Why don't I find any guy handsome enough?

[Anonymous]

I am way too picky when it comes to looks. I don't find 95% of the guy handsome right at seeing them for the first time. And the guys I usually find attractive, well, they turn out to become really average looking to me after some time? Why does this happen? Why don't I find any guy extremely hot or cute or anything? And, in fact, the actors I really love are the most average looking ones but it's their emotional and intense personality on screen that make me like them.

[MrOracle]

I don't say this to be mean or cruel - just brutally honest:

You are immature and shallow, which is fairly common, though many at your age are already starting to grow out of it. You probably will too, after years of being alone and miserable. Right now, you still want what the ads and marketing departments are selling, which is a fantasy. Yet your brain really and truly BELIEVES it deep down, and that's why you're having trouble getting past it. It's also effectively sabotaging your relationships, but your brain is being slow to catch on. Perhaps you need to suffer some more. Again, not trying to be mean - just honest.

Many guys are just like you, and like you, they want the supermodel-hot girl, and are either unhappy with the 7/10 girl (who is well above average) because they believe they "deserve" a supermodel, or they manage to land the supermodel-hot girl and are miserable with her because she's shallow, superficial, and only with him to exploit him before moving up another step. Most of those guys will also eventually catch on, but it can take a while (and an expensive divorce or three).

You'll find that, in a relationship, a person's looks stop mattering so much after a few months. No matter what they look like, you stop seeing their face and body and start seeing the image you have of them in your mind - the image based on their PERSONALITY, BEHAVIOR, and CHARACTER. And that's the image that will ultimately either make you happy or not.

[Asker]

Your answer has hit the nail. I wish I dated some guy and get my heart brutally broken, in that way, I could have passed from this stage of being utterly shallow. And the last paragraph that you have written, I will keep it in mind.

[Slothgirl]

Guyd are too we are not allowed to be picky and shallow too omg you guy should be risk of extension no more baby's please lol

[Anonymous]

This is the most silliest Question Iv ever heard.. sits right at the top of list

Get over it, first look at yourself before you judge all these guys. Your probably not even hot enough and women enough to command the type of Mr grey your looking for... So relax.

Find whoever get your head out the gutter, and learn to love people for who they are with obvious attraction. But your not miss universe here so go for what works at your level

Pathetic... really

[Asker]

Brutal, but honest.

[kambo_trick3y]

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[EyeSeaYew]

At first reading this it seemed like you were just another person with unrealistically high standards, but the last sentence changed my mind. I think your attraction may just be strongly based off of who the person is on the inside. As in, a guy could technically be one of the hottest dudes walking, but once you get to know him and there's nothing special about him, he dives down to average looking in your mind. Am I right?

If so then all that means is that you need to find someone who you truly love on the inside, because the external appearance doesn't do much for you, which is actually a good thing.

[Asker]

Maybe you are right. Appearances really doesn't attract me. I might look at the a really handsome guy and shrug it off. Don't know if it's a good thing or bad one.

[EyeSeaYew]

That actually makes you the opposite of superficial. It's a good thing.

[MsAnthropist]

You know, I can count on one hand the number of people I've actually swooned over because of their looks. I never had posters of crushes up on my wall or went nuts over the guys my friends were fawning over. It wasn't even that I was particularly picky, just that I didn't have a strong, intense chemistry based on looks. That's why it hit me so hard when I met my husband (at 16), and nearly passed out from the attraction. Hit me like a ton of bricks.

That was 20 years ago.

[MsAnthropist]

What's crazy is that my man's sweat drives me wild. Maybe he was the only person I'd met with a compatible immune system. Our kid IS super healthy. 😆
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[LittleSally]

This is true for almost everyone out there - ad least women I know...
You see... you'll realize soon enough that that's not that important. Looking for someone perfect is pointless because you'll never find someone who looks exactly the way you want them to.
If you do, I can almost guarantee you he won't have the type of personality you're looking for.

There's no such thing as perfect, and personalities are much more important than looks.

[Asker]

I agree to you. There is no such thing as PERFECT. But maybe it's just a wishful thinking to find one. We watch all those movies where the guy is perfect looking AND have a perfect personality.

