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My Indian fiance is jealous of my ex...I need help

hi I am from brooklyn ny. my parents are both from india. my problem is that my boyfriend who was born and brought up in india is really distraught and jealous of my past relationship which lasted almost 4 years. but...

waiting2bhappy

Xper 5 Age: 37

Society & Politics

20 years old, still a virgin... never been in a real relationship. Is this a turn off?

I'm a 20 year old female, and I'm going into my third year of university and I still haven't even had a real relationship, nor have I had sex. I seriously feel like the only one...and that is seems weird. I have only...

emile77

Xper 5 Age: 33

I always ignore the guys I'm really into :(, any advice on how to change?

Never show them I'm interested then like an idiot get upset that they don't notice me. What can I do to change? Its so hard, I guess its the fear of rejection, insecurity and being seen as desperate.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

He states he needs time...but is he really just done?

Ok here goes: A friend of mine (we’ll call him M) who I have known for 9 years and I just recently reconnected about 6 months ago. I had just gotten out of a very painful relationship and wasn't looking for anything...

confused32

Xper 5 Age: 46

Not sure how to end this relationship; if I even really should.

Hello, So my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. It's has been somewhat of a distance relationship because we live about 30 min. via the highway from each other. Usually it doesn't matter...

myhair

Xper 5 Age: 39

Can you be confident and stay true to yourself at the same time?

I have always been a shy and quiet guy. That was the result of many insecurities that the vast majority of came from dating. While most people I know get to like me, I've never been able to be more extroverted as much as...

loxagos_snake

Xper 6 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Problem with single mom raising her son to be weak.

My cousin is a single mom that complains about not being able to find a real man, and then raises her son, to be a wimp that no woman would ever want to date. She teaches her son to let women walk all over him and never...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Society & Politics

Inconsistent boyfriend, hot and cold

Hi guys, My one year boyfriend is super inconsistent. One day he's on top of the world with a good social life and tons of friends, the next day I'm invited to his pity party where he laments about how bad a person he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are we over or am I overreacting?

30yrs old, 4 months in and I know now that I have been too needy and insecure... We have both said we love each other and have talked about the future but I am worried that I've been too insecure and am wondering how to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I recover our relationship from my issues?

4 months in and I know now that I have been too needy and insecure... We have both said we love each other and have talked about the future but I am worried that I've been too insecure and am wondering how to "win her...

Canadianguy2013

Xper 5 Age: 45

Dating

Learn To Be Approachable and Put Yourself Out There

Some people are natural flirts. They have a natural charm and charisma with the opposite sex that makes them appealing and approachable. Some of us lack this approachability. When told to “put ourselves out there” if...

celestialdaeva

Xper 7 Age: 42

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10 Methods To Try Before Ending Your Relationship

We have all been there. We've been too busy, too confused, too something to deal with a relationship. Sometimes, its as simple as our life has become too boring and we blame our relationship. 1. Remember to DATE your...

Hidden_P

Guru Age: 33

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Girl's Behavior

I want a trophy-boyfriend but do I really deserve it?

First of all, I'm not that vain to only look for hot guys. I know the difference between a hot guy and a good guy and what I want from him. I want someone I can rely on. Someone I can trust and open up with. Have a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Im confused, I know having androphobia is bad but.. pls help!

[notice: this was pulled out from my y!answers account because its going nowhere there >.> note: edited from original - feb 10, 2013 - 2:13am local] note: pls don't reply anonymously, it gets on my nerves when I see...

renogaza

Yoda Age: 35

Feelings out of the blue and I don't know how to handle

I was a schizoid all my life, no feelings, no love, no pains, no pity, no remorse, nothing. And of course, relationships were inexistant for me,I am a schizotypal avoidant type. I had many FWB, for which of course I had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why would me ex contact me after ignoring and avoiding me?

The break-up was once sided, it was basically him just throwing everything we had away for what were silly reasons, insecurity, fear and immaturity were major factors. I was dumped via message and he refused to meet up, I...

crushed120592

Xper 5 Age: 34

How to handle a break up that happened due to the circumstances?

My (ex)boyfriend and I broke up last night. It came as no surprise, because we knew there was going to be an end at some point. He's been depressed for a while now, unemployed and feeling insufficient. He couldn't commit...

enigmatta

Yoda Age: 38

Does he really care? Am I being too clingy?

I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy I love very much. We've been together for about 8 months now but the past few months have been a nightmare. We've both changed for the worst: I used to suffer from severe...

Anonymous

(30-35)