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Lets say the guy feels good to you, he's good at romancing and you feel the energy, you feel the connection and you get a sense of his intention so you want him, and it's a passionate evening on the first meeting or two! But, he also wants to go for relationship and goes for that, and it's your choice to continue or not of course... he's not just a user.

Is that a good start, or is it better to start with... get to know more me, here's what I think, coffee shop, dinner, date me, take time and make it a process?

"A cheating man can continue to love his woman. Cheating women have lost respect for their man"

If a woman cheats, it is more likely to signal an end to the relationship than if a man cheats. For many men, sex is sex, and relationships are relationships

When women cheat, there is usually an element of romance, intimacy, connection, etc... Men, on the other hand, are more likely to cheat to satisfy sexual urges, with fewer thoughts of intimacy. For them, infidelity can be an opportunistic, primarily sexual action that, in their minds, does not affect their primary relationship.

In fact, many men will report that they’re very happy in their primary relationship, that they love their significant other, that their sex life is great, and that, despite their cheating, they have no intention of ending their primary relationship.

A relationship damaged by a man’s infidelity might be more likely to survive after infidelity is uncovered, as opposed to when a woman has cheated

Often you hear women how they're waiting for the right guy for years to lose virginity with or to have a sex with. For years they're rejecting guys and telling them stories about love, compatibility, mutual respect and other other sugared stories which you can see in movies or in your favorite romance book. For years they're going on dates and torture their dates for weeks or months before anything sexual happens, if it happens. But usually it doesn't.

But what happens in reality? Finally they lose virginity to a guy who they met on first night - usually some party or similar social event happening in night time. Usually they do it with a super hot guy, who bangs girls for a hobby, in a sports manner, and in most cases without any protection and on a weird place like toilette, in a car on parking lot, basement etc... If you asked a girl what happened, she would tell you that "she felt connected with", "liked him", "she thought it was a start of relationship", "it just happened..." and similar stories, that apparently didn't apply to any date before. However, if you ask guy what happened, he would tell you that he met a girl, they did some chit chat, drank something and then they had fu*ked. Just another virgin to devirginate, or just another woman to bang, just another day in the office.

Conclusion: most women wait for a guy, who is hot enough, to fuc* them. All the stories they tell about love and relationships are pure BS.

Ask guys what they understand about girls and relationships and most of them will eventually say that girls want their boyfriend to be their best friend. We understand that. You want your boyfriend to be closer than anyone else, to be your confidante, to be supportive and caring, to always be there for you. Yeah, we get that. And actually. . . many guys want the same thing in a girlfriend.

So, when your best male friend indicates that he is attracted to you, why do you automatically go to that instinctive, sub-cortical, knee jerk reaction: "But I don't want to take a chance on losing our friendship!" Do you know how lame that sounds to guys? Do you know how STUPID that sounds? And it actually makes some of us angry just to hear those lame words!

How often do you actually have a relationship in which your partner DOES become your best friend? If you feel some physical attraction to your male best friend, wouldn't that give you the best possibility of finding that boyfriend/best friend combination?

Or, is this "But I don't want to take a chance on losing our friendship!" line just a pathetic way of avoiding telling us that you aren't attracted and the idea of actually kissing us makes you want to vomit?

Guys i am genderfluid male attracted mostly to tomboyish females its like a gender role reversal thing hope u got that cause i hate explaining it so much anyways there is that gorgeous girl who seems to be in love with me since beginning of high school she used to flirt with me even saying good stuff about me she tried back then to talk to me twice but i just ignored her completely cause i had that feeling we r not compatible cause i like philosophy and science and she barely knows anything about she seems smart socially but not that much with thinkin and imagination not geeky what i meant to say she is just perfect as lover but not someone that i can share all my life with like we can have awesome sex and romance but i don't think we can think the sane way or together also and i am not sure i can trust her lots of people say she is a player last days she was like doing anything to be with me but i feel like this relationship is not gonna work although i know its rare to find a female who loves me like her or be like that with like her but i have a strong feelin we won't work cause i don't think i can live with any females but tomboyish geeky ones she act tomboyish the way i love but she is not geeky at all and the fact that i can't really know if she is doing all of this just to get me and satisfy her eggo is confusing me so much
Would u guys try such a relationship if u know with high percentage it won't work or just wait for ur perfect fit even when u know geeky tomboyish females are so rare
I can't really stand a hurt feelings or leaving someone who got. A place in my life it is just frustrating for me do u think that kind of relationship would work?