So there is a guy at my workplace who I have never had a conversation with. He is a shy person naturally, so I tried to tell myself that's all his behavior was.
I catch him looking at me, especially in passing. But a lot of the time, it seems like he is avoiding me. Like he will turn his back to me or go to the other side of the group he is talking with.
I don't know what I could have done to make him dislike me so much because I've only been at this job a month on Friday.
I decided I would try and break the ice because I feel bad, I did end up chickening out, though. Because i walked up to him and my friend, and he just got completely silent and stared at me. I tried my best not to look at him cause I didn't want to make him uncomfortable. He was using my friends vape, and my friend offered it to me, and I said sure, and then this guy handed it to me and went back inside. Did not say a single word when I approached.
Does this sound like he kind of hates me? Lol. He's never been mean or anything, but I just get the feeling. Is there a way to fix the situation, or would that make it worse? Right now, my plan is to act like he doesn't exist and stick to my usual friends.
I catch him looking at me, especially in passing. But a lot of the time, it seems like he is avoiding me. Like he will turn his back to me or go to the other side of the group he is talking with.
I don't know what I could have done to make him dislike me so much because I've only been at this job a month on Friday.
I decided I would try and break the ice because I feel bad, I did end up chickening out, though. Because i walked up to him and my friend, and he just got completely silent and stared at me. I tried my best not to look at him cause I didn't want to make him uncomfortable. He was using my friends vape, and my friend offered it to me, and I said sure, and then this guy handed it to me and went back inside. Did not say a single word when I approached.
Does this sound like he kind of hates me? Lol. He's never been mean or anything, but I just get the feeling. Is there a way to fix the situation, or would that make it worse? Right now, my plan is to act like he doesn't exist and stick to my usual friends.
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Hmmm it could be that he likes yo ass and gets nervous around you
Sometimes, especially depending on the type of person. Not saying anything is the best way to avoid looking dumb. Especially in front of someone you may think is attractive
If you feel you haven't done anything wrong, and you're certain, and you're sure he's staring at you through passing. Which is another small sign of someone thinking you're attractive. Then He may have a crush, But is just hiding it
Some people are just not that great at making new friends. Some guys are even uncomfortable around girls too
Can be a number of things
Or. He just don't wanna be around yo ass
Yeah I don't know what I could've done because I'm also quiet and only have two friends at work I hang out with, only talk to him for work reasons (yes or okay, one word answers) so I honestly can't think of a reason for him to be like that. If he likes me great and if he doesn't it's not like we have any type of relationship anyway ig 😂
Scare or hates? Make up your mind before you post a question... A lot of drama packed in here...
Man that was very cringe. Good lord no one hates you, stop with the manufactured drama. Why don't you just talk to him more?