[LittleSally]

Yeah... movies are made to create this perfect image - an ideal. Ideals don't exist.
it's like photoshop for out hearts xD Hahaha

[Dezmo08]

Hi I know this post is old but I figured some people might connect with the question. Everyone’s opinion should be taken with a grain of salt because only you know what your experiencing. I’m sure you’ll figure it out, but here’s my experience. One thing I’ve noticed, is that women are most attracted to me when I’m not interested in them at all, but least attracted to me when I’m more devoted/committed. The longer the relationship, the bigger the problem gets. If I’m not interested at the beginning, the woman in question can’t get enough of me. But after committing to something more long term, they tend to lose interest or I seem boring. It seems at least in my experience that in general, women want what they can’t have, and when they get it, they no longer want it 🤷‍♂️. Perhaps this is why I’ve heard so many women complain about men not committing? Because women in general are more devoted/committed when a man doesn’t commit, but less committed/devoted when he does? Maybe that’s why there seems to be no incentive for me to get involved in a long term relationship. Because I know it’ll never last. I can just be the guy you can’t have, and experience the best parts of the relationship... I just realized that sounds selfish but... can you blame me? Lol its not like I intended to be this way, it sort of just happened over time. So perhaps you, like the women I’ve been with, only want what you can’t have. Perhaps you too will push for commitment, and then be unsatisfied with the results. Maybe if you’re more patient with the relationships the love and bond will deepen with time. I don’t know for sure I’m still learning myself.

[PiuBelloAmante]

You haven't seen me yet ;). JK!
Maybe you haven't been finding guys who are both handsome, intelligent, and have a unique personality.
Also you get used to looking at the handsome guys you are with and they don't become special anymore, you just need to find someone special.

[Asker]

it's just that even if I find a good looking guy who meets all my requirements, I would just think, "If I can get him, why not try getting someone better looking than him?"

[PiuBelloAmante]

Haha i guess we feel the same then. This happens to me all the time. especially when i used to work in NYC. i worked In a fashion boutique in SoHo and i would see the most beautiful women everyday. And that would make me feel as though i could do better.

[Asker]

But isn't it wrong? How can we overcome this habit?

[PiuBelloAmante]

Finding a partner who is more than there appearance. Someone who is so special that we know there is no body else like them. Look at George Clooney he dated some of the most beautiful woman on the planet and he recently married a woman who wasn't as beautiful but offered him something no other woman could.
We need to find special people. harder than it sounds right? lol

[Asker]

No, it is not. But... then I wonder... what if I find a guy with better looks and same personality as his? Is this even possible to find someone like him, lol?

[PiuBelloAmante]

Haha. thats the risk one will have to take. If u are unhappy with your current partner and its because you feel they are inadequate it would be best to leave them. because resentment and the feeling that you can do better will just keep growing

[Asker]

But how is it even worth it? I am average looking, and suppose my current partner is good looking, but then I see someone new and find THAT person more good looking.. then it can't work like that, right? I mean, being average, I should learn to be content.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Hey if u can get better and you know it. Go for it. But if u feel as though no matter who it is, u will feel as though you can do better, you should reflect back on yourself and think about changing the way u think about yourself an your partners.

[Asker]

But I think most of the people can do much better in terms of looks when it comes to their SO..

[PiuBelloAmante]

Yeah me to but they have an X factor. somethin intangible or un seeable from our perspective.
Beauty, handsomeness whatever we call it is an illusion of the mind. It is completely subjective

[Asker]

I agree with you. Looks are HIGHLY subjective :))

[PiuBelloAmante]

www.evanmarckatz.com/.../

Maybe this could help you too. good luck with all your future relationships!

[Asker]

Thanks for your help.

[transitguy]

A good looking guy/girl who meets all your requirements, and you think you can build a life on that?

[Roycaryn]

We tend to perceive the difference between "hot" and "average" looks much greater than they actually are. The differences are slight and subtle, the differentiation owes more to things like hormones and cultural perceptions than any sort of objective criteria. Are you worried that not a single guy will really be up to your standards or something?

[Asker]

Yes, I am worried. :/

[Roycaryn]

In that case, I'd recommend taking a closer look to what those standards actually are and what's driving them.

[Rloco]

Is it so bad that you don't give average guys a chance. Also do you like people who have things in common. I'm picky about personality which I think may be worse. Think of it like food give things a chance even if it doesn't look that appealing. You'll only learn more about yourself in the process.

[Jerusha]

Because you're the kind of people who is not attracted by looks alone, that's my guess. ^.^ You need emotions, chemistry, and heartbeats. So it's not that you don't see them handsome, it's just that you don't seem AT ALL.

