Is he scared of me?

[Bringmebackto2008]

When I was younger and in 7th grade this guy was a jerk to me he said stupid stuff on xbox. Then thew food at me and tried to trip me. Well years go by I got older and he's older than me by 3 years. I shot up and I am like 6'1" 6'2". Well I went to work somewhere and he was my supervisor and he kind of after all agreeable and submissive. As soon as I got there he dumped the rest of the water I had. He asked me how tall I was 7' and yeah. Well he gave me a bad review. I go in to talk to the manager who's his uncle, he is shifty eyed didn't look me in the eyes once I could tell he didn't want to see me. Then a month later drove by me and flipped me off. I get home send him a picture on fb its a quote about respect and basically saying I don't insult others and require the same. I get blocked minutes later no response. Well I spread a rumor about him flipping me off only for people to go up to him about it. Next time I see him and I walk in he acts like he saw a ghost the look on his face , he froze and said hi softly. He froze his eyes got big jaw open. His eyes were huge and mouth wide open. And when I see him he can't look me in the eyes looks down and is shifty eyed. he's 3 years older but only like 5'8" and I am like at least 5" bigger I am huge. Just really tall and stocky I am built like an NFL linebacker. I'm at least 100 pounds heavier. Afterwards he says hi when I say hi

Yes

No

[AmandaYVR]

I'm unclear why you're asking if this happened 5 years ago.
Your information makes it sound like one or both like you. You haven't given much detail otherwise.
But young girls do sometimes play games. They could be just goofing around.
My guess is the quieter one likes you but is very shy and doesn't know how to handle that. The friend is supporting her but not taking anything too seriously.
If they are currently in your life, play it cool. Let them come to you. If you like one or both of them, take it further in slow, incremental steps.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Bc one of them still bothers me

[AmandaYVR]

Well then if you don't have any interest in them maybe you should just experiment a little, try changing your behaviour in subtle ways, and see what results. Like, how indifferent or how much can you push them away, and they still go to you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

They would get mad but still showed signs of liking but be more subtle and less direct

[AmandaYVR]

If you're annoyed, just disengage.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're those girls flirty big sisters

[Gottabsavagee]

Maybe he secretly likes you but don’t know how to get you. Some guys especially younger guys they get girls attention by annoying them rather by being sweet.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm another male

[Gottabsavagee]

Okay then maybe he could be jealous of you in a way. If he wasn’t why’d he want to get your attention. Maybe you get better girls than him. Maybe you are better in other things. Have you ever had conflict
Maybe he’s mad about that.

There’s a reason.

[Bringmebackto2008]

His ex was staring at me in front of him and basically doing shit like bending over when we were coming

[Gottabsavagee]

Ok then thats why. She was flirting with you which means it ruined his confidence made him feel like shit. That’s why he hates you now.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So is he jealous bc his ex likes me?

[Gottabsavagee]

Of course, it makes him feel like he’s not good enough. Maybe she left him with making him think you are better and obviously now he sees you as an enemy.

[lycanzz36]

Im not sure scared is the correct word. He may very well be scared of you, but as a change of perspective, he may be very, very , intimidated. Or, secretly has a crush on you. He might just not ever been in a fight, an being u said you're a huge feller, maybe is under the assumption that ur gonna curb stomp him. Mens egos, fragile as an egg if u have never got out of ur comfort zone.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean

[lycanzz36]

Just giving ya a few other options of what might be happening in the current situation

[Bringmebackto2008]

He has been in a fight

He has a girlfriend

Why would he respond like that

[lycanzz36]

Because Im a lot older an giving you the basic top 5 or 6 top answers for the question u asked. And I was asked for my opinion

[lightbulb27]

not sure, I think he may be ashamed of what he did but can't admit it.

you can take the high road and forgive without him asking
you can call him out as you have, and see if he changes... might require a fight
or you can just leave them and find better people.

[IvanRealname]

I can't give my answer ascertain, but from the description Girl 1 might find you attractive in a way. Although don't take my words to thought, it might just very well be a misunderstanding. These girls were trying to "hangout" with you, no doubt about it. In fact, they seem like the odd bunch of great friends, as one that have a few myself, you should pursue one of their advances and hopefully it will come out great for you.
Although, be wary: dating back one of them might set off the one hating the other, so it's best you be cautious on your approach.

Good luck and God Speed, I'll be rooting for you from this part of the world.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm confused are they both trying to date

[IvanRealname]

I'm sure Girl 1 is certain about her feelings, although Girl 2 isn't much for sharing hers. From the passage I have concluded both to be in some ways, showing an interest in you. Although I'm sure of Girl 1, and not of the second.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Dies it sound like they've trying to flirt together get me to fall in love and kind of have me do stuff for them

[IvanRealname]

Questioning yourself, when you very well know the answer. My brother, you already have the answer, you know it from your heart.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean

[IvanRealname]

Every time a person comments about the fact they are flirting with you, you dismiss it. Why? It's because you know it's true. Don't fight it, accept, and engage, what's more to lose than a chance?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Bc I'm told they are teasing as well

[IvanRealname]

Sigh, would they help you that much if they were teasing?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Help me?

[IvanRealname]

Defending you, giving you rides, these things are not teasing but merely acts of kindness. Now, do you get it?

