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So for the longest time, I avoided wearing shorts, despite living in Florida, because most shorts are just way longer than I'd like. I don't like shorts that touch my knees. I like my shorts to be several inches above my knees. 5 inch inseam is my all time favorite length. That's about mid-thigh on me... a little bit shorter than mid-thigh when I sit.

Recently, I was lucky enough to find 4 pairs of 5 inch inseam shorts. One was khaki, one was light blue, one was light green, and one was gray.

And oh my god... they just look SO good on me, and are SO comfortable.

However... a lot of my peers have given me flak for wearing such short shorts.

They asked me if I was gay. I told them the truth, that I'm bisexual, but I like women more than men. They were like "that figures, so you are at least a little gay."

I don't really get it though... someone can be straight and wear short shorts.

After all, why not? I live in Florida. It regularly reaches 100 Fahrenheit or 40 Celsius, and like 80% humidity. Why would I wanna wear longer shorts?

Shorter shorts let my legs breathe, and I like to feel the sun and air on my thighs. It's also better for sweating.

The thing that matters most though, is my girlfriend LOVES how these shorts look on me. She's like, "Yes! Finally a man wearing shorts that are a proper length! No more of those half pants pieces of shit!"

For reference... this is how my shorts look on me. The legs of the guy in the picture look just like mine actually, except my legs are a wee bit less pale. And I completely shave my leg hair, because I'm a bisexual femguy. I can't tell if he shaved, or just doesn't have much leg hair.

So about me... I'm biologically male, but identify as agender, which basically means no gender. So my goal, is to look as androgynous or as gender-neutral as possible. If I were born a girl, I'd be masculine for a girl. But since I was born a guy, I'm feminine for a guy.

Physically... I shave off ALL of my body hair. Just all of it. It's not even that tedious to me, honestly. I just put on some music, and do it with patience, and takes me around 25-30 minutes a day.

I have a little bit of facial hair, but I shave it off too. My hair is very long for a guy. It goes to about the middle of my back. And I dye it platinum blonde, but my natural color is medium brown.

I like to keep my hands and skin in general super soft, and apply a lot of lotion and oil and massage daily.

I don't really wear makeup because I like my natural look, but I do use a little to hide blemishes or acne or whatever.

Emotionally... I talk about emotions with people, and I'm not afraid to say I cry at least once a week. I also love cute things, and emotional, sad, sappy movies and TV shows.

I'm pretty happy with who I am, and I have a girlfriend who loves me just as I am. She actually used to like pretty masculine guys, but she fell in love with me, and grew to love my physique.

Oh... and I'm bisexual too, if it's relevant at all. I like men and women exactly 50/50. But if I HAD to pick, I'd still choose women.

However... my dad is completely against me being so feminine, and so are a lot of my older family members.

Last time, I created a question poll about which gender group hurts women the most, with 72% of them saying that women hurt women the most over 28% of those who said it was men.

And, to be honest, I'm not surprised, because as much as modern society likes talks about how evil men are for oppressing women for over centuries, women are actually as responsible for women's oppression as men are since the Dawn of time, from Ancient Egypt to even the 21st century. And I'm not just talking about straight white women, I'm talking about women of all races and sexualities, including women who claim to be feminist and all about sisterhood, yet they criticised and shame women for harmless choices whether it's about their careers, looks, hobbies etc.
And there are a few examples I can say such as:

1) Men (of any sexual orientation) who are into comics, manga, anime and video games won't complain about fictional male characters being "too sexy, too muscular, too masculine etc." while women (especially SJW feminists) would complain about fictional female characters being "too sexy, too feminine, her boobs & butt being too big etc." because they think it's all about the "male gaze", even though lesbians and bisexual women can also be attracted to those types of women and not just men, plus there are plenty women who naturally look like this and aren't straight neither are trying to attract or impress men nor because society says that this is what women are supposed to "look like".

2) And it's not just women having a problem with fictional women who are physically attractive, in shape and very "feminine & girly" but also with women in real life who look, dress and act like that, more so than men do.

This why I believe women are as responsible for patriarchy existing as men are. Regardless, I would love for all of you to share your opinions whether or not you believe that women are their worst enemies, regardless of your gender and sexual orientation.