[Asker]

I don't know. I am confused.

[Anonymous]

Finding 5% of men handsome at first glance is 1 in 20. That's nothing to be worried about. It still gives you plenty of choices in most locations.

If you find the right guy, he will be great. You only need the one. If you found every guy amazing, how would you choose?

[Anonymous]

Because you want things too quickly. You have this idea of a perfect guy that no guy can fit that early on. You dont give any chance to develop attraction if your attraction is based mostly on personality as your last couple lines suggest.

I think you're going to have a really hard time finding anybody attractive since they can't live up to your high standards for very long, and since you give it no chance to develop they dont stand a chance.

[Asker]

I am willing to give chance, but the maximum I have met is a guy with PERFECT personality and above average looks (He is really cute though)

[Opinion Owner]

Then I would say you probably have your head in the clouds when it comes to expectations (and I hope that doesn't come across insulting as it isn't meant to be).
"Youre not perfect, sport. And I got news for you, that girl you met? she's not perfect either. The question is whether you're perfect for each other. Now, you can know everything in thr world, but the only way you're finding that one out is by giving it a shot." I think that quote is applicable here.

[Asker]

I actually think that I can't ever find someone with as fine and compatible personality as his.

[Opinion Owner]

So you want to end up that person that spends their life wondering what if until the end of their days?

[Asker]

Sorry. I didn't get you. Why would that person wonder 'what if'?

[Opinion Owner]

You got this guy who you say is perfect and cute, so what are you doing about it?

[Asker]

Uh... nothing. It's just hanging in the middle of nowhere.

[Opinion Owner]

And when that opportunity passes, and you start to wonder "what if" you missed your chance at what you think right now might be the best you'll do, is that something you want to linger indefinitely?

[Asker]

No, I don't want to linger over it. But I do. I know that. I am just in a confused state.

[Opinion Owner]

I would say you're not really ready for a serious relationship, but I also get the reality that the only way you'll get to being ready is by diving in and screwing up some so you learn from it.

So I say dive in, give it a shot with this guy. It'll almost definitely fail eventually, but you'll take away a lot from it, valuable experience and understanding.

[Asker]

How is it going to be a fail? To be honest, I never took a step with him because I don't wanna hurt him. If I am into a relationship, I will do it with dedication or would remain alone forever.

[Opinion Owner]

Because I don't think you know enough about relationships or the opposite gender in regards to long term relationships for it to survive. I also don't think you really know enough about yourself. This is partially based on the limited interaction here and partially based on the fact you're under 24 and from everything I've seen and experienced- you're chances of being in and staying in a long term relationship happily is tough even when you have a great deal of experience, know what you want, and know the realities that come with it.

I don't disbelieve you when you say you don't want to hurt him and you'd go into it dedicated, but you just don't get to have those kinds of certainties when it comes to relationships with other people. He could change, you could change, you both could change, or you could both stay the same and just realize it was never right from the start.

Relationships are a leap of faith into the uncertainty.

[Asker]

I totally agree with you :) But I think if their is love, then everything is possible.

[Opinion Owner]

So then do something about it.

[BelleGirl21]

I don't think that's abnormal, but I hope you're willing to give people a chance to at least be in your life, otherwise you'll be missing out on a lot of really great people.

[Keyspirits]

Ma bellegurl! <333

[TaureanBull81]

That's well said Belle. There's more to a potential partner than just the physical aspect :-)

[PlayboyRJ]

Well same thing is with me... ofcourse first attraction to girl is by looks... but later they seem to be unattractive by their personality... But I don't want to compromise on either note... hope we will find someone upto our expectations someday..

[Asker]

I don't think perfect people exist?

[PlayboyRJ]

Well I believe they do... I think we can get something only if we believe in it.

[Asker]

But I still don't think perfect people exist. There can a person with either perfect personality OR perfect looks. But not both.

[PlayboyRJ]

They may not be perfect.. but they can be perfect for you... Dont see it as perfect looks or perfect personality... see it as some good looks and nice personality... perfect combination

[Asker]

Uhhmm... I agree. They can be perfect to us. But what if I turn greedy? What if despite having a guy with cute looks and perfect personality, I still go around looking for something better?

[PlayboyRJ]

Then its completely your fault.. Life gave you a chance and you screwed up

[Asker]

I agree.

[PlayboyRJ]

I have a question... If you meet someone (for example me) online.. and we chat and you like me as a person... would you consider going out with me without judging my looks

[Asker]

Yes, I will.

