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This is about a guy I like, as usual.

I asked him when we first met about his past. He has had Gfs in the past that were all pretty small, the largest being about a D cup, I asked him why has hasen't persued a girl with a larger chest to his preference, he said personaliy counts first and for most regardless of preference. And he is the type of person that I believe what he said.

We have been friends for about two years, met in college.
He took me to work one day (at 4am mind you because my car was in the shop) and when he picked me up we gt on the discussion of what we like in bed.

Long story short he is a boob guy, like the bigger the better for him.

I personally see nothing wrong with it and was relieved he is a boob guy ( I am a 34HH myself) but it does make me think. I haven't told him i liked him and the reason is because I dont know if he will say he liked be back only for my breasts or for me.

I do honestly think he likes me for me simply because while I have caught him staring, if he lays in my lap while we play video games or we lay on the floor and taking a nap, while he will pull me close, he will not touch my chest or will pull down my shirt if it rises.

But yesterday was his birthday, and all of us did a little drink, nothing severe only 3 shots for me, and he stayed sober. When we went to sleep I was hot so I took off my top as did he, while the only extent of what we did was breast play after we woke up, afterwards he asked me how long does it take me to develop romantic feelings for someone. I told him only a few months but it takes long for me to know to persue it. He took a few moments to think and then told me he normally takes three years based on his passed. I didn't push it because I thought that may have been a signal to give him space, but he ended up cuddling next to me for the next couple of hours sleeping and then we went back to talking and having a good time for the rest of the day.

There has been no awkward tension and we are like how we were before, he is just a bit more touchy unless I ask him not to.

But I am lost to figuring out whe he asked me this question after what we did, that is what worries me that he is mixing his feelings with lust. But since he refused my advances to go any further, I got even more confused. He shows signs all the time that he likes me before this but is it for me or just my body? (Breast in particular)

Does it suit my body type (chubby)? Is there sth that looks horrific? Do you like the way I dress if not what is your preference?

I'm am between 5'7-5'8& never wear even the smallest heel because of this. I'm very skinny on the upper part of my body, tiny long arms, small perky breasts (large a cup-small b, it's hard to have any cleavage w/o a special bra),& small waist. As for my lower body-not trying to sound conceited but my ass gets checked out a lot. Its not huge or amazing or anything but it's def enough to jiggle and is bubble shaped. My legs aren't nearly as skinny as my arms but they are long so they aren't as thick as I'd like. Also have borderline large hands/feet they are petite just my fingers and toes are long-gross I know... aside from the obvious flaws I think my face is what would mainly make someone think I'm attractive it's not crazy striking but its proportionally shaped for the most part, with nice sized lips, blue eyes&long light brown hair with blonde highlights. I probably sound insecure or shallow for asking and I'm well aware personality is more important than looks but I can help but be just a tad self conscious about my body due to teasing while still in school. I was once called a bean pole because of my height/skinny frame and told I have "mosquito bites" also overheard guys at a party saying "she's got a 10 face but who cares go for the thicker chick with the alright face and dime body" plus seeing all these memes "real men like curves dogs like bones" has stuck with me through the years. Keep in mind these remarks were before I graduated gained just a little more weight and got a nice butt. But overall besides the booty (thank you mom!) I'm still the same tall skinny chick and wonder if the now present ass coupled with the face makes a difference or if a shorter girl with a ok face and nice thick body would be ideal. When I say thicker I mean curvy but still a healthy weight. Obviously it's all preference. I'm just trying to get a general idea here. Also don't afraid to be honest I promise my self image isn't as fragile as it prob sounds from this post lol