ran its course I'm sure and they moved onto the next one until they grew up. Very common experience.By the way your telling it, it just sounds like one of them probably wanted to be your friend but the other wanted to be with you? I'm not too sure. I had friends like this once. Two girls would talk to the same guy. But like one of them liked the boy so much she wanted to know him more and maybe if he wanted to get into a relationship with him. The other girl wanted a relationship just because he was popular. It didn't ended pretty. I don't know I can't say what they exactly wanted but I'm sure one just wanted to be a friend to you but probably the other one wanted a relationship then the whole thing just clashed and made it seem like both wanted you as a boyfriend.
I think they were only half teasing you if anything. I guess it could be fun for young girls to flirt-tease a tall, attractive, oblivious guy. If you never made a move at the end of the day, it could be that they'd rather you don't think they were into you because they're embarrassed.
It depends who's telling you too, and what their agenda is.I can only say No to avoid assumption. But if you think differently then they are probably on a hunt and you are the meal.
I chose "No" cuz I've known girls who are friendly that way. Like they are actually that way but saw guys as friends.
Guys would always make that misunderstanding. True that is complicated but some are raised not to feel self-conscious on guys. Once you are their friend, they treat you the same as girl friends (except make up and other girl stuff).
If girls like guys, one thing I'm sure of, is that we'd never treat them like our friends. We'd be more self- conscious.
And yes. Girls who are confident would still get self-conscious. If they flirt, you'd see it by how they treat you differently from the other guys. If they are your friends, you'll know base on how they treat you differently from both guys AND girls.they could be either teasing you (they kinda like you) or playing around.
You should ask them directly eye to eye why are they behaving in such manner. I always support being direct instead of gussing games. But don't do it with a harsh tone you might scare them & eventually they lie to you do it calm & safe.One or both of them likes you it sounds like. How much older are they? Just a year or two? This sounds like the behavior of a girl with a crush (probably 1) and 2 was there to help 1 out. Other than that, it sounds like it is the past, right? If so, no sweat. If not, I would work up to asking why they are acting this way around you.
I dont know what to think honestly.. I dont do well with people poking fun at me seems like it was games at first then the end they stood up for you... makes no sense! Sorry im not any help only answering cause you tagged me too... but good luck.. do what feels right to you!
Well, technically, sounds like two friends being -- maybe flirty, or just girls -- around a boy in a man's body, which alone was probably attractive enough for them to want them to hang around. Girls tat are friends as opposed to girlfriends. Cleanly they liked you, but that's not dating.
Honestly, some girls wants their popularity. But the real thing is they wants to control everyone. First they'll play with you, & when they know you are falling for them they'll throw you. Simply just leave them.
I am also faced these situations beforeShe deff likes your attention. Maybe its harmless, maybe not. Older women like to feel desired, and its nice to have a young, smart, and im sure attractive man into you. Id stay back thought, as she doesn't sound like she's got her life together. lol
It certainly seems like they wanted you to hang out with them. Being so much younger then, you would not know what to do with the situation. Who would at that age? Why are you still thinking about this occasion?
It sounds like girl [1 likes you and girl 2 is her wing-woman. Young girls don't know how to act around guys they like so they end up looking like giggling messes.
They dig ya brother. My sister an her best friend was like that with oneof my buddies. Ended up my sister married the dude, an now have been together almost 46 years.
I think they liked you because of the constant want or need for your attention and also standing up to other girls. You had something they wanted definitely.
Yes they are, and each of them are being protective of you for all of them it may be just a crush for now but it can change in time to be something more for one of them.
Yes! At the very least they were trying to get acquainted... It seems like girl 1 might've even had a crush on you.
From what I gather, and that was a rough read, but it seems like girl 1, and maybe girl 2, had a thing for you. Probably could have talked your way into some interesting situations, had you been so inclined.
I’m pretty sure girl liked you and asked her friends to help her get noticed by you, I’m guilty myself for doing this in the past oops
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