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Okay, so there's this guy I know who messaged me on FB about a month ago. Friendly messages, but I ended up not messaging back after awhile.. Well he messaged me again about a week and a half ago. Long story, short he gave me his number and told me if I ever wanted to text him I could. SO I ended up texting him this past weekend, generally he's pretty peppy but he's a firefighter so really busy too.. He offered on Sunday for us to officially "meet" today. Well I don't know why I'm so caught up, but I messaged him and asked what he was up to, he told me he's sick 😑 now I'm feel like I'm getting blown off. He usually texts me first, but it's seems like I've been doing more of it the last couple days. I guess I'm just feeling the "need" to have someone to talk to. Although, I do kind of like him (in a friendly way) and he's made it obvious and told me he likes me, he's okay with the fact I have children (although I wouldn't let him meet them unless it just turned into more in time), he's a complementing gentlemen, makes me feel good and he's even told me he hopes I stick around.. Now the question is. What should I do? It's been so long since I've felt this unpredictable feeling, while trying not to let my vulnerable self get TOO caught up and I'm wondering if I should just stop texting him for a couple of days even if he texts me or what since when literally chat every day.. That way I don't put off the needy, obsessive girl vibe. He knows I'm not looking for anything and he said he wasn't either, but that's when he said at the same time he hoped I stuck around for awhile after talking to me and kind of getting to know more about me. He's been out of a relationship for a little over a year now and he's made comments like, "I hope I can be the good man you deserve" it just throws me off! 😁

I have known this guy for about two years and ever since I met him, I've realized how much I like him and how compatible we'd be. In the past two months, my best friend has developed a major crush on him. She doesn't know I like him, she just thinks we're friends, and she talks about him all the time. The thing is, he really likes me; beyond a doubt, and even my other friends have noticed that he has come around more often just to talk to me. She wants to ask him out, but I don't think she realizes what's going on. She is far from his type, and I really don't think he'd say yes except to be nice. If I tell her I like him too, it won't go well. She is very protective and obsessive of her men, and I want to maintain peace, if you know what I mean. Any tips?