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why did they do that

[candygirl_9847]

Are they trying to hangout? Clearly, yes. They've been around you. It seems like they're both flirting with you. I just can't understand why they're doing this. I mean, if they both like you, they should give way to each other, not doing these things at the same time. My prediction is that they like your company. They have fun when you're around. They are treating you like a little brother, defending you. They may both have a crush on you. Another thing is that they may be competing with each other to get your attention. Honestly, I can't get into their heads. What you can do is keep hanging out. See where things lead. Wait for everything to unfold. If they're being friendly, be a friend to them. If one of them asks you out, then it would determine which one really likes you, romantically. The other one may just have been supportive to the other one.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Do they have like a little brother crush on me

[candygirl_9847]

That's what I'm guessing.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So they have feelings of a crush and attraction but they're older so they're like flirty big sisters that like me?

[candygirl_9847]

Yes, because it would be weird if they both like you romantically.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What's the difference between their crush and liking me romantically

[CuteStraightSissyBoy]

It's actually a very thin line... because you AREN'T their little brother in real life, only in fantasy or role playing.

[CuteStraightSissyBoy]

The very good news is this: They're obviously interested in you and love the attention and interaction.

[candygirl_9847]

Crush is when you admire. You don't feel the need to be in a relationship. You just like seeing them, that's that, you don't want anything more.
It could be for the following reason like, you think he's too young for you or any reason that would stop you from wanting to be in a relationship with them.

Liking someone romantically means you want to pursue a relationship with them. It's a deeper level than having a crush. You're attracted to them sexually.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Aren't they biologically sexually attracted I look old and 6 feet tall built deep voice I look like I'm in my 20s

[Bringmebackto2008]

@CuteStraightSissyBoy

Do they have a little brother crush that's primate and like they'll pick on me like big sisters do to little brothers but still get giggly happy and giddy and blush. Aren't they kind of trying to share a guy and maybe have him do stuff

[candygirl_9847]

I cannot answer that. That needs to be said by the person herself. Soon you'll find out. Whoever asks you out, that means she wanna date you. She want to pursue a relationship with you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well one of them stares at me a lot and blushes gets red can't look Me in the eyes and her best friend looks at her says her name when I come in a room
I got a vibe from her

[Buzzybee1990]

Teen girls in junior high and high school are mostly immature and boy crazy as well as competitive.
I had many guys like this with girl friends we just flirted with them and it was nothing serious. Just crushes. It was fun and it was interesting and made us feel good to see how our changing bodies would make boys react. It's just hormones and kids trying to figure out growing up. It doesn't mean anything more than that. They obviously liked you and that ran its course I'm sure and they moved onto the next one until they grew up. Very common experience.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What so they were boy crazy and had crushes on me and liked to have a crush on me and flirt with me?

[Anonymous]

By the way your telling it, it just sounds like one of them probably wanted to be your friend but the other wanted to be with you? I'm not too sure. I had friends like this once. Two girls would talk to the same guy. But like one of them liked the boy so much she wanted to know him more and maybe if he wanted to get into a relationship with him. The other girl wanted a relationship just because he was popular. It didn't ended pretty. I don't know I can't say what they exactly wanted but I'm sure one just wanted to be a friend to you but probably the other one wanted a relationship then the whole thing just clashed and made it seem like both wanted you as a boyfriend.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would it seem they both wanted me as a boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

No I mean like probably one did while the other didn't. And because of how much affection the 2 was showing seems like it just made it seem like that way

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well I don't get why they'd both flirt with me even do stuff together wait for me after class giggle wait to scare me come up and talk to Mr take pictures with me and laugh at dumb things I say

[Opinion Owner]

Well maybe they did have a crush on you. Both of them. Maybe you had your little fan base. Jk I don't know well maybe they just wanted to share you as a crush. Silly as it is but I mean obviously when a girl is into you they make their voice higher and if she blushes around you then they really like you when you talk to them directly. Like I said I can't exactly say what they truly are doing but I can say it does seem like one of the girls does has a crush on you and probably the other one isn't really into you but she's just probably there for support for the other girl

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why do older girls do that with a younger boy

[Opinion Owner]

I can't say why but maybe they just wanted to take advantage of you. Your young and a freshman they probably just knew you weren't going to do anything because you never experienced that before. Maybe. It could be other things to maybe they just like young boys.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean take advantage of me I thought you said they had crushes on me

[Opinion Owner]

Well there is advtanges.. popularity? Gossip? Make rumors about you? Use you? But then again yes they could be crushes. But I don't know this could go both ways

[Bringmebackto2008]

They're nice girls who are against bullying they'd never do that

[Opinion Owner]

Alright then. Considering the given information. I think they might have just been friendly with you. there's just very little information given about the girls. Of course you did state how they would be around you but like I said I can't exactly say what they are doing. Nor can I say how they feel. I'm just giving you my opinion on how it looks from far. But considering that they are against bullying maybe they are just being friendly with you but I still feel like one might have a crush on you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm confused I thought you said they had a crush how did it go from that to bullying to being friendly

[Opinion Owner]

I didn't say they were bullying you. I just I'm confused myself too because your giving me information more about the girls after I leave my opinions. Therefore which makes my opinion change because it's getting deeper with the information. I'm sorry about the confusion. Let's just start over again. The girls are against bullying but they also act really bright and bubbly around you correct?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Yes and they do flirty things and one of then gets red around me stares at me other finds any excuse to be around me

[TreelonMusk]

I think they were only half teasing you if anything. I guess it could be fun for young girls to flirt-tease a tall, attractive, oblivious guy. If you never made a move at the end of the day, it could be that they'd rather you don't think they were into you because they're embarrassed.

