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Known her since a young age, she is your 11! Pure, hasn't dated, high value, self esteem, quality, classy, style, smarts, perfect curves, you know her character, she is your 11! You kept yourself pure as well. Others are hot, but they don't measure up!

You feel powerful LOVE for her (think of her best interests, patience, ooey gooey feelings), you are a little older, she's just 19 and getting close to starting dating. You desire (lust) her as well, you think about her, but LOVE is the powerful emotion at play!

You've stated your interest in her and she's flattered and smitten, she responds positively! But she has options, and is confused and somewhat restricted by family values. She plans to hold off until 21, then she'll start dating, that's her fathers rule and she respects her father! But the fact she is even considering you, makes you feel amazing!

And then Chad Thundercock shows up!

He is kryptonite to her female senses, she caves, he has his way with her! It was one time, she was at a place of weakness... it's a female, hormones, some guys have this power! She knows better and is remourseful... just one time and he was gone, he got what he wanted, another notch in his...

Not long later you get the message.

Chad is nowhere to be found, he's out!
Q1: How do you feel about her?

She's in a different place now, and she expresses her love for you. She's in need now and she states how of all the guys, she LOVES you and always did! She's SOOOOOO Sorry! She wants you, and begs of you!
Lets say you reject her cause the pain is too great!
2yrs go by, she kept herself pure through this, you know her circle and she did! She reaches out to you as she wants you! She sends you pics! She makes her play for you... this is your 11 guys, with accessory now!

Question: Would you take a chance with her to build a family? Or would you take the pain and move on?

"Back in the day" (when I was a young man, shortly after the Spanish-American War,) there was no internet, no cell phones, no texting, no FB, IG, SC, Twitter, G@G, TInder, POF, match. com, or anything else. Somehow we survived!

Anyway. . . sometimes, a friend's girlfriend would say, "I have a friend who would be PERFECT for you!" When I asked, "What does she look like?" they would respond, "She has a great personality," and that let me know to not expect a beauty queen. Sometimes, the friend's girlfriend would set up a date, sometimes it would be a double date with the friend and his girlfriend, and I would just show up and meet the lucky contestant. Sometimes, I would call the girl to arrange the date but I never met her, or saw her, in advance of the date. These were called "blind dates;" perhaps that term is still used.

Usually, there were no great surprises, because I entered such dates with virtually no expectations, though I did have one date with a girl - Candace -from Agnes Scott College who was charming and beautiful! None of the blind dates resulted in a long term relationship, but it did develop some dating skills that later became useful (I started college when I was 16 - not common in my day - and was trying to date girls who were at least 3 years older than me. Yes, that was harder than Chinese arithmetic!)

Have you ever had a blind date? How did it work out for you? Did he or she "have a wonderful personality?"