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So I'm a 20 year old guy, and I've seen a lot of videos and infographics that talk about how you should choose your hairstyle and facial hair by your face shape. Using the technique, I'm very confused. I feel like i have a triangle and rectangle face at the same time, which honestly kinda makes choosing this stuff hard. I do like my hairstyle, though, as it is a mix of a quiff and a combover, which I feel suits my face very well. However, when it comes to my facial hair, I'm really confused. Mostly up until January of this year, I had been rocking minimal stubble, and while a lot of infographics say triangle faces should have minimal stubble at most, I felt that my face looked really, really large and I never really liked it. However, after growing it out to about 8-9mm, I really started to love it. My parents don't think so though, as they're always saying i need to cut it off. However, I have never liked being clean shaven, and I don't feel like myself without at least a heavy stubble (5mm) at minimum. I really like the 8mm I have on right now, as I feel it gives me sort of a more mature, edgy look. I've heard that girls my age won't even really give me a chance if I have a beard, but I don't want to have to shave just to possibly get girls.

I'm just curious as to what your opinion is, and I'd love to hear from both guys and girls. Tell me how old you are, and why you chose the option you did.

My sister was telling me about this tonight. My sister is a bit of a stuck up bitch, if I'm honest, but I'm wondering if she's right about this. I'm paraphrasing, but she basically said that women will sometimes flirt with and date guys who aren't as desirable as the woman actually wants, to work her way up to guys she actually wants to date.

Think of like flirting with or dating the chubby but nice guy to see if you can land a better guy down the road. I'm a little bit chubby myself, and she was saying I need to lose weight. I hear what she's saying, and I agree that I need to lose weight, but the dudes I see getting girls (girls at least as hot as the kind who show interest in me), are at least as heavy as me. Because of that reason, and some other life experiences that I have had, I just don't think my weight matters that much in dating. I am open to being wrong though.

Do women actually do this? How much of a turn off is it for a guy to have a belly and love handles?