It depends who's telling you too, and what their agenda is.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean to flirt tease an obvlivious guy

Why would one of them stare at me a lot and blush

You don't understand I ignored them most the time avoided them

Do you think they had crushes

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why were they embarrassed

[TreelonMusk]

That makes it clearer. It's like a little game. One of them probably had a crush to some degree. Anyway, who's telling you that they didn't and why on Earth would you care?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Bc I'm sick of being told I was teased and played with I didn't want much to do with them and was polite to them and didn't do anything I was just agreeable and went along

So why did they do that

Dud they have crushes on me

What dud you mean they were half teasing

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean to flirt tease

[TreelonMusk]

Whoever is telling you that you were teased and played with and that it matters today can suck a dick. It doesn't matter. I don't care how they try to spin it.

What I meant was that young girls, like young boys are fucking weird and try shit and aren't sure how to deal with themselves in a mature, useful way.

Some girls just act that way to boys they like. Don't mistake the flirt-tease thing as a malevolent, having-power-over-you and youre-less-of-a-man thing. The way I'm thinking of it, they kind of just took advantage of your either shyness or non-reactivity to be around you and try to get a reaction out of you. For fun, but also because they thought you were cute.

[TreelonMusk]

It's innocent and you shouldn't worry about it. Someone is trolling you because this means something to you. People wanting to get under your skin seems to be a bit of a pattern at this point. Maybe you're a bit of a fun guy to pick on. Maybe you're really earnest or innocent or seem that way. Whatever man it's probably in good nature but if you want it to stop, tell them to eat a dick while smiling at them. Play back.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So they're just saying it bc they're jealous or trying to piss me off?

I didn't do anything and I'm passive I don't get mad and they wouldn't leave me alone and one of them won't

So did they just have crushes on me

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean they were trying to get a reaction

[TreelonMusk]

Yeah, basically that's what I'm theorizing. But you could always ask someone else in real life who witnessed this behavior. For both the girls and the friend that I assume is teasing you about it.

If one of the girls is still talking to you and you're interested in them, why not ask them out?

If you really don't like any of this, you can always tell them to leave you alone.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Hey are you trying to say that they had crushes and maybe they felt conscious about it and they In a way picked on me and did some stuff bc they knew deep down they had crushes?

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they kind of picking on me bc they did like me and felt self conscious about it

[TreelonMusk]

I'm more saying that they didn't really know what to do about it, so they went to talk to you and then you didn't magically become their boyfriend, so they maybe tried to get you to react and make you make a move. In our culture, girls aren't supposed to be assertive or anything, remember?

Yeah, they totally felt self conscious and probably so would you if you were in their position.

Again, I wasn't there so this is pretty theoretical for me.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does it sound like they mostly flirted with me together

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why do people say this shit that one of them likes to tease and play with me and they both were

[Astrid_18]

I can only say No to avoid assumption. But if you think differently then they are probably on a hunt and you are the meal.

I chose "No" cuz I've known girls who are friendly that way. Like they are actually that way but saw guys as friends.

Guys would always make that misunderstanding. True that is complicated but some are raised not to feel self-conscious on guys. Once you are their friend, they treat you the same as girl friends (except make up and other girl stuff).

If girls like guys, one thing I'm sure of, is that we'd never treat them like our friends. We'd be more self- conscious.

And yes. Girls who are confident would still get self-conscious. If they flirt, you'd see it by how they treat you differently from the other guys. If they are your friends, you'll know base on how they treat you differently from both guys AND girls.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So do they have a crush

[Astrid_18]

You'll have to find out base on their way of treating others and their personality.

[Bringmebackto2008]

They don't do that to other guys at all

[Astrid_18]

Do they have close guy friends or are you their close guy friend?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Yeah but they don't really flirt with them or act like that with them

[Astrid_18]

Okay. So, number 1 girl MAY have a crush cuz of the self-conscious symptoms she is showing (blush, avoid contact- make sure you are sure and not assuming), but I'm sure number 2 does not have a crush.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why do you say that

[Astrid_18]

I already gave an explanation though. So, what do you mean by 'why'?

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why do you think the second one doesn't

I'm asking why you think they flirt with me want pictures with me the second one goes behind her friends back talks to me and offered me a ride

[Astrid_18]

If she really went behind her friends back just to talk to you, it would have been more than a talk. If a girl wants something enough to go against her friend, she'd make initation. Did she? Driving you home is something friends can do.

[Astrid_18]

As for why they flirt, you may want to read my first reply.

[Astrid_18]

*initiation

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well they seem a little nervous they will have a nervous giggle and surprised if I accepted something like a ride. The second one always tries to be around me

[Bringmebackto2008]

One of them stares at me a lot and gets red around me

Are they like big flirty sisters

[Astrid_18]

You probably have a crush on them. That's the vibe I'm getting from this situation. Let me guess, girl 1?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Like to know why they are like that I view them as sisters but one of them seems to flirty and feels more than platonic

[FatimaShizu]

they could be either teasing you (they kinda like you) or playing around.
You should ask them directly eye to eye why are they behaving in such manner. I always support being direct instead of gussing games. But don't do it with a harsh tone you might scare them & eventually they lie to you do it calm & safe.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What did you mean kinda like me

[FatimaShizu]

maybe they tease you bcz they like you! lots of people tease their crushes or the ones they like. But that doesn't apply on all bcz people are different. that's why you should ask them

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean they're teasing me?

