Search Results: how to deal with shy guys

Why are women looked down so much for talking to a guy first?

Nothing pisses me off more than when someone tells me to, "let him go to you, don't do anything... if he likes you, he'll go to you." For me it's like saying, "guys like girls who put ZERO effort in talking to them, it's...

Mooochi

Xper 4 Age: 29

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Guys, Would it be a deal breaker for you?

If you go on a date with a girl, and she is really nervous, quiet and shy kind of girl who needs at least 2 dates to open up with you, would you consider it a deal breaker?

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you go on a date with a girl, and she is really nervous, quiet and shy kind of girl who needs at least 2 dates to open up with you, would you consider it a deal breaker?

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Advice is needed pleaseeee ?

Okay so I have this guy for a class. He's really nice and talkative but can be shy from time to time. Since the beginning of the school year, I can tell he looked at me a lot but I thought it was no big deal (if it was a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls would you let a guy carry you or give you a piggyback ride, if you know he likes you and A) you're not interested B) You like him back?

Girl is shy Girl is 22 im 23 Girl knows i like her I've said it and she is well aware i like her.; I got her to go to the doctor because she has a had a problem that has affected her mentally and physically for over 2...

Anton23

Xper 5 Age: 33

Girl is shy Girl is 22 im 23 Girl knows i like her I've said it and she is well aware i like her.; I got her to go to the doctor because she has a had a problem that has affected

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Relationships

What do you guys think?

So I been crushing on the same guy for 2 years. Well he's shy for the most part like me. Anyway since day 1, I've always gotten the feeling that he likes me back. This next part is a little strange and it's never happened...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, would you find it weird/awkward if a girl that has been flirting with you asks if you're single?

There's a guy I have a huge crush on but don't know if he's single. Im really shy so Im not sure if it would be weird or not a big deal

Anonymous

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Guys, Is lack of intimacy really a problem for guys?

I use to see this guy. We'd do stuff but he'd never pressure me for sex or anything, which was fine. And we were seeing eachother for a good couple of months before we started doing anything. I know I was one of the first...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Walk the Walk & Text the Talk

I won't have time to enter this in G@G’s weekly contest due to time, but that is completely okay because I want to write this myTake anyways. I see all too often people trying desperately to decipher vague or confusing...

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How long does a guy usually wait to ask a girl on a date?/ Will he ever ask me out or am I misinterpreting the situation?

In my situation, we've been talking for a little over a month, just casual talk. He works at the dining center and usually stops by my table, (in the morning I'm usually alone) to chat. But before we actually started...

GlibSluice

Xper 2 Age: 29

Is it okay for the girl to text a guy FIRST?

In every stereotypical TV show or movie, it always involves the guy figuring out how to text the girl. Usually, guys are supposed to be "the man" and talk to the girl, text the girl, and ask the girl out FIRST. But what...

Catalie

Editor Age: 23

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What do guys want a shy girl to do when they like them?

I am a shy girl. When I find someone attractive I do everything in my power to show them I don't. It's a way I deal with the rejection I think I will happen. This situation is different though, this guy is shy like me. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a deal breaker if your gf/bf from another culture doesn't fit in with your family and friends?

I'm dating a guy and we're from different cultures. i'm Asian and he's white. tbh apart from work, i dont really have any white friends and only hang out with Asian people. I'm painfully shy too so it adds up to the...

Anonymous

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Guys, Is he into me? if so, why hasn't he made a move?

i became friends with this guy a few months ago. we've hung out at each other's places a couple of times.. he never made a move either time. We're both single. The couple times I cracked a dumb sex joke, he got shy and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Valentine's Day

Why does she do this?

There is this girl who I have been trying to get to know and next week I'm going to ask her if she wants to hang out on Sunday (valentines day). She doesn't seem to talk to me much but is usually happy when I do actually...

Shadowtrooper_BNG

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Why Pick-Up Should Be Taught in Schools

Pick-Up is often stigmatized as this 'manipulative' practice of 'tricking' women to have sex with a guy. But it's really much, much more than that, and much different than that those who believe what it is. This whole art...

Words_and_Wisdom

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Relationships

Do girls like shy innocent guys?

I'm a 19 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend before. I'm pretty a short guy (5ft 4) but apparently I'm really cute ( I have really big dark eyes). Personality wise, I'm pretty chilled out and enjoy to have fun...

WANTTOFALLFORSOME1

Xper 5 Age: 31

Can you explain their behavior?

These guys in my class just stare at me and they make it pretty obvious. They talk and look back at me every time. They know who I am. One always gives me my papers when we have tests which we get ourselves but he ALWAYS...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I don't have a clue at all! What do you guys think about this situation?

So this wasn't really a confession more like opening of the discussion of this issue. Anyway I messaged the guy I like on fb ( bad way I know but it was the only way) to open up the discussion of his feelings for me. The...

Anonymous

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