Is it possible to only have eyes for your partner?

[GlitterFairy16]

I love my boyfriend like crazy and i can't imagine my life with anyone else. I could never cheat on him, it's just not worth it, he means so much to me but at the same that doesn't mean either of us don't find others attractive.

I used to work with all men and i can't lie none of them compared to my boyfriend but sometimes id get a little blushed around some of them. Sometimes I've been walking down the street and seen a hot guy and checked him out but that doesn't mean id ever cheat.

I may look at other men but i still find my boyfriend the most beautiful of all. Im extremely attracted to him.

I've only got jealous once when i caught him checking out a group of girls but i usually realistic and acknowledg he's a man and he's gonna look at other women and that doesn't mean he's gonna cheat. Sometimes i even make fun out of him when i can tell he's gone all shy around s cute waitress or something.

Im aware of attractive women and my boyfriend has even asked if im bisexual because im not shy to compliment other women on their looks. I can just appreciate a attractive person doesn't mean im gonna fuck them.

The other day, me and my boyfriend were waiting to be served for over a hour at a cafe. Usually when my boyfriend complains to customer service he's a little bit more direct but this time he was very understanding. I automatically knew why. The waitress was a curvy little blonde in grey yoga pants. Once we were out, i made fun of him for it and he admitted it but then he gave me a cuddle and kiss and said i "only have eyes for you, my baby".

[sensible27]

I guess it depends on where you draw the line. It's not about what's worth it or not, don't know why you're even asking this question, loyalty is about loyalty. Personally I would prefer to think anything reactive is of the limits, once you start reacting as in start blushing or checking people out yeah I wouldn't like that. If you really love each other that shouldn't happen, you know who's attractive or not but if you don't like your partner enough that you aren't replused to the idea of others it's perhaps too far, again personally. And yes, it's true. If all people look similar to you or more or less as attractive why are you with your partner anyways? Just because he came first? I don't really understand.

[GlitterFairy16]

Because my relationship with my boyfriend is built on more than just physical attraction. I can dream about Chris Hemsworth and still only want to be with ny boyfriend because we have such a strong bond, nothing to do with who came first, it's to do with how well we work together as a couple.

[sensible27]

Well, no. Brain doesn't compartmentalize people according to 'stats' or so I doubt, it thinks of the whole person as in the person as a whole. I don't know how much you 'dream' or think 'physically' about other people (or he does) and I'm not trying to torpedo this relationship but if you actually like someone, like really really like someone you almost hate the idea of thinking about others. And again it depends on the lines but it's not something that happens with me, it's not that you don't know who's a bit more attractive or who other people would find attractive you just don't think about them that way. And, if you're thinking about chris Hemsworth or whatever maybe there's something wrong. Think about it this way/let me put it this way, your brain thinks of possibilities... and those possibilities aren't out of the realm of possibilities (generally) or at least your brain doesn't think that way (maybe). Unless... you're open to being polygamous and that may be a whole different thing all together... I don't really know if I can hammer this point much more and/or if I should. It's almost an abstract way of looking at things, you almost don't think other people even exist and that's that.

[Twalli]

Yes. I find other girls attractive. I've mentioned them by name to my girlfriend as we're in the same social circles. In fact my girlfriend was one of two girls I was crushing on. The only reason I am not still crushing on my girlfriend is because we're dating and I think a crush requires you to not know (or if you do know, share) the feelings she has. Because of this, I still have a crush on the other girl but still love my girlfriend and will never wander sexually or mentally. After all most people have celebrity crushes that their SO bgg as no problems with.

[cc-catlady]

YES, because we have freewill that gives you the ability to choose what we call beautiful and attractive with the sight from our eyes that determine us to think as. Our partner became our partner because we found this in them that got us to have as a partner today

[Aliceinwonderland22]

It is possible... I'm like that. I am completely in different to anyone else who try and be more than friends and I only get fluttery when around my partner...
It is nice that you seem happy, and I wish you all the happiness with your partner 😊

[007kingifrit]

no i think its inevitable to want someone else. but i think that's ok

here is why

https://www.youtube.com/embed/dlZsGpWJmos

[GlitterFairy16]

I must have a penis 🤣. I literally have the same approach at looking at other men as this video was explaining how men look at other women

[fall_angel-86]

There is absolutely no harm in looking, he'll i look at both genders and get turned on sometimes but I always turn to hubby for all my needs and he turns to me that's all that rally matters.

[Not_Average]

The reality of monogamy isn't this. It sounds like you're in love with him, and that's great. But through time with maturity, a relationship dynamic switches- and not in a bad way. Just a different way. Seems like this is puppy love. Enjoy it though.

[Belgie]

He's a guy - he's going to look. But he can learn to be more subtle about it. That's about the best you can get from a guy.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

These things happen in relationships, just remember there is a higher power who cares about you and ask him to direct the right man to be in your life

[NamerOfStars]

You could, but it's likely to mean trouble if you do. If it's only one body part you're reserving for them, I don't think eyes are the best choice.

[TallAnon]

Anything is possible, but remember that men's nature is to spread seed as much as possible whilr a women's nature is to find one suitable partner that is strong and can protect her. Different genders, different instincts.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think you have a very healthy attitude regarding this issue, and I think I agree with you. Though I personally would still try my best not to check out other girls if I was in a relationship.

[Dnice1]

Of Course! I only have eyes for my man and him alone. No man can compare to how beyond perfect he is 😊❤

[In_Trance]

Your thoughts are not unlike others that are in a newer relationship. Meaning 18 months or less

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

you're allowed to look.

[Gedaria]

Yes , very much so...

[jjj101010]

Yeah there’s no harm in looking

[JessieBellll]

Yes definitely

[BlackCatBone]

Men can't.