[FatimaShizu]

"both give me no space smile and make eye contact" apparently they try to make you feel shy
from my prespective that's teasing

[Bringmebackto2008]

How is it by trying to make me shy?

[Bringmebackto2008]

I don't get it how are they trying to make me shy

[FatimaShizu]

I don't know I'm saying that based on what you said.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So did they like me

[FatimaShizu]

high possibility yes they do but it's better to ask them directly not to confuse yourself anymore

[Bringmebackto2008]

What did you mean they were teasing me

[yikeserino]

One or both of them likes you it sounds like. How much older are they? Just a year or two? This sounds like the behavior of a girl with a crush (probably 1) and 2 was there to help 1 out. Other than that, it sounds like it is the past, right? If so, no sweat. If not, I would work up to asking why they are acting this way around you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would would they both pretty much flirt with me

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I dont know what to think honestly.. I dont do well with people poking fun at me seems like it was games at first then the end they stood up for you... makes no sense! Sorry im not any help only answering cause you tagged me too... but good luck.. do what feels right to you!

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you saying

[PeacefulRainDrop]

Im not sure what to think about that..

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they trying to be My friend

[PeacefulRainDrop]

I dont know if they were or not... apart of me thinks yes apart of me thinks no... I have a hard time reading people.. I hope they were trying to be your friend that they had good intentions for you but today its hard to know for sure.. thats why I keep to myself

[PeacefulRainDrop]

https://makemebetter.page.link/jK4t4aHvJgdUG6Ta6

[1CentWorth]

Well, technically, sounds like two friends being -- maybe flirty, or just girls -- around a boy in a man's body, which alone was probably attractive enough for them to want them to hang around. Girls tat are friends as opposed to girlfriends. Cleanly they liked you, but that's not dating.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they like big sisters that flirted with me

[1CentWorth]

1) You answer that, not me!
2) If your answer to #1 is "YES", then probably stay away from them, for their sake, and get help.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So did they make me their pet

[RcMurmu27]

Honestly, some girls wants their popularity. But the real thing is they wants to control everyone. First they'll play with you, & when they know you are falling for them they'll throw you. Simply just leave them.

I am also faced these situations before

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you getting at they are nice girls

[RcMurmu27]

When I said that they're nice girls? Nice girls don't do that

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why do they stalk me try to be around me and Flirt with me

[Pennypolish]

She deff likes your attention. Maybe its harmless, maybe not. Older women like to feel desired, and its nice to have a young, smart, and im sure attractive man into you. Id stay back thought, as she doesn't sound like she's got her life together. lol

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm not into her but I like to entertain older women always have

[Pennypolish]

Sounds like you give her the vibes you WANT to be around her and listen to things. What a perfect match :D

[Bringmebackto2008]

I can be a flirty flamboyant person

[talloak]

It certainly seems like they wanted you to hang out with them. Being so much younger then, you would not know what to do with the situation. Who would at that age? Why are you still thinking about this occasion?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did I not know what to do?

I do bc one of them still does stuff

[talloak]

You mean, she still shows interest in you?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Yeah

So why did those girls flirt with me and do all. that stuff it's like they flirted with me together

Also I was afraid they wanted to get a boyfriend that they could have fall in love and do stuff
They'd want pictures with me take them then have me post and tag them and all

[talloak]

They definitely were flirting with you. While I doubt that any were looking for a boyfriend at that moment, I think at least the one girl was interested in you. Especially if she still is. When you see her now, is she alone or with the group?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean doubt looking for boyfriend

Why did the second one flirt with me and try to be around me

[talloak]

Flirting is just testing the waters a little. It's too soon to think about the potential for a relationship. But I can't really guess at what they were thinking. If you see one of these girls alone, you'll have a better feel for how much she is interested since they won't be trying to impress each other.

[Bringmebackto2008]

One of them would get shy and freeze up not be able to talk but still giggle couldn't look me in the eye the other tried to be around me alone

[talloak]

Sounds like they were both interested, although with very different reactions.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told they were teasing me

With the first one, her best friend looked at her and said her name when I came in the room

[talloak]

Thank you!

[Taywallee16]

It sounds like girl [1 likes you and girl 2 is her wing-woman. Young girls don't know how to act around guys they like so they end up looking like giggling messes.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why do they both flirt with me

The second one always tries to hangout with me

[Taywallee16]

Is this happening now or did this happen when you were 14? Or are you 14 now and made up your age?

[Bringmebackto2008]

When I was 14

One of them still does stuff

[lycanzz36]

They dig ya brother. My sister an her best friend was like that with oneof my buddies. Ended up my sister married the dude, an now have been together almost 46 years.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would two older girls that are close friends do that with a younger boy is it like a little brother crush? .
A motherly instinct?

[lycanzz36]

can't speak for the mind of a young lady coming into adulthood. Never been one lol, but , the fairer sex, you nor any other man will every completly ever understand the mind of a lady.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Are they sexually teasing me at all

[SammIam]

I think they liked you because of the constant want or need for your attention and also standing up to other girls. You had something they wanted definitely.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So they had crushes?