[PlayboyRJ]

Would you mind playing little game?

[Asker]

Yeah, sure.

[PlayboyRJ]

Can you private message me?

[Asker]

You have allowed private message for following only.

[PlayboyRJ]

Sorry, I changed the settings now.. Message me

[Anonymous]

Yeah first thing I consider when approaching someone is looks. If they are mot handsome even if they have an amazing personality I wouldn't be interested enough to try to get to know them... mIt's bad I know but oh well. But anyway in my area there's several good looking guys, they're not that rare. Maybe they're rare in your area? Where do you live?

[Notcarelessman]

Standards might be to high. What you perceive to be a good looking guy is in terms of societal standards not the actual reality.

[Asker]

Then what's the actual reality?

[4KYERIC]

You may just be spaciosexual : more attracted to intelligence/personality than the actual looks.
It's not a decease or anything, don't worry, it's fine :)

[Thewhitestdudeever]

I'm pretty sure that's normal, you might be gay though I don't know

[Asker]

Lol no... I am not interested in any girl. I have just experienced sexual attraction towards guys only.

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Then you are just picky. Stop watching porn! It's bad for you lol

[Asker]

I have never watched p*rn . :O

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Lol I'm kidding, maybe you are perfect and you just want someone on your level... I don't know... I would just think it's because you are young. When I was younger I was picky too and now I've come back down to earth and realized that not all attractive girls are pornstars lol

[Asker]

I am not perfect. I don't find many good looking guys of my age that attractive because most of the time they are busy taking their selfies and stuff. And I find it really stupid when girls are trying to get their attention when they are the biggest jerks and would just use them.

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Maybe you should stop dating based solely on looks and date someone with a real personality

[Asker]

I have never dated anyone actually.

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Well that's probably why you've never dated. If you don't lower your standards then you probably won't ever find anyone to love

[Asker]

Seems like so :(

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Don't worry, eventually you'll get lonely enough and you will lower your standards naturally, then again you never know you may find Prince Charming any day. The problem with the hot guys is they have plenty of options so good luck with that

[Asker]

I wish I get lonely enough, spend a lonely life and then regret at the end for being such a shallow person. :)

[Thewhitestdudeever]

Just try some people and don't worry about how they look, you might fall in love despite how they look

[bubble_tea]

Are you the same girl who asked why she never saw a female 10 in her life? only 7's and 8's when she's lucky?

[Asker]

I never asked that question :O

[bubble_tea]

uhh ok. I don't know what to tell you. Maybe try the other way around.. see if an average guy can become handsome to you after you get to know him.

[Asker]

Yes, it has happened once.

[bombamboum]

You partially answer your own question. It's more than just the look, charm plays a huge part.

[Asker]

It seems like so. But I still want to look at a guy and appreciate their looks as well.

[bombamboum]

of course but without charms, it's not worth it and with a lot of charms, someone who would be considered average can turn into someone extremely hot.

[Asker]

Maybe you are right! :))

[TaureanBull81]

Maybe you need to consider more than just the physical aspect with the men you meet. It's always good to see whether the men you meet have similar interests, sense of humour and personality as you :-)

[Asker]

As I have mentioned in one of my reply, I have met someone with a PERFECT personality, but his looks come under the 'really cute guy' category. I am afraid that one day I will just think that I settled on him.

[TaureanBull81]

Just keep an open mind :-)

[Tokana]

Maybe you need a deeper connection with someone to be attracted to them

[Asker]

It could be that. But then what? Even if I am highly attracted to a guy, they will still remain average looking at the back of my mind. I might love them from the bottom of my heart but they will still remain average looking to me.

[Tokana]

strange... are you happy with average looking?

[Asker]

Depends. If that person REALLY loves me a lot.

[Tokana]

jumping the gun a bit quickly now ain't we.. lol

[Asker]

Don't know... Actually, I don't know what I want.

[Greece1990]

You have unrealistic expectations and eventually when you really want a bf your expectations will come down to earth.

[Little-Hippie]

Statistically speaking, women only find 5% of men attractive any way.

So you're pretty normal.

[Asker]

So... hwo do we learn to appreciate what we have with us right now?

[Little-Hippie]

You say that there are non-visual traits about a man that can make him more attractive to you.
That's good. You at least have something to work with. Maybe appearance is an empty shell to you unless it embodies something more meaningful.

