Can a guy be too "good" for sex?

[Z-Spark]

Men will sleep with any willing woman, but most women are pickier when it comes to sex and by pickier i dont mean only choosing the hottest and best men no, sure it happens sometimes but i meant that from my own observations it seems that women are more likely to have sex with a man who is a bad boyfriend, good for some quick fun but bad for anything long term , and here comes my question...

If a man is smart, funny, good looking, tall, nice and takes care of himself are most women going to view him as boyfriend material and do their best to be good in his presence so they are no labeled as bad girlfriend material? and of course they are going to avoid sex since easy girls are a no go for most decent guys.

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[Bandit74]

I think that plays a role, but I also think they just felt more sexual chemistry with the guys they slept with right away.

With women the bar for how attractive a guy needs to be for her to consider him for a fling is often set higher than the bar for how attractive a guy needs to be for her to consider him as a boyfriend.

So you can be attractive enough that she would have sex with you in a relationship after you pay for dates and offer commitment, but not attractive enough that she would sleep with you on the first date no strings attached.

[Z-Spark]

there is an assumption that women just have sex with hot men, and in a club scene yes thats true, but go to a college for example and all the dudes that are having ONS and friends with benefits are average or slightly above average the really hot guys that girls absolutley love dont get sex but they do get a lot of relationship offers.

[Bandit74]

I disagree. I think the hot guys have a lot of options for casual sex AND relationships. If a hot guy isn't in a relationship, it is not because he can't find a girl who wants to commit to him. Its because he wants to explore is options and refusing to commit to any one girl.

[Z-Spark]

you can disagree bu it doesn't change how things work you are making assumptions based on what you see in movies in real life thats far from the truth