[SammIam]

Also how long did this go on for that's important. I saw you make the comment about teasing. How long did this last?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Months one of them continues this for years

[SammIam]

I mean it sounded like they had crushes. I wouldn't act like that unless I did. If it lasted more than a few days im 100% sure they were crushing on you.

[SammIam]

Like Yea. My bad I'm typing so your other comments are coming up after I repy but it sounds like they were into you. I wouldn't spend more than a week trying to get attention from a guy unless I liked him

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they like make me their pet

[SammIam]

Only if you went along with it every time. Did you ever tell them to give you space or anything? Cause if it was like every day doing that, possibly? I don't know. It's hard to say. I definitely have a different personality than them. You should ask them though. It seems to have been a bit of time.

[Bringmebackto2008]

No I didn't say anything

Why would they both do flirty stuff almost together they'd both laugh at stuff I said giggled, both waited for me after class, both talk more feminine and both wanted selfies with me. Both try to be around me and talk. Talk in higher voices and when I talked to one of them especially the first they'd want a picture with me and they'd send it to me for me to post and tag them they'd both like it then comment
nice things.

[SammIam]

Yea I don't know. That's not along the line of anything I did. Like in relationships I always took selfies and all but I don't know. You should ask them.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they like just trying to have a guy friend they have a crush on that they can flirt with and all

[brathwaitereginald74]

Yes they are, and each of them are being protective of you for all of them it may be just a crush for now but it can change in time to be something more for one of them.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Are they like big flirty sisters

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Yes! At the very least they were trying to get acquainted... It seems like girl 1 might've even had a crush on you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way I have autism

I fixate on things and my movement is way off from everyone else's and I avoid eye contact and pace and fidget and rock

[Bringmebackto2008]

They were very patient with me and never got mad they didn't get mad with me and encouraged me to go on. do they know I'm autistic

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Well, I don't know much about autism, but I do know about female behavior. These girls wanted to get close to you. Whether it's friendly or romantic, I wouldn't know, but they surely had interest. I don't know if the interest was good or bad either because high school kids are mean. They could've genuinely wanted to be your friends or they could've just wanted to make fun of you (not saying that's the case, however it's possible).

[simplyaramdomgirl]

But by the way you describe it they don't sound mean at all. Maybe they truly wanted to be true friends.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does it sound like one of them had a crush on me but they both thought I'm cute

[simplyaramdomgirl]

When I first read it, that's what I thought. Girl 2 seemed to be making all of the approaches because Girl 1 was probably too shy to do so, (by how you say she avoided eye contact and constantly blushed). However I'd say it was Girl 1 who was particularly interested in getting near you. Per your description, Girl 1 always wanted pictures with you, and wanted you close to her. That's a clear indicator that she enjoys your company and wants to get potentially closer. If whenever you were with Girl 1, Girl 2 faded into the background it's quite possible that she was just Girl 1's wing-woman. Girl 1 was probably too awkward and afraid to make all of these advances and invitations on her own, so she asked Girl 2 to assist her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why would her friend go behind her back to talk to me ask for rides

Sounds like her friend helped her flirt with me

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Dunno, maybe she grew fond of you, maybe she liked you as well. All I can do is speculate. However, I think she at least wanted you as a friend.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was her friend helping her flirt with me

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Yes, Girl 2 was helping Girl 1.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Helping her flirt with me

Why did 2 flirt and laugh at stuff I say try to be around ne

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Dunno. It could be possible that she liked you as well but since Girl 1 liked you first, she had to keep it to herself. Girls do that a lot.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they like make me their boyfriend?

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Dunno, it's possible that they had an interest of being much more than friends. I guess you could be considered their unofficial official-boyfriend. However, if neither of the girls approached you or behaved some type of way to denote that, then I can't say for certain.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they make me their pet?

[simplyaramdomgirl]

I don't know man. The only ones that can give you straight answers are them. If you can still contact them, ask them all of this. As I said I can only speculate. The only ones that can give you straight answers are them.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did it sound like they teased me

[simplyaramdomgirl]

I truly can't say. Did you feel teased? If not, then I don't think that's the case.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well they'd flirt with me

Try to be around me and one of them shoved her tits in my face

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Broo if she threw her tits in your face it's because she wanted you. How did you react to that?

[Bringmebackto2008]

I didn't look and she was getting red she knew what she was doing

[simplyaramdomgirl]

Well I can't really help you there. If she wanted you and you pushed her away or showed disinterest then she probably moved on. I don't know what you want me to say.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What was I supposed to do about a girl showing me her cleavage in school

[TheKack]

From what I gather, and that was a rough read, but it seems like girl 1, and maybe girl 2, had a thing for you. Probably could have talked your way into some interesting situations, had you been so inclined.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they trying to hangout with me?

[TheKack]

Yes. One was likely a wing woman, though it's not impossible that they were both into you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Hey does it seem like they both had like a little brother crush or something and flirted with me tried to get me to fall in love and have me do stuff?

[TheKack]

No. If you're 6ft and had a deeper voice already, they saw you as they see any attractive male. The age gap wasn't that much.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would they both do flirty stuff almost together

Both laugh at dumb stuff I say together both giggle

Both smile at me around me

Both try to get me to sit with them get close

Both try to be around me talk to Me

Both ask for selfies with me send them to me for me to post and tag them. Both like it and comment nice things

Both wait for me after class and scare me

[TheKack]

Because they found you attractive.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What were they doing when flirting with me together?