I'm not really well-coursed on how to make yourself attracted to a wider range of people.
I didn't even know I was shallow until I was in my 20's. haha.

[Asker]

Hmm... but I would feel bad if I get into a relationship and am pretty happy with a guy but still I would look at other guys and think that they are good looking.

[Little-Hippie]

You're going to do that anyway.

And if we want to speak statistically again, you'll probably act on that extramarital attraction after about 5 years of marriage.

[Asker]

How can you state it as a fact that I am going to do it anyway? Is it because I am shallow?

[Little-Hippie]

No.
It's because it doesn't matter how you process physical attraction, infidelity is far too common for anyone to think they're beyond becoming a statistic.

And I don't know it to be a fact.
Only you determine the future of your fidelity.

[Asker]

I won't ever do something like that. This is something I am sure of. I would much rather get hurt instead of hurting the person who loves me too much.

[Little-Hippie]

We are on a serious tangent, lol.

[Anyusername01]

Its because you are picky but just let a guy your type find you

[Asker]

It's never going to happen.

[Anyusername01]

it is going to happen just be positive and patient its nothing to even worry about i thought i would never find anyone but i have

[Klaatu51]

it's not bad to be picky. just find out what you like most ;-)

[Asker]

I am way too picky and that's the problem.

[cavmanier]

I don't think this is really that abnormal. Maybe you have a lot of options as well.

[Asker]

I don't have options. Mostly, before approaching someone, the first thing you consider is looks, but the looks alone doesn't work for me.

[cavmanier]

I actually feel the same way for the most part. I may guess I'll like their personality based on how they look but if I'm wrong most of my attraction goes away.

[Asker]

Yeah, it happens. :/

[Anonymous]

Hint for you: physical attraction fades with time. For everyone. So if you want a relationship, you need to get past the physical part fast and find out what's beneath the surface.

[Asker]

How can it be done?

[Souma95]

Because that's just how you are ;) Nothing wrong with it!

[Asker]

But it's not cool. I want to find attractive guy atrractive :P Lol, if that makes sense.

[Souma95]

Lol, you just haven't found the 'attractive' guy that suits your tastes yet that's all ;) Haha yup perfect sense ;D

[genericname85]

because you get used to looks. just take one that´s not ugly but has a good personality. looks will eventually get boring anyway.

[Asker]

I know some good looking guys with AMAZING personality, but then I think, "What if I find better than them?"

[genericname85]

do you think, you´ll ever find a guy which is the one ultimative best? its about deciding for one. or if not at least being open about it.

[Asker]

I don't if it is just a wishful thinking to find a PERFECT person.

[genericname85]

so what is the real problem? not knowing how to choose?

[Asker]

My problem is settling down. Why to settle down? If I really love someone and keeps on finding such little flaws in that person, then I will eventually hurt him. And to be honest, it's better to die then to hurt someone I love.

[genericname85]

that´s nonsense. you will find little flaws in every person you will ever meet. the question is if you can deal with it. if it turns out you can't, you have to leave them. of course this will hurt but we all have to deal with that.

[Asker]

Got it :) I can actually deal with minor physical flaws because I am no Miss Universe anyway.

[genericname85]

i personally don´t find physical flaws that bad. only major stuff like being fat or something is bad.

[Anonymous]

I'm all for honesty but this is the least endearing thing I've ever heard. What do you look like?

[Asker]

I am average.

[Anonymous]

probably because your scaling method is based on superstars, models or actors as the floor and god as the ceiling, that attitude is very unhealthy :<

[Asker]

No. The actors I like are pretty average looking. So, I wonder from where these standards come from.

[Opinion Owner]

then i'm unsure, perhaps you're interested in something else, perhaps their personality or attitude, maybe their interests or traits, or it may not even be that and you might just be subconsciously interested in girls instead, i can't be sure :<

[Opinion Owner]

also you should ignore Mr. Oracle if i were you, he is very often very cruel like that, its his nature.

[Asker]

Or maybe I am just unconsciously trying to not get myself into relationship and tries to find little flaws in everyone. I am not very keen to be in relationship, to be honest.

