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What do you prefer? Who would you rather be with? Someone who is really dedicated towards something so like working out like if she's entering a bikini or bodybuilding competition, or her job and she takes her business really seriously, or this club she's associated with, etc? Or someone who is not so "obsessed" or dedicated to something and is more flexible so yeah she works out, its her hobby but she's not super dedicated to it where she restricts herself and likes to balance everything out, or yeah she has her business going on but thats not all she's working on, or she is associated with a club but doesn't go all the time to their events and makes time for herself too including with you. It's an interesting topic because I noticed when either a girl or boy has someone who is dedicated to something, it can become a bump in the long-run but overall, its attractive to many that that person is so dedicated to something. But I guess when real situations happen, thats when you determine if its not so attractive anymore. Personally as girl, I like it when guys are dedicated to their career. I've never dated an athlete or anyone like that but I think that would be a no for me because it seems a little overwhelming to have to deal with their schedules and life in general. I've dated someone who really cared for his job and future career and it turned me on, thats one of the things that attracted to me about him but there were times where I felt left out so now i feel like do I want someone so dedicated? On the other side, what do guys want in a girl?

So I've been with this guy for nearly 2 months and I'm a bit confused on what to define it.
1. We're not seeing other people.
2. We went out together on dates at first until he lost his job about a month ago, so most of the time I stay at his and we cook together.
3. We go for coffee, and go out with his friends when he can afford it.
4. His parents know about me.
5. He lives within walking distance from me so meeting up is very flexible... like he will ask what I'm doing one evening, and if I'm free I'll see him and stay over at his. We do plan things on the weekends.
6. We sometimes meet up on my lunch hour breaks.
7. He wants a job where he will be happy and will boost his career, however if he doesn't get one in the next 3 months, he's thinking about teaching abroad for 3 months... it's all very up in the air.
8. We both came out of long LTR's earlier this year. What is this? If he lived further away, I wouldn't see him spur of the moment during the week.
9. We both have admitted at the start we really like each other and we want to take our time together.

What this?