[TheKack]

Flirting. You're reading into it too much. You've asked this question a lot. It was innocent, and several years ago if your age is correct, it's just something that happens sometimes. Girls will have friends with them to make them more bold. Or to compete.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Was it like a motherly thing what they were doing and acting like moms a little bit?

[TheKack]

Maybe. Only they can really answer these questions.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does it sound like they tried acting like girly girls and feminine around me?

[TheKack]

Possibly.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they just school girls with a crush?

[TheKack]

Yes, probably.

[TheKack]

Why are you asking if this was five or so years ago?

[Bringmebackto2008]

Bc one of them won't leave me alone

[TheKack]

She's interested in you. Be direct. If you're not interested in her, tell her. If you are, go on a date.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did both those girls try to get me to fall in love with them or develop a crush on them

[TheKack]

I couldn't tell you. But if they didn't know you long, it wasn't love.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they trying to get me to like them

[Rosebb]

I’m pretty sure girl liked you and asked her friends to help her get noticed by you, I’m guilty myself for doing this in the past oops

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did her friend flirt with me too and try to me around me she'd go behind her back to do so

[Rosebb]

Girl asked her friend to “flirt” with you to see how you responded, kinda like a test

[Bringmebackto2008]

How's her friend helping her get my attention? What is she doing

[Rosebb]

Girl wants to see if you were interested in her friends or her, by sending friend to flirt with you she was testing the waters

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well when her friend offered me a ride I didn't oppose

Why do they ask for selfies with me and take them then send to me for me to post and tag them they like it and comment sweet things

[jazz_lobo]

they were differently teasing you because she liked you. that's what girls do, and they can be bitches too.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean teasing me bc she liked me

[nataliexoooo]

as a girl whos done with this before with a friend, they're just fucking around dont take them seriously

[Bringmebackto2008]

What they didn't want to be friends

One of them still bothers me

[nataliexoooo]

how do they talk to you? to me it just sounds like theyre playing a game to see if they can get you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean playing a game to see if they can get me?

They come up to me ask Me questions about myself and try to find out what music I like

[nataliexoooo]

here's an example of what i meant: i saw a hot 6ft guy and tried to get close to him then after we fucked i was satisfied and told all my friends because i got what i wanted

i guess there's potential for u guys to be friends but id be wary if she's just trying to get with you for giggles and shit

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why did those girls stalk me try to talk to me be around me and flirt with me

[nataliexoooo]

because they want to get with you duh girls do that when they want something/someone

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told they were teasing me or playing with me they were older girls

Did they want to hangout with me I want to with them

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way I have autism

I fixate on things and my movement is way off from everyone else's and I avoid eye contact and pace and fidget and rock

[Bringmebackto2008]

They were very patient with me and never got mad they didn't get mad with me and encouraged me to go on. do they know I'm autistic

[Bringmebackto2008]

Do they seem. to know I'm autistic

[5_AM_Oracle]

You could have hit that, sorry to put it like that... but the ball was in your camp.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Both? How do you know

[darline19]

she likes you and her friends tried to help her to get close to you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Which one

[darline19]

the first girl

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well her friend goes behind her back flirts with me and talks to me

[Bringmebackto2008]

Y am I told they are teasing me

[darline19]

well then they both might try to get you. ignore them. waste of time..

[LowSelfSteem]

If I hang around a guy it other means two things I like him or I think he's cute.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did they both

[LowSelfSteem]

? Confused. com

[markscott]

Yes, it sounds like they were trying to hang out with you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Date?

[markscott]

Possibly

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they flirting with me showing signs of liking me

[markscott]

It does seem they were liking you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Crushing?

[sapphire3506]

No but they both definitely liked you and were fighting for your attention

[Bringmebackto2008]

How do you know they were trying to get my attention and fighting

[sapphire3506]

is it not obvious?

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they toying with me, teasing me and making me a pet

[sapphire3506]

use your brain lol

[Bringmebackto2008]

So they did

[Sevenpointfive]

they probably think you're going to the NBA draft and wanna get on that train.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did they

[Sevenpointfive]

because black men are running scarce. you need to understand you're supposed to share like at least 10 women to one BBC.

[Bringmebackto2008]

I'm white

[Sevenpointfive]

oh. then you ain't gettin' shit.

women do it for protection purposes. as long as they know you're there to protect them they feel safe even if you get absolutely no benefit from it.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Seriously why do they both flirt with me

[Sevenpointfive]

girls are cockteases. don't think anything about it. you hold the power, not them. once you ask one out you're done. no more flirting, no more cleavage, no more questions other than what did i do wrong?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you talking about they'd both try be around me and one of them blushes a lot around me and stares at me

[Sevenpointfive]

these girls don't like you. they probably don't even know you. are you photobombing their pictures?

[Bringmebackto2008]

No they ask me for selfies

What are you talking about they don't like me

I asked a question about one of them that continued bothering me and you said she likes me then kept saying I'm stupid

No they'd call me over

What are you talking about one of them stares at me a lot and blushes and her friends would look at her say her name when I entered a room

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't understand. how could they like you?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you talking about

by the way I'm about done with your smartass on here with your witty remarks and your backpedalling

[Sevenpointfive]

and that right there is called successful therapy.

