Search Results: keeping him interested

So I’ve tried paid and free apps. I don’t see a difference in the quality of men I’ve spoken to. Both apps have freaks and creeps. I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong but I meet people that met their spouses and partners online. I haven’t met anyone of interest. I’ve been on and off these apps for years and no luck. I don’t have friends in person so I don’t know how else to go about keeping my options open.

Hypothetical ::

You Guys liked each other for nearly two years before you began dating it just took a while to get to where you could talk about it. Well you texted, she wasn’t ready.

Your family loves her and she adores them, your grandmother has essentially adopted her , while dog is like your adopted son. You guys basically began dating when he came home and he’s been attached to you ever since.

I am not adding detail to sway you just give you a picture... these may be reasons why you would further NOT want to agree to this arrangement. I’m not sure I should’ve added it 🤷‍♀️

Anyhow.. You guys are in love have been together for a year.

She’s 4 years younger and has never been in a relationship.

You’ve been in several but haven’t been seriously in love till now.

You have to move hours away for graduate school.

You want her to move with you and live with you in the new state.

She has obligations keeping her where she is.

She does not want to break up, but she would like some time to herself to grow as she is young and the relationship moved very quickly bc you felt so strongly for each other.

She is not interested in dating other people. However, in light of the moving, she wants to have a temporary separation.

You guys would:

remain good friends.

You are free to see other people privately without discussing it.
(she really does not want to has no interest in dating anyone else. It’s not a ploy.)

In a few years, you get back together in the same state.