How rare is it to find a good guy through online dating?

[TheSimFans]

I'm just wondering how rare it is to find a real good guy but can see how to find fake nice guys. Yep even guys that talk about sex before you meet them. That has also been flew of my experience with some men. I never like it when people ask sex-related questions. I'm not sure whether this is a question or not. You didn't have sfor a long time. Before we even met, I blocked users who sent messages about sex first thing. Some guys have already ruined this opportunity. Because it is too early, I respond with a no. Then I blocked them. Then, he started texting and asked me some questions about what HWR is looking for here. I sent reply saying I'm here for long time single guys with a learning disability. I just want to be direct since I do not want my time wasted and he seems like a real nice guy, not the fake types. Guys that too overcondindent for sime womrn. Guys that has tons of women fighing others them. Other guys online were guys too older and were very creapy for hitting on 24 year old. These type of men I felt very uncomfortable around and started to dislike type of some men. What do you think about my experiences with some types of men on online dating and in real life that I do dislike the most? Are players, jerks, cocky, too bossy, verbal abuser and guys that disrespectful. Also, I'm not here to seek attention from men. I just looking for one guy for one thing onk only

[inhua]

not that rare especially if you prioritize good character and personalities traits or basically anything within their control

a lot of good guys just don't meet certain criteria e. g. they're too short, they're too poor, they're too ugly etc.

in your case, it looks they're too old which is outside of their control

[TheSimFans]

I like short guys more than any trash guy that is tall. I saw short guys with tons of girls from my college. Good guys are not creeps.

[inhua]

what makes someone a creep then? something within their control or outside of their control?

[TheSimFans]

It depends. I will never be interested in any men that are about the same age as my granddad. It's a type I always get the most since I look like a 14-year-old I am still in high school. For having a baby face, I'm 24, not in high school or college. Dislike guys that can't understand what or think that every girl got them. It's all false. Yet you seem to pick on about creepy but nothing.

[inhua]

so in other words, you have options but you don't like the options presented to you.

finding a good guy isn't that hard if you're looking good in their hearts as in on the inside, not the outside.

[TheSimFans]

When did I dislike them? You don't understand what creepy men are for me. That was creepy. I'm not looking to date guys that age is my grandad. I'm told I'm not interested in them. Go on being overconfident. Don't understand what no mean is creepy.

[inhua]

it's only creepy because it's not reciprocated.

let's say these same guys are the same age as you. what difference does it make now?

[TheSimFans]

I said I'm not interested or been attracted to any men that are older than me. You still haven't gotten anything. I get men aged outside of my age range. That is 50+ and guys that are above that too. For women with a learning disability. Are those creepy guys.

[inhua]

you're allowed to be interested in whoever you want to be interested in.

you specifically said you're looking for a good guy which means you have to judge them on their inside not their outside.

you're saying it's hard to find a good guy. I'm saying it's not.

[TheSimFans]

Is it harder to find a good guy then it is easy to find a disrespectful guy. Yet they ruined there chance with sex relations question. These man are not good but fake good. I also tried in real life but full of asshole and immature man child that online did sent a message even outside of my agr range and he knew to.

[inhua]

at the end of the day, this is your problem to solve. not mine.

I'm just saying there's plenty of good guys out there. they're simply being ignored.

[TheSimFans]

I got a town that is full of immature men. That is my town. I had to date men with a learning disability. mainstream are out.

[TheSpaceGnome]

It's not rare, whats rare is a dating site that doesn't intentionally hide your matches from you. If you find one thats not a scam, ferl free to share.

[TheSpaceGnome]

feel*

[TheSimFans]

I'm not sure if they are not good for me but one that I used to think verified but don't think is a good thing for men. Same app dating app badly. I. Can't you find real good
guys in real life?

[TheSpaceGnome]

I've not been able to find the right woman for me yet, online or off.

[Sisters_Of_Time]

That's tough. All I can suggest is to just talk to the guys who message you. Even the boring messages. It might not tell about who he is as a person unless given the chance.

[TheSimFans]

I had tried guys that did a message to me but made an inappropriate message after.

[Sisters_Of_Time]

Yes those you drop! That's not 'boring' but inappropriate and not in line with what you're looking for!

[Adogdog]

I'm a good guy, but have yet to try online dating.

[Sisters_Of_Time]

Can be worth it!

[Adogdog]

Thanks, I may try it soon :)

[dragoblack]

Not hard honestly. There are plenty of good guys out there. The problem is you have to talk to every guy to weed out the toxic ones. Guys are simple, so red flags are honestly easy to notice

[TheSimFans]

Not all reds are not easy to spot at all. Been talking about them.

[TheSimFans]

Red flags.