[Bringmebackto2008]

by the way you're not being funny it's just annoying it's only funny to you.

I'm about to just block you and stop inviting you bc you answer with stupid shit and it's a big joke.

[Sevenpointfive]

homebro, i wish you'd take the advice the first or second time instead of asking a third time only to get the same responses. who's annoying who?

[slatyb]

That's unusual. Most women her age wouldn't act like they are 15.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So is she flirting with me

[slatyb]

Yes. If you want her you can probably have her.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Does she think I'm cute or something

[slatyb]

If a woman guess it of her way to give you attention, she's attracted.

[slatyb]

Totally.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What

[pringleman]

Bro you have a girl that really fucking liked you that's it

[Bringmebackto2008]

There were two girls though

[pringleman]

Fight to the death it is

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would they both stalk me and do that

[pringleman]

Girls will do anything to get a guys to notice them if they like them enough

[Bringmebackto2008]

How would most people view this situation?

[pringleman]

Just 2 girls getting a guy your 6 feet tall girls like guys that sound manly and tall so they can protect them they find that really sexy

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would they both do flirty stuff almost together

Both laugh at dumb stuff I say together both giggle

Both smile at me around me

Both try to get me to sit with them get close

Both try to be around me talk to Me

Both ask for selfies with me send them to me for me to post and tag them. Both like it and comment nice things

Both wait for me after class and scare me

[samael_kmarty]

You are heavily popular in girls.
And every girl want to date you no matter the age.
Or simply they are pranking you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Do they have a crush on me

[samael_kmarty]

Nope 😂😂😂I am straight not gay

[Jimhflmn]

I too was 6'1' by freshman year in high school, but I didn't have a lot of women around me. Don't know why, but since I had a very nice and intelligent women as a girlfriend by Junior year I was okay.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did they?

[wallflower_fantasy]

Some girls want guys attention for some reason. I stay away from girls like these so I’m not sure.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why do they

[wallflower_fantasy]

I don’t hang around them so I don’t know.

[CaptainSmartass]

Yeah, they were trying to hang out with you.

Simples...

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they have a crush on me

[CaptainSmartass]

I'd say so, yeah.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why did they both do that stuff instead of just one

[Guido]

Its quite simple. They like you. They haven't developed the maturity yet on how to properly flirt and gain your attention.

[Bringmebackto2008]

How do you know they like me and can't flirt?

[Guido]

Its typical young behaviour.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told they liked to tease me and I was used to make them feel attractive and validation I was their pet

What did they do that's improperly Flirting

[Longyanyar]

You were pleasing them and they find you cute, nothing more.
Did you go on a relationship after that?

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean find me cute nothing more

Dud they have crushes

[Longyanyar]

Dude they were on crush for ya.
You were having a chance to smash there.

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you saying

[Longyanyar]

Dude open your eyes they were clearly interested in you

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they tease me at all

[MackToday]

Honestly they sound a little weird. You can find a girl that's more normal and acts right.

[rosar_02]

I think they like you and they want you to realize that they exists

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told they liked to tease me

[rosar_02]

When you like someone may be you like to do "jokes" and mess with him or her

[Bringmebackto2008]

No I mean I'm told they liked to play with me play with my head cock tease

[rosar_02]

You can ask their

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they act like they re my girlfriends?

[rosar_02]

They acted like they wanted your attention

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they teasing me at all

[rosar_02]

The best that you can do is ask them why they do it

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did those girls really like to flirt with me

[rosar_02]

Maybe it's funny for them

[Bringmebackto2008]

What did they to do id realize they exist

[rosar_02]

They talk to you

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are those girls trying to do with the selfies with me

[rosar_02]

They like you I think, and it's what i'm telling to hoy all the time 😂

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are they doing when they take selfies with me what are the pics supposed to do

[rosar_02]

Maybe they show off them

[Bringmebackto2008]

They send them to me for me to post and tag them they like it and comment sweet things

[rosar_02]

Sure, It must be that

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why do they do that

[rosar_02]

I don't know, ask their

[Mantras]

Omg hell yes they were bro. You're were very lucky.

[Mantras]

*You

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do. you mean

[Mantras]

I mean that I think they were into you

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they have crushes on me

[Mantras]

You're retarded or a troll.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Well I'm told they were teasing me

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they flirting with me together

[Mantras]

Teasing is flirting you dumb cunt.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they flirting with me together

I kind of wanted to kiss one of them

[Mantras]

Especially when females are young, they will help each other out obsess over boys.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they

[Mantras]

Fuck off troll

[Gedaria]

It would seem they were playing with you. Mostly over your age...

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean playing with me

[Gedaria]

Because they were older they were teasing you ,

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean teasing me

One of them got picked on by her friends and stared at me a lot and still does stuff

[Gedaria]

That is what I mean, its like baiting you and having fun at your expence

[Bringmebackto2008]

What do you mean baiting me and having fun at my expense one of them got picked on about me by her friends stares at me a lot and gets red around me. I ignore her all the time and she gets pissed. She got mad I brush her off and really didn't do anything

[Bringmebackto2008]

What would you think if a girl blushes a lot around a boy and giggles and her friends pick on her and she stares at him a lot

What are you talking about baiting me and teasing me I kept them at an arms length and one of them has a grudge against me

[Bringmebackto2008]

What am I supposed to do why would one of them not like me one of them won't leave me the fuck alone. I'm made out to be a douchebag bc I ignored them and kept an arms length why would they be that mad if they were just teasing me

[Bringmebackto2008]

Dude quit ignoring me and help me

[Bringmebackto2008]

What does the world want from me I ignored them and brushed them off why am I a douchebag if they were only teasing

If they're that mad and got mad why would they care that much

[Bringmebackto2008]

How were they teasing me wtf dude quit ignoring me

[nnazme]

Sorry, when I see a wall of text, I lose motivation to read it.

