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Ok i really need your help on this pretty please guys :)

basically i have a gay best friend - a dude. we have been friends for 9 years now and done a few trips together - well that was before i met the man i love. a year ago i met him and my world changed. i was actually on a trip with my best friend when it happened.

lately my best friend is acting so bitchy and selfish. normally he's pretty good at asking how i am and all that - but lately its all about him. given, his father passed away last year - i flew over to germany where he lives and attended the funeral and gave him support - i was the only friend that came. ironically, im the one he is sort of punishing and ignoring now.

he's met my man numerous times and i guess they were somewhat competitive? they have had a few little arguments and I've tried not to interject as i resepct that they are each individuals. but lately i feel like he's just being mean to hurt me. i have always been there for him and my own father has cancer - and he hardly checks in. my partner got sick a while ago and he would never ask unless i brought it up.

now - he tells me 'oh sorry, just so busy' and that he's coming over in may - well, he didn't even ask my plans or if i can do that - just tells me.

in his apartment, there's pics of me and him on our trips - everywhere. and this year he made a 2015 calendar with pics of just us. sometimes i feel like he does it or is doing it, just to say 'she's mine' or...maybe im off. i dont know just feels weird. and sometimes he will totally spoil me...once on a trip in italy i woke up and he was in the room just staring and smiling at me - it was the first time i felt uncomforatble - and vowed not to travel with him alone again - and i never have.

i love him as a friend, but he's being such a pr*Ck lately. seems my needs as a friend are irrelevant, and i really want to break up with his as a m