[Asker]

I guess his response is totally fine and not cruel at all. Lol. He is much better than me. :P

[Opinion Owner]

if you don't want to be in a relationship right now then don't force yourself, you can do it at your own pace :)

[Asker]

I know right. It's very confusing state. 60% of me doesn't want to date. 40% of me wants to date. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

in a sense he is right, and is also honest, but i dont like how he approaches the questions in gag :<

[Opinion Owner]

some people are like that, i used to really want to but i kept forcing myself not to and find ways to distract myself from guys when i was younger, i ended up hurting a few and wanted to apologize, sometimes its your body that wants and your mind that doesn't or vice versa, but its always psyche over anima/mind over body

[Anonymous]

Did you ever here the phrase "familiarity breeds contempt". So there is that and the fact that you are probably shallow.

[Asker]

Umm um... it could be that...

[Opinion Owner]

Lol.

[Anonymous]

You're finding that looks can't make up for a lack of emotional attraction for very long.

[Asker]

It's true. :/

[Anonymous]

Girls are more attractive to you possibly? Haha or you're just picky

[Asker]

I am not lesbian or bi.

[Anonymous]

buy some cats for ever alone . you will be cat lady

[Asker]

Better idea.

[Anonymous]

Women are only not picky when they are below average looking.

[Asker]

It's true only for some girls.

[Anonymous]

Your beyond picky 95% really? Just become a lesbian then.

[Asker]

Lol. You are born lesbian. You just don't become one.

[Opinion Owner]

No your not born a lesbian. Where did you hear that from? People aren't born gay they become gay. That's like saying your kids are gonna be 6ft? No one knows how tall their gonna be.

[Asker]

Height and sexual orientation are two different things. You are born with these tendencies which develop when you hit puberty. Please read about it on internet or in some books. You don't get to choose to become gay.

[Opinion Owner]

I believe some choose that life style.

[Asker]

So... can you choose to be gay? I mean.. when you have no interest in sucking a dick then how can you even think of choosing to be gay and fucking guys. No, it's not possible. You will end up getting attracted to girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah in a weird way yes. Especially when you can't attract the opposite sex. Some just say screw it I'm playing the other field.

[ArabianPwincess197]

No offence but its a sign of vanity and pettiness

[Asker]

How's it? I am, by no means, extremely gorgeous or something. But my problem is... I don't find anyone else extremely good looking either... I don't adore a guy's gorgeousness like many other girls do.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Right. I thought u meant in a negative way

[Asker]

Okay.

[Yellawolf]

I'm handsome so Iv'e been told. :)

[Asker]

UMM.. so?

[Diego9O]

Maybe your expectations are sky high.

[Asker]

I don't know. As I have already mentioned in the question, "in fact, the actors I really love are the most average looking ones but it's their emotional and intense personality on screen that make me like them." So, I don't know.

[Diego9O]

You haven´t been in love I guest. When you are in love with someone you see that person as the most beautiful one in all the sense of the word.

[Asker]

It can be true.

[scrap422]

What do you think about me sweetie?

[Asker]

I am not here to rate anyone.

[blondfrog]

Maybe you're a lesbian?

[cuteguy22]

because you haven't seen me yet?

[Asker]

lol XD

[cuteguy22]

well the truth you keep looking at men in magazine like GQ.

[Asker]

I know they are not perfect and are photoshopped most of the times, but how am I supposed to appreciate someone who is both cute and have a PERFECT personality, even though they are not like some models or something.

[cuteguy22]

message and me tell you a lot!! well those model look good in real life too you just have move to right city to find them. try LA NY

[AloneLove]

Am ı hot so?
I m middle in pic ^^

[Asker]

Umm.. I am no one to judge.

[AloneLove]

No ı just wonder how man do u like lol
I didn't ask it to judge!

[Asker]

You are fine, I guess. To be honest, I find almost all guys fine at the first glance then I get used to their looks and start finding then not so attractive.

[AloneLove]

İt has simple answer
Because u never fall in love with them ! u deserve betters dont worry ^^

[Asker]

Maybe... Thanks for your response.

[JackKerouac77]

You could be gay.

[Asker]

:O I am never EVER attracted to girls.

[JackKerouac77]

You could be demisexual:

www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=demisexual

[Asker]

It actually explains me a lot.

[JackKerouac77]

Explains me as well. I learned the term on GaG!

[Anonymous]

You're normal.

[Asker]

Is it really normal to not find any guy attractive enough?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. It's normal.

[Asker]

Is there any cure? :/

[Opinion Owner]

It's normal so it's not a disease so there's nothing to cure.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're gay?

[Asker]

No, I am not.

[Opinion Owner]

How do you know until you've tried... you don't