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Okay, so, a while ago, I fell out with my 'best friend'. We had only been 'best friend's for a couple of years, but it felt like we had known each other forever. It started when her and her boyfriend broke up, and I had just got with a guy in my friendship group (we're still together, in case you're wondering :p). A week after her and her bf broke up, she started to call up my boyfriend once a week, which I thought was okay at first. Then she started calling him every night, and telling him that she fancied him. Naturally, I started to lose trust in her, and I asked my bf not to pick up the phone when she called (I hate it, but I am over-protective).
Two of my other friends decided that we should get a load of people together and go swimming. I didn't particularly want my 'best friend' to come with us, partly because I had lost trust in her, partly because she hated the people who organised it. I then told my boyfriend this, who then told his best friend. He told his best friend not to tell anyone, but he didn't listen, and then told my 'best friend'.
She then texted my boyfriend saying that I'm a control freak, and that I'm a bitch, and then asked him to chose between me and her. He then said me, and she said "f**k you, stay with that control freak if you want to. I don't care anymore. Bye!"
A few months later I tried to apologise to her, but she basically turned around and said that she hated me.

I just wanted to know if I was the one in the wrong here. If I should feel bad.

(I know this is very long, and I apologise for that).

I'm just going to get right into the story.

This girl I know has had a very hard life from sexual assault to abuse, which really brought her into depression, but this story isn't about that. After a long time she put that all in her past, and decided to look forward, which is when she met this guy. I'll call her V and him T. They met online through a fan-based site, T had actually been the one to start talking to V. After a little while of talking, they decided to meet in person with they're friends. There was an instant connection between the two, and things went great for the most part. Untill T started saying small lies, nothing to bad but enough to set off some alarms in V. It didn't help that V's friends filled her with negative thoughts about the relationship she had. But it's one thing to trust someone and it's another for them to take advantage of it. Rather than ease her mind, he made her feel guilty. Things happened, and she began an inner battle, you see she really loved him, but she felt she wasn't being treated good enough, so she acted out, becoming somebody she's not, and became irrational. She was hurt so easily, and he never made attempts to make things right. He left her because it became to much for him (and because of everyone else), but V still loves him and is working on herself, but T won't talk to her.
(Sorry it's pretty rushed, T isn't as bad as he sounds. They're both really good people, but they had a bad falling out, and T doesn't talk much anymore, and V has developed social anxiety.)