Tried to read it though.

Here's my take: You should just enjoy the company while it's there.

[Hellfire579]

14'6 and have deep voice you must be black. She wants your bbx

[Hellfire579]

I mean BBC

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did they

[Hellfire579]

Dude your black so she obviously attracted to you

[LB2001]

You been Inappropriate is a girl having banter with you most guys like that if that's what she said

[Bringmebackto2008]

What are you saying

[Warmapplecrumble]

They all find you attractive :-)

[Bringmebackto2008]

Do they have a crush on me

[Warmapplecrumble]

Yeah sounds like it

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they make me their pet

[Warmapplecrumble]

Lmao you are funny. I really don't know what you mean by that.

[TheOnlyAriii]

They probably are trying to get your attention!

[Bringmebackto2008]

What does the phrase mean when a girl is trying to get a boys attention

[Bowzz]

Sleep with them both at the same time

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did they

[it2ly]

They think you're hot

[teamvic]

I'd start being an ass to him

[DanG530]

Shouldn't fight fire with fire

[Victoriasecret16]

She likes u, oh come on

[fonduegirl]

can somebody summarize this for me? thank you

[CaptainSmartass]

Dude, they fancy you.

Simples...

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why am I told they were teasing me

[CaptainSmartass]

'Cause that's what chicks do. They lightly tease you if they like you.

[Bringmebackto2008]

No I mean like I'm told they were playing with me toying with Me cock teasing playing with my head

[Jesse0]

I'd say more like sisters than girlfriends haha!

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they like big sisters

[Jesse0]

Considering that they offered you rides and defending you, maybe so. I'll have to admit that one of them may have liked you very much.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Are they like big flirty sisters

[Jesse0]

Don't know those.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So one of them blushed a lot got red around me

[Jesse0]

Yeah that's why I said one of them may have liked you very much.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Are they like big sisters that flirt with me?

[Jesse0]

I never heard of that, is what I'm saying. Sisters usually don't flirt with their siblings 😂

[Bringmebackto2008]

Are they like a big sister figure?

[Jesse0]

Yeah I can definitely see that

[Bringmebackto2008]

Do they both at least have little crushes like think I'm cute

[Jesse0]

Maybe, but you were 14 at the time -- could've been endearment. Happened to me with this gal when I was in middle school.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So do you think they thought I was cute at least

[Jesse0]

Duhh

[Bringmebackto2008]

Did they make me their pet

[Jesse0]

Looks like it really could've been like that, but you should know the most.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why would a couple of older girls flirt with a younger boy like that and do stuff with each other and try to be around me take pictures one of them wanted to be really close to me

[Jesse0]

That's how older girls are with younger guys sometimes but one seemed to like you

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why are older girls like that with younger guys?

[Jesse0]

I always thought because they're developing those motherly instincts and all but I could be wrong.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So one of them had like a small crush thought I was cute another had a full on crush. They were being girls.

[Jesse0]

Yes.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why would they both kind of flirt with me together both scare me together want selfies with me both come up to me and try to get my attention both of them would laugh and giggle

[Bringmebackto2008]

Helllo?

[Jesse0]

Sorry. They liked you or it was endearment.

[Bringmebackto2008]

Endearment?

[Jesse0]

Expressing affection which is not always necessarily just attraction.

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why do you think they'd do flirty stuff together I don't get that

Might as well say I'm autistic so struggle with this stuff

[Jesse0]

Girls are strange sometimes. It's something guys wouldn't understand, another type of realm. You should ask a girl.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they toying with me

[Jesse0]

Can't be sure. You ought to know that one.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they very affectionate with me?

[Jesse0]

Yeah

[Bringmebackto2008]

So why would they want selfies with me come and get me for them. One of them couldn't ask me directly for one she would if I talked to her first or her friend had to get me they'd take the pic send to Me for Me to post and tag them then they'd like it and comment nice things and say Favorite class of the day say they love it then their girls would like it and comment on it.

[Anonymous]

Why do you keep asking this same question

[God-vs-Satan]

It seems like they were trying.

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they trying to be my friend?

[Bringmebackto2008]

We're they trying to be friends with me

[xKatAttackx]

Humans are a mystery.

[Nachowedgie]

Reported for spamming

[PrincessLorelei]

Maybe they like you

[Bringmebackto2008]

Trying to get me to fall in love?

[PrincessLorelei]

Uh I don’t know. It seems like all the ladies love you so make your best judgement. I can’t tell you because I am not you nor them

[Zinkter]

Sounds like it 😁

[Bringmebackto2008]

Why did they both flirt

[Zinkter]

Each had an interest apparently

[debby04]

Basically love

[Bringmebackto2008]

What they basically loved me

[Babygirl_S]

They like you

[Bringmebackto2008]

How do you know