Search Results: what is girlfriend material

can't say i have been in many long term relationships but i have dated, however i still have friends who date and i read questions here and there about such situations... and basically if a man demands his woman not wear clothes too revealing, not like some guys pics on social media and to not flirt with men and such behaviors he is called backwards, insecure, controlling and a bad boyfriend material.

yet when women do the same (yes they do) no one cares, my friend told me his girlfriend gets super furious if he looks at another woman while with her or if another woman looks at him, if he is somewhere with his friends and doesn't tell her or if he likes pics of some girls on facebook that she doesn't like... and he's not a lone a lot of women are super jealous like that and make an issue out of something that most men dont even pay attention to.

so why is it bad if a man has reasonable expectations and doesn't like his girls body to be on show for every single dude out there and hates that she flirts with other men but when women do it its cool?

Men will sleep with any willing woman, but most women are pickier when it comes to sex and by pickier i dont mean only choosing the hottest and best men no, sure it happens sometimes but i meant that from my own observations it seems that women are more likely to have sex with a man who is a bad boyfriend, good for some quick fun but bad for anything long term , and here comes my question...

If a man is smart, funny, good looking, tall, nice and takes care of himself are most women going to view him as boyfriend material and do their best to be good in his presence so they are no labeled as bad girlfriend material? and of course they are going to avoid sex since easy girls are a no go for most decent guys.