Why aren't there ever any good looking guys on online dating?

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There's honestly probably like 5% of good looking guys. The rest look sad and desperate or play boys that are okay looking

fishcake_buttie · Accepted Answer

It's because they aren't good looking and find it very hard to attract women that they desire out in the world, many of these men don't want a woman whose looks are like their own and aim too high and fail and many bad looking men haven't got the confidence to connect with someone face-to-face... So they pile into the dating sites hoping for the best, when what they really need to do is; Stop drinking so much, stop smoking, develop a diet plan low in sugar and stick to it and hit the gym! What they don't seem to understand is that just by trying to improve themselves, putting the effort in, it makes them more confident and more attractive. So many have been like they are for a lot of years and get to an age where what youthful looks they do have, they are fading away and again, pile into the dating sites hoping for the best.

The good looking guys n gals, they don't need such sites because most of them are already coupled and there has to be specific circumstances for those that are still single to end up on the dating sites.

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Because fit, accomplished, well dressed and well educated men who are also good looking and financially secure don't need dating apps to meet women. It's the last place you're ever going to meet a man like that. Mostly they make it very hard for women to approach them and hang out behind barriers of closed circles with people they know. You'll probably never meet one unless you somehow make it into that social circle.

What you get on the dating apps are the hungry, thirsty guys desperate for attention but completely in the dark as to why women don't want them... as you noted.

Shehnaz · Accepted Answer

Because the good-looking ones learn very fast that they don't have to swipe. They go offline, where eye contact and perfume still matter. The ones left on Tinder or Bumble? Well, either they've run out of cash for gym memberships... or they're waiting for you to swipe right, because you're the only one who can tell a six-three model from a six-three catfish. And honestly? Those 'good-looking' ones-they're often the worst. Too vain, too lazy. I'd pick a scruffy guy who knows how to listen. Like you.

beenherebefore · Accepted Answer

Because good looking guys have no issues in finding women who want to date them.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well…. Men who have options AND are looking for something serious don’t need to be online and a lot of men ask the same question abojt women…. And the answer is the same.

Most people who are both of those things don’t last long in online dating. Many people are there for simple hook ups, there to feed their ego and get supply, etc.

And… the rest. Men who are desperate and creeps and weirdos who can’t get women in real life.

It’s the same witn the women on these apps. Most these men find many of these women who are there are either there for hookups. Ego validation. Or are desperate women who can’t get men

HawkPerception · Answer

Well that's the thing... most of the profiles shown to you are the ones you don't want, because it keeps you on the app and having a higher chance of paying their subscriptions. The most desired profiles are only shown to premium users and even then, they gatekeep them to an extent.

Finchie40 · Answer

That’s why they are on dating apps lol same thing with girls’ as well, only like 5 percent of them look good

OlderAndWiser · Answer

How many good ones do you need to meet?

HighValue · Answer

They often filter out being matched with women 30+. Sorry. Also, some people, because of their line of work, they won't post a picture publicly on those sites so you have to message each other until they feel comfortable sharing their picture.

Bitter_Sweet94 · Answer

“There are.

They’re just buried under the noise.

Most good guys don’t lead with flashy photos or thirsty energy, they show up quietly, and you only notice them when you slow down and actually look.

Online dating isn’t short on good men, it’s just short on people who take the time to filter with intention.”

FreyaRed · Answer

Because those men want to spread their inferior genes and think dating apps will help them. Gross.

I'm just kidding. Men have are often very bad photographers and those who have photographic talent are often gay.

Anonymous · Answer

Because UNLIKE women guys typically post their ACTUAL pics.😆 Do you have any idea how many women on dating apps look like blobfish? You're likely one of them (you don't have a Pic that's a dead giveaway😆)

Men lie about height. Women lie about age and weight. 10 to 1 you weigh AT LEAST 200. The fact that you're over 30 increases the liklihood it's closer to 250.🫢😆 warm?😆

JustaGuyfr · Answer

You just answered your own question. The reality is that most good looking guys either already have relationships or dont rely on electronic means to date. They just get what they want from the real world. Some handsome guys are either just like cheats, or well in a 1% case, just another good looking dude online

Anonymous · Answer

Because quality people don't need dating apps.

slatyb · Answer

For the same reason there are few attractive women -- they aren't single. There are a few, but they can be picky. Inless you are something special, they'll pick someone else.

MrChinaski · Answer

You are 33. As a woman, your dating capital peaked 12 years ago (coincidentally about the same time mine did as a man). Maybe have some sympathy for the dad-bod guys.

MJVillarama · Answer

Yeah, online dating can feel rough. A lot of profiles aren’t genuine or people oversell themselves. The good ones are out there, just sometimes harder to spot.

u7u7u7u7 · Answer

Because you seem to see emotions through a photo and decided this dude is depressed or sad or desperate,, etc which is wrong, i may look sad or depressed in photos but in real life I'm actually fun and alive and looks way better than me in a photo.

YourExLover69 · Answer

There are mostly average looking. I suggest you to look for good character and personality if you are looking for serious relationship. 😊

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can get a date in real life, they don't need online dating.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

How 'bout "handsome play boys," which I'm not?" (I AM handsome, but I'd be a one-woman man like my father.)

Tomislav7 · Answer

All the good looking guys can get women in real life and mainly use dating apps when traveling to get easy ass

loveyouoak · Answer

Because good looking guys don't need online dating.

Anonymous · Answer

I guess cause truly good looking guys aren’t that common

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Guys don't use filters, at best, they’ll photo shop their junk

aquamarine321 · Answer

Because the rest are taken already or not interested, but I’m pretty sure ugly dudes

ABC1x1x · Answer

Because women are shallow and good looking guys dont need aps.

Anonymous · Answer

Some people don’t photograph well. I say if you like what’s in their profile then give them a chance.

Dion666 · Answer

Same reason why aren't there many attractive women on dating sites

BruceWayne32123 · Answer

because I’m not on any dating websites

AviatorTom · Answer

We're all on GaG. 😎

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I assume you're a supermodel?

Anonymous · Answer

Good people don't need online

Alex-Snow · Answer

They may be desperate

The-Stud · Answer

And.. are you sure the 5% wants you?

tnuna · Answer

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